tryagaintoday Posted November 13, 2009 Posted November 13, 2009 Hi, I'm currently dating (for 3 weeks) a girl I really like and she likes me too. We are considering being exclusive soon. Anyway, there's this other young 22 yr old girl that is crazily attracted to me. Buys me chocolate, kept following me whenever I go for a smoke, ask me out for dates, ask me to take her out etc. So here's what I intend to do (sorry 22 yr old). I'll at most go out in group outings with her and will never be alone with her or date her. I'm hoping she'll ask me whether I have a girlfriend and I'll say "Yeah, a committed one". As for my current date, I'm really not too sure if I should tell her about this 22 yr old. So some advise pls?
CLC2008 Posted November 13, 2009 Posted November 13, 2009 You're 22? Didn't you say in another post that you just got out of a 12 year relationship? How is that possible?
Lakeside_runner Posted November 13, 2009 Posted November 13, 2009 He's not 22 - the other girl is 22... As for the question - I don't think you've to mention anything to your 'soon to be exclusive'. If you'll stick to your end of commitment I don't see a reason for bringing that up. I'd just treat this as something not worth noticing and move on to my business...
JustLooking123 Posted November 13, 2009 Posted November 13, 2009 Also, if you really want her to leave you alone, don't wait for her to ask if you have a girlfriend. Tell her on your own.
D-Lish Posted November 13, 2009 Posted November 13, 2009 Honestly, you are best not to put yourself in any situation with the 22 year old that could potentially give your other girl the wrong impression. I wouldn't even risk group outings. Bring your gf to those outings, at the very least, bring up the gf.
CLC2008 Posted November 13, 2009 Posted November 13, 2009 My advice would be to tell the girl you’re not dating that you are already dating someone, you have been dating her for three weeks so it’s not like you’ve gone out once or twice and that’s it. And I don’t think it’s a good idea to be hanging out with this other girl, when you are clearly already dating someone else.
Author tryagaintoday Posted November 13, 2009 Author Posted November 13, 2009 Yeah, I'm 28. But my first "girlfriend" was when I was 11. My first kiss with a girl was when we were 6 . Haha... Yeah, I used to be able to "get them at hello" but after 13 years, I'd become rusty. Yeah, I'll find the right time and tell the 22 yr old on my own. Hope I get out in 1 piece. Hopefully, I didn't lead her on as I'm clueless on that. Thanks.
CLC2008 Posted November 13, 2009 Posted November 13, 2009 Yeah, I'm 28. But my first "girlfriend" was when I was 11. My first kiss with a girl was when we were 6 . Haha. 11 and 6? Gee some guys start young
Author tryagaintoday Posted November 13, 2009 Author Posted November 13, 2009 Fate has it, 22 yr old just text me. Here goes: Her (h): Yay, I've got the <a bank's name> job! I'm so smart! Let's meet up before my work starts, ok? Happy working! Me (m): Wow! Congrats! h: Super patronise me. Fine, I shall stop asking you out. Take care boss! m: Mahjong? Rummy? I'm on. I have little driving next week so should be free. h: Singing and chilling? Anyway, I'm just kidding when I say that you must take me out. If you have other commitments, it's ok. See ya m: Those are ok as well. Ya, I'm currently seeing someone and we will be exclusive soon so I don't want her to get any wrong ideas. h: Heh, I see I see! No prob boss! Will be meeting <another colleague> for coffee so you might wanna join too! See ya around! m: ok. See you
redhighheels Posted November 13, 2009 Posted November 13, 2009 She was graceful about it, you got to give her that.
Author tryagaintoday Posted November 13, 2009 Author Posted November 13, 2009 She was graceful about it, you got to give her that. yeah, she's a nice girl. Another time or place, I might have date her. One of my friend also has a thing for her. Well, all these relationship problems - it's fate up against our wills... Can't believe I went from being cheated on and dumped to these....
Author tryagaintoday Posted November 13, 2009 Author Posted November 13, 2009 Hi, This is the same as I am thiinking as, just tell her about this, be honest to yourself so that you will not find any pressure on you. Thanks! yeah, I'd told her. Thanks.
CLC2008 Posted November 13, 2009 Posted November 13, 2009 lol, how about Battleship. You sunk my battleship now you owe me a liver worst sandwich
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