prayingshecomesback Posted November 17, 2009 Posted November 17, 2009 I hung out with my best friend I have known for years a couple weeks ago. His sister is my secret crush and I have known her my whole life too. We went to some bars and she was there with a friend. I met her friend and we hit it off. We were staring at each other across the room... It was that loving feeling if you know what I mean. Didn't really talk to her later that night but I get the call from my friend the next day that she liked me and thought I was cute. I got her phone number and started texting and calling her. It was a lot of fun talking to her. Then the next weekend I take her out bowling with friends and we had such a good time that night. Hung out at some bars and then when we were walking home late at night pretty drunk... The major kissing and making out happened. We ended up going back to my friends apartment and had hot steamy sex that night. It was awesome. The next morning we kiss and she tells me to come to this thing with her the next weekend and I said yes. Later that night we texted a couple times back and forth. And then all of a sudden... She cuts me off completly. I sent her 2 texts on 2 different days and call her but she never responded to anything. Her best friend is also my good friend I have known for a while and sometimes I think she has a crush on me. She pinches my butt and is always touchy feely with me. I don't think she would say to her to stay away from me... But I don't understand how this girl just totally dropped off the planet. Maybe she just wasn't that into me, but why would she tell me to go out with her the next weekend and then just ignore me? Now what do I do? Any help I thank u very much in advance.
Author prayingshecomesback Posted November 17, 2009 Author Posted November 17, 2009 Also, do girls talk? I know guys do but I'm just wondering.
Author prayingshecomesback Posted November 19, 2009 Author Posted November 19, 2009 Does anyone want to take a stab at this? Should I try to contact the girl again? I sent 2 texts and called but she hasnt responded. Do you think her best friend is telling her not to date me? That would suck considering we are really good friends that have known each other for a while. DAMNIT! I hate these freaking games.
Lindarose84 Posted November 19, 2009 Posted November 19, 2009 You've texted and called this girl twice- I wouldn't initiate contact after that. As a woman, I'd see that my ignoring you hasn't gotten through to you and see that one, you're a blockhead (which I'm sure you're not), and two, you're desperate. She has gotten your messages, if she wants to see you she will. If you haven't heard from her for another week, I would just move on. My opinion is that I think the friend may have guilted her into cutting contact with you since it seems maybe she has a thing for you.
jerseyboy Posted November 19, 2009 Posted November 19, 2009 Why do you think there has to be something more to it than the obvious. You went out Had sex Sent you a few obligatory texts Now avoiding all contact. Im just graspoing here.........maybe......I dont know.,....that hot steamy sex wasnt all that great for her? Not that into you? Doesnt want to become permanently involved with you Just out of curiousity, why do people keep pursuing peopel who clearly want nothing to do with them?
Author prayingshecomesback Posted November 19, 2009 Author Posted November 19, 2009 You've texted and called this girl twice- I wouldn't initiate contact after that. As a woman, I'd see that my ignoring you hasn't gotten through to you and see that one, you're a blockhead (which I'm sure you're not), and two, you're desperate. She has gotten your messages, if she wants to see you she will. If you haven't heard from her for another week, I would just move on. My opinion is that I think the friend may have guilted her into cutting contact with you since it seems maybe she has a thing for you. Thanks for the advice. I am not calling her. I am seeing her best friend (my secret crush) this weekend but I dont want to bring up what happened. I will wait for her to start talking about it (if she does). I wonder if she told her that we had sex and stuff. sucks... I really didnt think girls talked about that stuff like guys did. I did a lot of stupid stuff (maybe I am a blockhead) at the beginning of this. After we did it I told her I loved her, haha...but she said she loved me too. We were pretty drunk though so maybe she didnt take it too seriously. Unpretected sex too (uggggggg). Not to mention messing around with the best friend of the girl I have mad feelings for. Im such a meathead. I will be single forever. Im buying a dog. screw it.
jerseyboy Posted November 19, 2009 Posted November 19, 2009 Thanks for the advice. I am not calling her. I am seeing her best friend (my secret crush) this weekend but I dont want to bring up what happened. I will wait for her to start talking about it (if she does). I wonder if she told her that we had sex and stuff. sucks... I really didnt think girls talked about that stuff like guys did. I did a lot of stupid stuff (maybe I am a blockhead) at the beginning of this. After we did it I told her I loved her, haha...but she said she loved me too. We were pretty drunk though so maybe she didnt take it too seriously. Unpretected sex too (uggggggg). Not to mention messing around with the best friend of the girl I have mad feelings for. Im such a meathead. I will be single forever. Im buying a dog. screw it. LOL No wonder.
Author prayingshecomesback Posted November 19, 2009 Author Posted November 19, 2009 Why do you think there has to be something more to it than the obvious. You went out Had sex Sent you a few obligatory texts Now avoiding all contact. Im just graspoing here.........maybe......I dont know.,....that hot steamy sex wasnt all that great for her? Not that into you? Doesnt want to become permanently involved with you Just out of curiousity, why do people keep pursuing peopel who clearly want nothing to do with them? Well...Like I said, Maybe she is just not that into me. Which I am ready to swallow my pride and accept. I just want to know what the hell is going through this girls mind if she asks me to go out the next weekend after what I thought was a great night, responds to a couple texts later that night then all of a sudden cuts me off. The reason I am persuing her is because I really like this girl. I will find out Saturday what the story is. I thought we had something more than a one night stand. Sucks.
VeveCakes Posted November 19, 2009 Posted November 19, 2009 You told her you loved her? Not good. You probably came on way too strong and I don't know what those texts said but she could be off running. Don't contact her again unless she initiates. Also, try and screw someone outside your circle of friends, and preferably sober next time.
Author prayingshecomesback Posted November 19, 2009 Author Posted November 19, 2009 You told her you loved her? Not good. QUOTE] Does it count if you are not sober? lol There has to be a rule on that somewhere. I know it was stupid. In the back of her mind I know she was thinking it wasnt for real. I am going to chalk this one up as a lost and a lesson learned unless she initiates contact. It was hard not messing with my friends girls.. she was smoking hot.
jerseyboy Posted November 19, 2009 Posted November 19, 2009 LOL I have friends like you. Practice substituing the word love with "dirty little whore" in your normal conversational practrices. That way you should do much better in the bedroom next time around. Although, word of caution, avoid talking to your mom for a while
Author prayingshecomesback Posted November 19, 2009 Author Posted November 19, 2009 LOL I have friends like you. Practice substituing the word love with "dirty little whore" in your normal conversational practrices. That way you should do much better in the bedroom next time around. Although, word of caution, avoid talking to your mom for a while It slipped out!! Do you think I meant to say that chit! lol
jerseyboy Posted November 19, 2009 Posted November 19, 2009 It slipped out!! Do you think I meant to say that chit! lol Im just busting on ya, dont be angry.... I love you F##k!!!!! Did it again
Author prayingshecomesback Posted November 19, 2009 Author Posted November 19, 2009 Im just busting on ya, dont be angry.... I love you ****!!!!! I know man. We all have made our mistakes. That's why we are single and posting on LS. Now the chick I really like is going to stay away from me for good. F My Life. That's what I get for thinking with my d**k.
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