Dowdy Posted November 12, 2009 Posted November 12, 2009 I asked this girl out at work to the movies. She said yes but then i talked to her the other day and she said "this is just as friends". I said "yeah, unless you want it to be more" and she said "no" I want to have a relationship with her so what do you think i should do to get that second date or there's no chance of getting that at all if she wants to be 'friends'? Did she only say yes because i'm a 'nice guy' and didn't want to hurt my feelings? Also when i asked her out i never mentioned the word 'date'
TaraMaiden Posted November 12, 2009 Posted November 12, 2009 Whatever you want from her, you're not going to get it. She made that absolutely clear. Right from the start, the first moment, even before the paint was dry, so to speak. So, really, she's being honest with you.... She said yes, because it's nice to go out, but I suspect she's not into dating and having a relationship at all, with anyone, at the moment. For you to try for a second date, and think about taking it further, is dishonest of you, because you obviously have ulterior motives. Either come clean with her regarding your wishes, or respect hers, and forget it.
dreamergrl Posted November 12, 2009 Posted November 12, 2009 I think it would be better for you to pass on this. You want more, she doesn't. By going out with her you'll get more attached.
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