virgin Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 As a teenager in high school I had a dearth of friends my age. I would also act strange in school to ultimately get labeled as a nerd and eventually became a friendless outcast. I would eat lunch on the staircase to avoid people. I befriended a single middle age man (late 40s-50s?) who would let me use his computer and what not. I didn't realize it at the time but he would do weird things. He would wear boxer underwear with an ice-cream cone and stand next to me while I used the computer. The logo would look nice as he had his erection. Also, he had a jingle balls underwear, use your imagination. We would would also play snip snip barber shop, he would snap his fingers above my crotch. When I turned 17 (which is legal here) he introduced me to porn, and we would watch together. I didn't realize there was anything wrong with this, but he was my only friend at the time. Most other guys had beautiful 15 yo gfs, even if they weren't having sex they were learning how to socialize. Since there was never physical contact, I never felt there was anything wrong. Now, I'm convinced that all older men (say late 40s and up) have granite, rock hard boners and I look forward to sex when I'm older. I believe those men are super horny and just live to f$#$. Sometimes I do focus on these men, but I don't believe I'm gay.
BlueHarvest Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 As a teenager in high school I had a dearth of friends my age. I would also act strange in school to ultimately get labeled as a nerd and eventually became a friendless outcast. I would eat lunch on the staircase to avoid people. I befriended a single middle age man (late 40s-50s?) who would let me use his computer and what not. I didn't realize it at the time but he would do weird things. He would wear boxer underwear with an ice-cream cone and stand next to me while I used the computer. The logo would look nice as he had his erection. Also, he had a jingle balls underwear, use your imagination. We would would also play snip snip barber shop, he would snap his fingers above my crotch. When I turned 17 (which is legal here) he introduced me to porn, and we would watch together. I didn't realize there was anything wrong with this, but he was my only friend at the time. Most other guys had beautiful 15 yo gfs, even if they weren't having sex they were learning how to socialize. Since there was never physical contact, I never felt there was anything wrong. Now, I'm convinced that all older men (say late 40s and up) have granite, rock hard boners and I look forward to sex when I'm older. I believe those men are super horny and just live to f$#$. Sometimes I do focus on these men, but I don't believe I'm gay. Reading your three threads that were one after another on the boards today...I can only summarize one thing for you. You are a.....(ready for it?) Troll. Enough said.
betamanlet Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 Reading your three threads that were one after another on the boards today...I can only summarize one thing for you. You are a.....(ready for it?) Troll. Enough said. Sad part is that it's not a troll, and why he cannot really get much help because people don't believe him. He really should be seeing a shrink to work over his issues. So I guess in your book, males cannot be molested or sexually abused, right?
betamanlet Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 It's classic how we're expected to treat bipolars with kid gloves, to understand them and don't you dare judge them, yet OCD and aspergers gets rediculed. The guy is on the austistic spectrum, and you just redicule him. Pathetic. Do you make fun of the mentally retarded kids at your school too?
You'reasian Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 It's classic how we're expected to treat bipolars with kid gloves, to understand them and don't you dare judge them, yet OCD and aspergers gets rediculed. The guy is on the austistic spectrum, and you just redicule him. Pathetic. Do you make fun of the mentally retarded kids at your school too? I haven't rediculed anyone (ridicule is something else). I'm not a psychiatrist and therefore not qualified to diagnose him - he's having too much fun. Betcha a beer he continues on the a similar tirade? lol
betamanlet Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 I haven't rediculed anyone (ridicule is something else). I'm not a psychiatrist and therefore not qualified to diagnose him - he's having too much fun. Betcha a beer he continues on the a similar tirade? lol The OCD makes you talk about stuff over and over again.. He talks about being a virgin, how women are innocent , and mathematical equations about sex... Fortunately he's left out the stuff about his car..
You'reasian Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 The OCD makes you talk about stuff over and over again.. He talks about being a virgin, how women are innocent , and mathematical equations about sex... Fortunately he's left out the stuff about his car.. Does it? How much experience do you have diagnosing patients?
betamanlet Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 Does it? How much experience do you have diagnosing patients? I know what OCD is like. I have it.
boogieboy Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 It's classic how we're expected to treat bipolars with kid gloves, to understand them and don't you dare judge them, yet OCD and aspergers gets rediculed. The guy is on the austistic spectrum, and you just redicule him. Pathetic. Do you make fun of the mentally retarded kids at your school too? I make fun of kids. And if he truly is autistic, we cant help him, he doesnt want to be helped, he just wants to vent, might as well have fun.
Author virgin Posted November 14, 2009 Author Posted November 14, 2009 I make fun of kids. And if he truly is autistic, we cant help him, he doesnt want to be helped, he just wants to vent, might as well have fun. Not a troll, just dealt a sh$%$y hand of cards in life. There is probably nothing you guys can do to really help me. Its like someone asking for help on a car board after they overheated their engine, warped the heads and spun bearings because of coolant in the crankcase. The only option is a new engine (or brain).
betamanlet Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 Not a troll, just dealt a sh$%$y hand of cards in life. There is probably nothing you guys can do to really help me. Its like someone asking for help on a car board after they overheated their engine, warped the heads and spun bearings because of coolant in the crankcase. The only option is a new engine (or brain). Tell them about your software analogy with aspergers... Also, tell them about your dad and how your mom refused to leave him.
