shaeway Posted November 23, 2009 Posted November 23, 2009 I met a man a little over a month ago. We spent the next three weeks texting all day everyday. Then he called. We now talk on and off while still texting all day, despite hanging out every other day. I get the just had a minute at work and wanted to say hi phone calls. He's handsome, wickedly smart, wonderful sense of humor, affectionate, caring:love:...it goes on. He has a young son. I met his son and he is adorable too. Just under a year old. This is almost too good to be true. Oh he's a great dad too. And mom is in the pic, they get along for the most part. As I write this I'm thinking geez, what's the problem? There isn't one and that's the problem. I am so nervous I'm going to fall hard for him and get my heart broken. My best freind tells me not to overthink things and just have fun. I'd like to. I guess my question is this, can something that seems so wonderful, actually be wonderful? Or have I just grown cynical over the years?
SoulSearch_CO Posted November 23, 2009 Posted November 23, 2009 Just hang in there. It'll take time to really get to know an ENTIRE person. But yes - it's possible for somebody to be fantastic. I'm having a hard time with not being jaded, myself. Just enjoy yourself and as time goes on, the trust will build. Don't sabotage future happiness because of past hurts.
Author shaeway Posted November 23, 2009 Author Posted November 23, 2009 Thanks. Yeah you're right. I need to just relax and wait. Although if he keeps being this way I'll be falling in love before I can stop it! It is just unsettling to meet someone that is so close to being the man of my dreams. Well, cross your fingers!!
aerogurl87 Posted November 23, 2009 Posted November 23, 2009 I met a man a little over a month ago. We spent the next three weeks texting all day everyday. Then he called. We now talk on and off while still texting all day, despite hanging out every other day. I get the just had a minute at work and wanted to say hi phone calls. He's handsome, wickedly smart, wonderful sense of humor, affectionate, caring:love:...it goes on. He has a young son. I met his son and he is adorable too. Just under a year old. This is almost too good to be true. Oh he's a great dad too. And mom is in the pic, they get along for the most part. As I write this I'm thinking geez, what's the problem? There isn't one and that's the problem. I am so nervous I'm going to fall hard for him and get my heart broken. My best freind tells me not to overthink things and just have fun. I'd like to. I guess my question is this, can something that seems so wonderful, actually be wonderful? Or have I just grown cynical over the years? I'm happy your enjoying the honeymoon stage but believe me this man HAS flaws. No one is perfect, so don't put him up too high on a pedestal he can't live up to forever.
carhill Posted November 23, 2009 Posted November 23, 2009 My best friend tells me not to overthink things and just have fun Hang on to that one. She's smart
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