Author tigressA Posted November 19, 2009 Author Posted November 19, 2009 She isn't able to see his profile, period, and the same goes for him with her.QUOTE] What about their mutual friends? You don't think they are reporting back to both parties unless they both told their friends specifically not to mention the EX to them? This comment comes off so paranoid. Why would I worry about it to THAT extent? Plus, if you read earlier posts in this thread, you'll find that they're already aware of the fact that they're both with other people because they talked for the last time just yesterday. So it's not like any of their friends would be bringing back fresh news.
DustySaltus Posted November 19, 2009 Posted November 19, 2009 This comment comes off so paranoid. Why would I worry about it to THAT extent? Plus, if you read earlier posts in this thread, you'll find that they're already aware of the fact that they're both with other people because they talked for the last time just yesterday. So it's not like any of their friends would be bringing back fresh news. I'm not saying to WORRY, I'm saying BE AWARE. Two weeks....
Author tigressA Posted November 22, 2009 Author Posted November 22, 2009 I haven't seen him or talked to him since after our class on Friday. He said that this last week really burned him out and he needed time away from it all to think through things. I kind of expected that to happen since after Wednesday there wasn't much interaction between us. He specifically said he wasn't sure if he was ready to be in a relationship again. I was thinking, "Well, I could've told you that" but I didn't say it. I was only disappointed because I thought I was going to see him this weekend. I can understand that with everything that happened over the last week, he's feeling like he acted too soon and got in over his head. I was thinking that too. It was just that when he talked to me on Wednesday I thought, "Well, why not, since our situation is basically that we're a couple without the label on it, anyway?" and got swept up in it. I should've stopped him though, thinking about it now, but no use speculating on that. I really think that it's just the fact that he moved to put the relationship label on us that made him pull back on Friday. I'd be fine with reverting back to what was going on before. With everything that's happened, it's clear that there's something special there on both sides, but there's also a very delicate balance between nurturing what we've got and stepping into something that he, I or both of us aren't ready for. We just have to work on finding that balance. At least, that's what I think. Of course there is the possibility that he'll want to just scrap everything between us and not see me again, and if that does happen I'll be disappointed, but at least I'll have learned a valuable lesson. I'm still fairly confident that that won't be the case though. I'll see him in class tomorrow and I have little doubt we'll be talking afterward.
Ariadne Posted November 22, 2009 Posted November 22, 2009 I really think that it's just the fact.. very delicate balance between... stepping into something... work on finding that balance... Of course there is the possibility... still fairly confident.. Like the title says: now it's complicated. Well, at least you fall in love just like that.
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