carhill Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 OP, childhood experiences, along with genetics, form a lot of the subconscious motivations and perspectives we enter adulthood with. They mark us. Your experiences and your unique brain chemistry have formed who you are today. If you find it to be an unhealthy state, just like with physical illness, you can seek professional assistance. It may not 'cure' you, but perhaps provide a modicum of comfort and peace in your life. I think we all deserve that, along with loving and being loved. Best wishes
Author virgin Posted November 14, 2009 Author Posted November 14, 2009 Tell them about your software analogy with aspergers... Also, tell them about your dad and how your mom refused to leave him. I'll spare the details but I can say with absolute certainty that my dad is unspecified autistic (and myself unfortunately) probably have some of his traits and should stay as far from women as matches from gasoline. Maybe its a blessing in disguise that god never let me near a woman. I read that aspergers/autisitcs have a 90% divorce rate. The rest force their partners and children into a living purgatory or hell. I believe the same deficiency that precludes an aspie from reading signals off women causes them to be oblivious to their partners wants or emotional needs if they ultimately end up in a relationship. My dad in the end does not believe he is doing anything wrong, not much more so than a 1 year old who defecates in his crib if you leave his diaper off. And his actions are obnoxious, I will spare the details.
boogieboy Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 Its like someone asking for help on a car board after they overheated their engine, warped the heads and spun bearings because of coolant in the crankcase. The only option is a new engine (or brain). Thats a crappy analogy. Actually its like youre driving a car on just the rims with no tires. We tell you that theres a shop just down the street where theres new and used rims with tires on them that will help you drive better and safer. But then you say "I dont think I will find the place". Then we give you the name of the place and point to the massive sign that says "RIMS AND TIRES SOLD HERE" See there it is, you cant miss it! But you keep making up excuses to not get the new wheels because youre used to driving slowly on just the rims, used to cops pulling you over, and you want to stick to the behavior that youre used to. As a professor, you should be ashamed of yourself. Bottom line, youre just lazy.
betamanlet Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 Thats a crappy analogy. Actually its like youre driving a car on just the rims with no tires. We tell you that theres a shop just down the street where theres new and used rims with tires on them that will help you drive better and safer. But then you say "I dont think I will find the place". Then we give you the name of the place and point to the massive sign that says "RIMS AND TIRES SOLD HERE" See there it is, you cant miss it! But you keep making up excuses to not get the new wheels because youre used to driving slowly on just the rims, used to cops pulling you over, and you want to stick to the behavior that youre used to. As a professor, you should be ashamed of yourself. Bottom line, youre just lazy. And you don't understand what autism is.
boogieboy Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 And you don't understand what autism is. Could care less. If he cant help himself because of autism, it doesnt matter anyway.
betamanlet Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 Could care less. If he cant help himself because of autism, it doesnt matter anyway. Wow, you're such a kind hearted person.
boogieboy Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 Wow, you're such a kind hearted person. I know. My kind heartedness shows in my sig.
Author virgin Posted November 14, 2009 Author Posted November 14, 2009 Thats a crappy analogy. Actually its like youre driving a car on just the rims with no tires. We tell you that theres a shop just down the street where theres new and used rims with tires on them that will help you drive better and safer. But then you say "I dont think I will find the place". Then we give you the name of the place and point to the massive sign that says "RIMS AND TIRES SOLD HERE" See there it is, you cant miss it! But you keep making up excuses to not get the new wheels because youre used to driving slowly on just the rims, used to cops pulling you over, and you want to stick to the behavior that youre used to. As a professor, you should be ashamed of yourself. Bottom line, youre just lazy. Look up aspergers syndrome on wikipedia.
boogieboy Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 Look up aspergers syndrome on wikipedia. Im not lookin up shyte. You complain about not being able to get women, talk about how you should be able to get women because youre a nice guy and educated, and then you list your disorders as to why you have problems. Well are you going to do something about your women problems, overcome your disorders, or are you going to continue to find reasons NOT to do anything about it and post your misconceptions?
You'reasian Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 Look up aspergers syndrome on wikipedia. What kind of PROFESSOR tells someone to look something up on WIKIPEDIA as valid information?!?!?! And yes, you ARE being lazy. Your problem isn't your brain. Its your attitude!
Author virgin Posted November 14, 2009 Author Posted November 14, 2009 What kind of PROFESSOR tells someone to look something up on WIKIPEDIA as valid information?!?!?! And yes, you ARE being lazy. Your problem isn't your brain. Its your attitude! Wikipedia is great to get an general overview of a topic, to prepare you for further study. It is pretty accurate for this disorder. ok, you like web md better? http://www.webmd.com/brain/autism/tc/aspergers-syndrome-symptoms Aspie kids are often described as "little professors" BTW. I was like that as a kid. I talk people to death sometimes. The jist of it is the same, I read the article and it describes many of my issues to a tee.
You'reasian Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 Wikipedia is great to get an general overview of a topic, to prepare you for further study. It is pretty accurate for this disorder. The jist of it is the same, I read the article and it describes many of my issues to a tee. Talk to a mental health professional first. Every hear of hypochondria? Your attitude is a mental wall. You need to tear it down, kick it over - rip it to shreds!! Once that's done you need coaching. No one can do things alone. You need someone who can get you thinking the way you need to be thinking to be successful!!!
thegreatmoose Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 I make fun of kids. And if he truly is autistic, we cant help him, he doesnt want to be helped, he just wants to vent, might as well have fun. Making fun of people who are struggling says a lot more about you than them.
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