AllInOne Posted November 21, 2009 Posted November 21, 2009 So I am not the most social guy but I don't have to much trouble striking up conversations with random women I meet in public. However, I have never asked for a phone number becuase it never felt right. I have begun to wonder if I just need to ignore my feelings and go ahead and ask for it after a few minutes of conversation. Is this how most people do it? Was something said or done that made you think the other person would give you her/his number if you asked?
jerseyboy Posted November 21, 2009 Posted November 21, 2009 Ask for a phone or email. Usually theyll give you the email. Which if its an absolute stranger , which is how I interpreted your post, is likely more comfortablke and less threatening. I wouldnt even give my number to a woman regardless of how she looked who asked for it aftewr just talking on the street.
Yukikazi Posted November 23, 2009 Posted November 23, 2009 If you've gotten the opener and have noticed a few (like 3 at least) indicators that she is attracted to you... just tell her you have to go meet your friends or an appointment or something but, you'd like to continue this conversation with her, while sliding a piece of paper and pen to her. She will know damn well what you are implying. But by not asking, she can't say no.. she will either give you her number or a fake.. 50/50 chance of getting the real one and then its game on. Depends on how your rapport with her goes. Not the most popular method to get the # but it does work and its not creepy or forward.
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