whattothink Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 So a friend introduced me to this guy via text. We texted back and forth for a week and a half before I let him come over. I just moved so he carried heavy boxes, light my water heater, painted and we chatted for over two hours. I know you're not supposed to but we ended up making out which let to sex. Afterwards, we cuddled for two hours. He talked about his kids, life, career, what we really wanted to do, etc. Finally he said we should go to bed. In the morning he let me dog out, kissed me good-bye and tucked me back in. While I was sleeping he texted me saying it was great to finally meet me. So I went to lunch with the friend that introduced us and she was rather bitter. Saying that he always cuddles and goes around doing other people. While, yes, we all do, she was really bitter the way she said it...another friend was with us. Monday evening he texted me telling me that he had a date that night! Will someone help me understand this???
BobSacamento Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 What is there to get? You got what you wanted, he got what he wanted. Sounds like an even exchange of services if you ask me.
Lucky_One Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 Guys can like snuggling as much as a girl does, even if it just a ONS. You don't give much info, but any chance that your friend slept with him on a ONS, too? She sure knows a lot about his sex life.
BWLoca Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 But why would the friend introduce the OP to him after being a ONS? Some friend...
dreamergrl Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 So your 'first date' consisted of him doing house work for you and sex? Maybe he wants to go out on a real date with someone instead of making a house call to do some handy man work in exchange for sex.
JL911 Posted November 20, 2009 Posted November 20, 2009 Seems to be a fair exchange for the services provided...lol Seriously...I dont get how this works??!?...Hey Id like to meet you...think you can come over and do a bunch of work for me? Not a very personal or intimate setting for meeting a guy...Think maybe you coulda had a few drinks somewhere, or went to a movie, then had sex prior to making him your bit@h...lol
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