dreamergrl Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 You guys are obviously more interested in whining and complaining then making excuses for why girls aren't interested in you... so have fun with that
betamanlet Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 You guys are obviously more interested in whining and complaining then making excuses for why girls aren't interested in you... so have fun with that REminds you of yourself, right?
Lucky_One Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 So we conclude from this thread that a 30 something guy (even if they own the house, is financially ok, etc.) and chooses to live with his parents is a derogatory trait for dating. No we don't. There is obviously a lot of backstory to your post that I hadn't paid attention to, when I answered. What I DID do was give an honest opinion to your OP. I did read your other thread, and it doesn't appear that despite your apparent unhappiness of your current state of existing, you don't have any gumption to change it. What gives with that?
Midnight Rider Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 But yes, dates are like job interviews. EVerything and anything will be held against you, it encourages lying and spinning (something I will take no part it). The entire process is just very dishonest.. It's so true, seems to be the same around here as well. As a guy, I like simple things... give me some beer, wings, hockey, a pizza, whatever. With women, all I want is just a little attraction. She doesn't have to be skinny, or a model, and I wouldn't care less if she worked at KFC. Nowadays, even the "BBW" are getting really picky! I found this post in CL.. check this out.. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t209801/
BobSacamento Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 A man who lives by himself HAS to do certain things to keep himself going. He needs to learn how to cook, clean, iron, etc. A man who lives with his parents probably has that done by his mother. You think a woman wants to waste her time discovering whether he's a mamas boy or not or if he can even take care of himself?
betamanlet Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 It's so true, seems to be the same around here as well. As a guy, I like simple things... give me some beer, wings, hockey, a pizza, whatever. With women, all I want is just a little attraction. She doesn't have to be skinny, or a model, and I wouldn't care less if she worked at KFC. Nowadays, even the "BBW" are getting really picky! I found this post in CL.. check this out.. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t209801/ It's very difficult for men to date these days as in the first place, women were only attracted to the alpha males, as women desire men that other women desire. Also, society is getting fatter and fatter. I constantly see very in shape guys with not just overweight, but obese women. Contantly... They can be incredibly picky. My friends' brother, who is pretty much a player, his ex gf, she's cute, but is kinda heavy. she could basically pick and choose who she wanted, and my friend's brother has model good looks... I know guys that get treated horribly and dumped by overweight single mothers, who have multiple kids from multiple fathers. The world is more and more narcissistic. I don't even think it's realistic to have a succesful relationship anymore these days. I just think the only reason people even do it is so they aren't for that moment alone.
Bejita463 Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 REminds you of yourself, right? Irony. Comical levels of it, in fact.
b52s Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 I know women hate that. What if someone does not like to live alone? Meh, with the recession, economy, and Layoffs now days, it wouldn't suprise me people are moving BACK IN with their families. It's not uncommon these days of hard economic times.
betamanlet Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 Meh, with the recession, economy, and Layoffs now days, it wouldn't suprise me people are moving BACK IN with their families. It's not uncommon these days of hard economic times. How many of the men who do that will be able to date vs. the women who do that given that men don't hold that against women but the opposite isn't true?
boogieboy Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 Economics is one thing, but Virgin, your parents are probably taking care of you. I dont believe they are living with you only because you dont want to be alone, there is a story here that youre not telling. How is a woman supposed to take you seriously if you cant have sex in your own house because your parents are there?
betamanlet Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 Economics is one thing, but Virgin, your parents are probably taking care of you. I dont believe they are living with you only because you dont want to be alone, there is a story here that youre not telling. How is a woman supposed to take you seriously if you cant have sex in your own house because your parents are there? He pays the mortgage. His dad is basically disabled, his mom is crazy. And he works on cars a lot. Someone who can fix your car probably isn't someone who I would consider "dependent"
BobSacamento Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 I'm convinced the guy is truly insane or an idiot. Nobody keeps going doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result unless he's one of the two.
dreamergrl Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 He pays the mortgage. His dad is basically disabled, his mom is crazy. And he works on cars a lot. Someone who can fix your car probably isn't someone who I would consider "dependent" How did I know you'd respond for him? Seriously... you guys would get so much further if you'd stop making excuses, stop complaining and generalizing about women, and get over your height issues.
dreamergrl Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 I'm convinced the guy is truly insane or an idiot. Nobody keeps going doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result unless he's one of the two. I'm convinced that OP and Beta are the same person, or there's something more between them.
betamanlet Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 How did I know you'd respond for him? Seriously... you guys would get so much further if you'd stop making excuses, stop complaining and generalizing about women, and get over your height issues. The height issue is a joke. Jebus, I'm 5'10. That's athe minimum height requirement where I live, so it's not much of an issue for me.
