ToYourDemise Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 I'd love for your advice. I've been friends with guy for quite some time. He's one of those cute, funny, yet shy ones. I wanted to be more then just friends. I, being also shy, didn't want to tell him I liked him. Later a friend of mine had told me that he liked me, and that everyone pretty much knew about it besides me. I'm not good with the obvious. A few days later, he kept bugging me to tell him who I liked. I finally gave in and told him that I liked him. he seemed thrilled and told me he liked me too. After awhile, we became a whole lot more closer. As my Friend and I were just walking around, I saw him. He literally made him hang out with us. While we were sitting at a park, I realized that he was being really quiet the whole time. I asked him if there was anything on his mind. he just reply with, nothing really and went back staring into nothing. When we all had to leave, he suggested walking me home, even though he had a ride waiting on him. I nicely told him, 'no thank you' and that I was only like, a block away. He just smiled and gave me hug, but didn't let go right away. After a few minutes I got home, he sent me a text message saying, "Hey it's me, and what I wanted to do was kiss you but I didn't know if you wanted me to.. I guess I got too nervous and chickened out. " I thought it was cute how he wanted to kiss me, and sent back that it was okay, and that I did want him to. I fell asleep right after that. The next day, I logged onto Myspace and saw he had wrote a bulletin a few minutes before I logged on and decided to see what he wrote. It was cute love poems dedicated to me. I was going to thank him, but before I did I read his status. 'I thought wrong..; I'm just hurting myself. Maybe I should give up.' That threw me off. I wasn't quite sure to think. I sent him a message asking what was wrong, but he never replied. I don't understand what happened. Did I do something to make him think that? I tryed asking a friend of mine what was wrong with Him, but they wouldn't tell me either. Do you know why he could be acting this way all of a sudden?
hollister Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 it probably doesnt have anything to do with you... sounds like he really likes u =) so maybe he just has something else big going on right now... it's understandable how ur feeling tho. new relationships are scarey and full of uncertainty. Try to be a good friend to him b/c that's the foundation to a good relationship anyway. Good luck to you!
Author ToYourDemise Posted November 15, 2009 Author Posted November 15, 2009 Also earlier today, he had posted, 'I feel lonely, and definitely not loved.' My friends asked if it had to do anything with me. He said that he doesn't want anyone messed up in his emotions, and doesn't want anyone to get hurt, especially me. I don't quite understand why he's acting like this. Is he having slight feelings for someone else?..
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