b52s Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 There's this woman I met that I think was REALLY into me....only problem, she's like a month or 2 short of a divorce. She even kinda asked me out. I did agree to meet her at a party one time, thinking that he divorce was final, b,ut turned out the party, it wasn't yet final. She said, "I will be divorced in about a month" but yet, that was a month ago.....so I told her I feel kind of wierd about going out with a not quite divorced woman...and she said she understood....but...it was then TOO she told me, it'll probably indeed a month before the divorce is final. That being said, I feel like "checking in" on her status....anyone here check in with prospective divorcee's to see if they've finally signed the papers? LOL
samspade Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 <<shudders>> Why are you waiting around? Find some other women in the meantime. She'll find you when she's single and looking for a rebound guy, which is what you will be.
Author b52s Posted November 11, 2009 Author Posted November 11, 2009 <<shudders>> Why are you waiting around? Find some other women in the meantime. She'll find you when she's single and looking for a rebound guy, which is what you will be. I'm not waiting around, I'm going out with others. Everyone's a rebound to a CERTAIN extent....you will be ALWAYS that guy/girl who dates the girl/ guy that broke up with someone.
sumdude Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 I'm not waiting around, I'm going out with others. Everyone's a rebound to a CERTAIN extent....you will be ALWAYS that guy/girl who dates the girl/ guy that broke up with someone. True, but there's usually another whole layer to a divorce depending on the situation. The one left or betrayed is usually pretty wrecked for a while. There were life long promises involved.
Author b52s Posted November 11, 2009 Author Posted November 11, 2009 True, but there's usually another whole layer to a divorce depending on the situation. The one left or betrayed is usually pretty wrecked for a while. There were life long promises involved. I don't think there's such thing as a "Rebound Guy" unless she's not emotianlly ready or there's some hint of desperation there.
lucy9216 Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 well.... how long have they been seperated? I know my divorce took 7 years YIKES!!!!! but it was completely over between us when I filed for divorce and was ready to move on but he fought it for a long time.... and I pursued a great relationship during the divorce and he was very understanding and accepting of my situation. If it has been a while and she is ready that is something you should talk about with her, if she was the one who got hurt and he left her you should definatly wait this one out and let her come to you when she is ready.
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