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[Lakeside_runner]

When you (female) first went to someones house (male) for dinner, what (if anything at all) did you/would you find to be a turn-off?

 

I'm talking about a clean apartment, no dirty underwear on the floor etc.

 

P.S. I know that this thread just calls for answers like (He had a photo of Stalin on the wall!) but let's be serious here... Oh, and I forgot to finish the title...

[Boundary Problem]

Assuming the place (and bathroom and the floor beside the toilet) are clean...

 

turnoffs -

-packrat

-huge web cam on computer

-nothing in the fridge except ketchup

-bed linen from 1964

-lack of sunlight (open all drapes), maybe have a window open

-paranoid/nervous host (have a glass of wine before she comes)

-gifts/cards from other women lying around

-photo of mom right by your bed

 

 

let's face it - if you are inviting her for dinner at your place, you have pretty much already surrendered. She either likes you or she doesn't. I don't think your apartment is going to change that.

 

Turn offs aren't necessarily a deal-breaker. Just areas in need of improvement, and women love a new project.....

[Ruby Slippers]

• Messy, dirty
  
• Too much crap
  
• Dirty bathroom, dirty toilet especially
  
• Nothing healthy in the fridge
  
• Pictures of ex on display
  
• Sheets that aren't clean
  
• Harsh, too-bright lighting
  
• No warmth or atmosphere at all
  
• Whole living room revolves around focal point of TV
  
• No TP