Should I talk to her about it or just see what happens because it's to early?

[Lakeside_runner]

There's this girl I met 3.5 weeks ago. We've seen each other since then about 6 times (coffee, lunch, dinner etc. full dates). Yesterday she came over to my place, we had dinner, watched movies, talked a lot, had a lot of fun. She drunk too much (we had two bottles of wine) to drive back so I let her sleep in my bed and I slept on a couch (I can see what comments this will spore...), made a nice breakfast in the morning. While watching movies we cuddled and she actually fell asleep around midnight in my arms. I think she was comfortable with what happened since she didn't rush to go home today in the morning (as I said, we had a nice breakfast). I walked her to her car, we kissed and we made plans for lunch on Wednesday.

 

I texted her this afternoon, kind of a general text, nothing serious, she texted back etc. At some point I texted her: "I kinda liked how you fell asleep yesterday...:)" referring to the way it happened (in my embrace), she texted back: "Haha, yeah I'm not much of a night owl :)"...

 

Q1: I'm probably overthinking it but is this just a miscommunication? What do you guys think? I think my text can be read both ways...

 

Q2: Things seem to be going pretty well, I'm just really unexperienced when it comes to dating, I have been in a relationship only once before and it lasted 5 years 3.5 of which were LD. It ended burning and crushing. I feel like I kind of need to know where things are going (especially since all I could think all day long was her ) and what her expectations are... Should I talk to her about it or just wait and see how things progress? I think things are fine but she actually never texts or calls me just to say hi or anything else. She said at some point that she's really bad with phone calls and that her family gives her a hard time about it so that could be it, but... So should I talk to her or just let it be and wait and see?

[alphamale]

time reveals all young man...wait and see

[Krytie TV]

There are no questions you should be asking her about your situation. If you feel you need to know something more about what's going on with you two, then tell her you want to have a committed relationship with her. Instead of asking her what she thinks/wants, tell her what you think/want. It comes off as more... secure.