bbf Posted November 21, 2009 Posted November 21, 2009 Sometimes you hear girls shouldn't have sex with a man too soon because it will turn into friends with benefits. If a man is given the chance for a FWB then he'll take it because that's ideal for him. Hearing stuff like that gives me the impression that everyone takes it for granted that men just want sex and women just want money and/or a relationship. I'm interested to hear what the guys and girls on this forum think about this. Overall sounds like a pretty unhealthy mentality. That would mean that women don't bring anything to the table except sex. Everything else they bring are emotional and financial burdens to the man. Do guys agree this is true? Do women accept that this is true and just try to make the best of it?
threebyfate Posted November 21, 2009 Posted November 21, 2009 Let's talk about sex, baby, Let's talk about you and me, Let's talk about all the good things, Let's talk about the bad things that may be... Fact: Men want sex from the woman they're interested in. Fact: If men don't get a chance to know you first, your only connection is through sex. If people accept these two facts, they can work with them, instead of against them.
jerseyboy Posted November 21, 2009 Posted November 21, 2009 Men pretty much want sex from any woman they are attracted to I think is closer to the truth. In a pinch theyll take it from women they arent attracted to as well, then tell their friends they were just drunk if they were spotted:eek: And the answer is no. Men want more, just like women do. Whether he wants it from any one particular person is obviously a different matter, and then the real issue is does he want you, or is it all about the first paragraph. The best way to find out is still to make him wait before having sex imo. But I can only speak for me and my limited observation of others. Im also of the opinion that FWB is total bs. Not that I doubt it exists for some people, and perhaps even works for others in between relationships or convenience what have you. But in my experience its largely a device women employ, at least where Im involved, to try and establish the groundwork for further intimacy and a relationship. Or exes who wish to continue seeing you and or get back together. Especially whne you are the type of person who tends to be occupied by other things in life like work, and arent looking for a relationship for whatever reason at this time. Or annoying married/involved people looking to drag you into some drama filled affair.
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