BobSacamento Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 I'm convinced that OP and Beta are the same person, or there's something more between them. If that's true I stand by what I said haha.
betamanlet Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 I'm convinced the guy is truly insane or an idiot. Nobody keeps going doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result unless he's one of the two. If you said that about any other mental condition, you literally would be charged with violating human rights statutes in certain jurisdictions, like washington, DC. The guy has aspergers syndrome and OCD. And to the other chick. If I were him, I would have the same IP address as him. I think the moderators can verify this. So, do you have any more baseless accusations you'd like to make?
Lucky_One Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 If the OP truly is not you, and if you are his first line of defense in becoming less angry, less depressed, more active, friendlier, and more proactive in changing his life, then perhaps he needs to look for a new online friend.
BobSacamento Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 If you said that about any other mental condition, you literally would be charged with violating human rights statutes in certain jurisdictions, like washington, DC. The guy has aspergers syndrome and OCD. And to the other chick. If I were him, I would have the same IP address as him. I think the moderators can verify this. So, do you have any more baseless accusations you'd like to make? So you think he should continue doing the same things?
betamanlet Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 If the OP truly is not you, and if you are his first line of defense in becoming less angry, less depressed, more active, friendlier, and more proactive in changing his life, then perhaps he needs to look for a new online friend. Thanks for the insult. May you have a wonderful day.
boogieboy Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 He pays the mortgage. His dad is basically disabled, his mom is crazy. And he works on cars a lot. Someone who can fix your car probably isn't someone who I would consider "dependent" Oh so his house is a nursing home? Oh he really is hopeless. He cant even get over his fear of talking to people, adn he cant work, a normal woman is supposed to marry and move in with disabled parents in addition to that? I love how the little truths are coming out after we already started guessing. The big truth will show up in a few days time..by beta/virgin. Its like: Virgin: Hey can I use your dryer for my clothes? LS: sure your dryer broke? Virgin: No theyre wet from the water LS: What water? Virgin: From the big hoses LS: You have hoses in your house? Virgin: No the hoses were brought in from outside LS: Who brought them in? Virgin: The guys with big helmets LS: WHy do the clothes smell like smoke? Virgin: It was a little smokey in my house LS: Wait, was there a FIRE in your house? Virgin: You could say that......
betamanlet Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 So you think he should continue doing the same things? Of course not, but the question is, CAN he do something different? He hasn't spent a night away from his parents in his ENTIRE life. He cannot even eat in a restaurant. He's never been on an airplane before. Telling someone like to change is like telling Stephen Hawking ot just get out of the wheelchair and walk.
boogieboy Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 The height issue is a joke. Jebus, I'm 5'10. That's athe minimum height requirement where I live, so it's not much of an issue for me. A joke eh? So are you going to say that all the misery you have from your exs is a joke to-in another month? Can I make fun of you everytime you post your misconceptions about women if its all a joke?
boogieboy Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 Of course not, but the question is, CAN he do something different? He hasn't spent a night away from his parents in his ENTIRE life. He cannot even eat in a restaurant. He's never been on an airplane before. Telling someone like to change is like telling Stephen Hawking ot just get out of the wheelchair and walk. WHy dont you just tell his whole story now so we can stop getting these annoying lil bits.
betamanlet Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 A joke eh? So are you going to say that all the misery you have from your exs is a joke to-in another month? Can I make fun of you everytime you post your misconceptions about women if its all a joke? If that makes you feel better, then yes. If you feel the need to be an internet "bully" then I truly feel bad for you and you should do whatever it takes to make yourself feel better.
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