Ughh! what is this??

[SamSam]

I am 19 and have been in a couple of relationships so I have an idea of how the dating/relationship thing works.

I will try to brief this... B and I have known each other a few years, not well, just knew who the other was through friends, smiled and said hello in passing, nothing more. this guy is extremely gorgeous, not so much his physique, he is very slim, I usually go for a taller, brawnier type, but his face..o.m.g., abercrombie material, no lie.

We both attend the same college, two semesters ago we had the same class, we became friends on facebook, messaged a bit about the class, I dropped the class so our convos dropped as well.

This semester we have a class together again. He messaged me again saying hello and talking about the class. Just casual chatting here and there, a wave in class, not much more. Honestly, I am somewhat intimidated by him with his looks, and skittish of too much attention from other girls, while I have been told I am pretty and I am not lacking in self esteem, etc.. I do not roll that way or compete with other girls, cant deal with that kind of stress. So I've just been friendly and gone my way.

One day last month it was pouring down rain as we were leaving our class. He was parked nearby and offered me a ride to my car across campus, while we were riding, he was talking and appeared confident but was nervous too, if that makes any sense? He asked about a college group I am part of, the activities we do like bowling and movies, hanging out, etc. I told him he was more than welcome and he said it would depend on his work schedule. Arriving at my car, I thanked him for the ride and we left. Later that day I messaged him thanking him again for the ride and gave him my number saying he could text me if he ever wanted to join us. He didnt answer. Things returned to the same, just smiling at each other in class and an ocassional wave.

A few weeks ago I was having a bad day and put a status about it on facebook, later that night he asked me about it in facebook chat, we ended up talking for 3 hours about each other and life, etc. It was great. The next day he caught up with me on campus and we walked to class together. He offered a ride again and I took it. We began messaging on facebook quite a bit and talking a bit more on campus. Then one night our college group was going to listen to some bands so I messaged him and told him he was welcome and he wrote back saying he couldnt go but to text him next time and gave me his number.

A few days later, I texted him asking about the class; facebook messaging stopped and texting started. By this point, I can tell he is interested.. I'm not sure what to think. His sister came into the bank recently and said B talks about me all the time. Then in class, he decides to start sitting by me and walks with me more. This past weekend he asked me to hang out with him and wanted me to just pick a random thing to do. We ended up taking a little mini roadtrip to a beachfront town a couple hours away. Walked the beach, ate at Rainforest Cafe, shopped, it was great but I did notice he kept his body language/contact very contained, could not read it at all, and he was somewhat nervous. It was ok with me though, just wanted it to be a time of getting to know each other and have fun, which we did, ended up staying alot longer than planned and laughed alot. When we got home we hugged and he said he wanted us to get together again soon and watch movies and I agreed. We texted the next day, he tells me he is sick, thinks it may be the flu. Day after that, his facebook says he is ill, that night I texted him asking if he was feeling better and he said he was some, we chatted a bit then went to bed. Next day at school, he gets to class first, texts me and asks if Im coming? I said yes, he is sitting by me again but looks like death warmed over, hasnt shaved and is feeling really bad. We talked briefly about the weather, etc after class then we left. I had to go to the dentist, he texted me and said hey you left your jacket in my truck, we chatted a bit then I said I had to go in for the dental work. He didnt answer. Noticed he is getting quiet on his end, waited until last night and texted him asking if he was feeling better, again, he didnt answer. Today I can see he has been on facebook, is obviously feeling better... now what? What is this? Is he backing off? As far as I can tell he is not talking to other girls or vice versa.. while we were on the road trip he only got a call from his mom and was not texting. Do I just leave him alone? I have found myself alot more interested in him after all and would like to hang out with him more but I do not want to be pushy...

 

So sorry its this long, just wanted to give the picture clearly. Any advice at all would be greatly appreciated!