Asimpleman Posted November 21, 2009 Posted November 21, 2009 Hi and good evening, Well my story goes like this and I am just so lost, confused, hurt and feel forgotten. There is a girl I had been dating for 4 months (we were friends prior) and we were really attached to eachother. We would see eachother everyday, always talk on the phone, had cute nick names and were very intimate at times. It was until we made things official that it started to get weird. It went from seeing eachother once a week and I completely understand when someone says they are busy by all means have your space. We still talked everyday and were very cute towards eachother. It just progressed more and more to the point now where I had seen her twice in the past two months. She puts her friends in front of me and im no longer a priority. I had a serious talk and told her she is hurting me and I dont get how if she tells me I am so important to her that she is content with knowing that she is hurting me. Why is it okay to just ignore me for days? All my pains and hurts are gone on that rare chance that we are together. When we are away I miss her so much and it just doesnt seem to affect her.. So my dilemma is do I continue to stay with someone who i dont feel cares about me anymore or do I just break up with her and maybe she will remember what it was like to care about and miss me. I treat her like a princess and who knows, maybe she got too used to it. I just wish things were the way they were before. It just hurts
jerseyboy Posted November 21, 2009 Posted November 21, 2009 Exactly the point I was making in the other thread. Its like they are putting estrogen in the water
karmait28 Posted November 21, 2009 Posted November 21, 2009 I actually had to register to this forum when i read this. I also agree that there has to be something in the water, I was dating a girl for 2 months and I feel like she doesnt appreciate what I do for her either. One day she will be holding hands, hugging, and kissing. The next time i see her she is cold, mean and has something to say about everything. Tonight was one of those cold and mean nights, so confused........
SoulSearch_CO Posted November 21, 2009 Posted November 21, 2009 Kinda sounds to me like she's not really interested in you anymore, but she's too chicken to break up with you, OP. Sorry. There's no way a guy I was really into would be so far down my priority list. He'd still at least register on it - which it doesn't sound like you do. You're a back-up plan when she gets bored. I actually had to register to this forum when i read this. I also agree that there has to be something in the water, I was dating a girl for 2 months and I feel like she doesnt appreciate what I do for her either. Exactly the point I was making in the other thread. Its like they are putting estrogen in the water *snicker* karmait, I think JB was trying to hint that the men on the board are intaking estrogen. I'll let you pick it up from there. But that's the impression I got.
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