jimbo Posted November 12, 2009 Posted November 12, 2009 From what I am experiencing, I am told that I am seen to them more as a close friend rather than anything else. This has happened to the last four datee's. What am I doing wrong here? Aside from one, the rest I was not over zealous, running after them, etc. What am I doing wrong here?
carhill Posted November 12, 2009 Posted November 12, 2009 Not enough drama and anger. Show up late and make a negative comment about some article of clothing they're wearing. That oughta break the 'friend' cycle
Author jimbo Posted November 12, 2009 Author Posted November 12, 2009 Being hated or disliked is not the angle I am going for either. Guess I am a good listener. Usually on time for everything. Why should being on time be a bad thing? Why is it that the guys who treat them like nothing and give little sense to them are lusted after and the guys that treat them with respect and do want to listen to them are looked on as friends and nothing more? I guess I am missing something here.
NopeNah Posted November 12, 2009 Posted November 12, 2009 Being hated or disliked is not the angle I am going for either. Guess I am a good listener. Usually on time for everything. Why should being on time be a bad thing? Why is it that the guys who treat them like nothing and give little sense to them are lusted after and the guys that treat them with respect and do want to listen to them are looked on as friends and nothing more? I guess I am missing something here. Being late shows,in a sense, you have a whole other life going on that they're not a part of (yet). Thus giving a sense of your "importance" to something/somebody else. It shows their needs and wants(time frame) are not the focus of your life. That's how i've always done it atleast...maybe i'm a selfish as*hole..who knows?
carhill Posted November 12, 2009 Posted November 12, 2009 Those actions are only to change your aura and mindset. Care a bit less. Be a bit less 'nice'. If you can't get used to being disliked or biotched about behind your back, you'll never make it as a married man. Trust me, I know... Women use men who listen to them as tampons (this means as a receptacle for their emotional waste products). Boyfriends and husbands show less compassion but are loving in other ways and promote bonding through sex. This is an old subject here on LS. Read the thread in my signature. It might help.
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