VeveCakes Posted November 13, 2009 Posted November 13, 2009 Been there before, and had that answer too. The next guy I said it to apologized and said he was just trying to be funny. He told me he definitly wasn't just interested in that and he wasn't. He wants your booty - forget about him!
DanielMadr Posted November 13, 2009 Posted November 13, 2009 Okay, I hung out with this guy once at his place about a month ago. Things went well and got hot and heavy pretty quick. It wasn't the direction I was heading, but went along with it. We didn't actually have sex; I stopped things from progressing to that level. He made a casual remark later in the evening that next time he hopes something more happens. Ever since then, I get a text each weekend towards the evening asking me to come hang out. I've declined each offer since I think last minute requests are kind of rude. However, he called me the other day asking about this coming weekend. Needless to say, I'm pretty sure he just wants to have sex. Just so we were on the same page, I told him this weekend would work, but I wasn't going to sleep with him. He abruptly ended the conversation and didn't like that I was accusing him of only wanting sex with me. I felt bad and told him I was sorry, but I wanted to be honest with him and not lead him to believe something was going to happen when it wasn't. So, guys, would you be offended if this happened to you? I didn't think I was doing anything wrong, but his actions did lead me to belive he only wanted sex. Seriously, we don't even talk during the week...our only communication involves last minute texts asking if I can come hang out. Now, I feel kind of bad I said anything. If I wanted to use you (get sex and disappear) I would get offended because you can't know that for sure, so you just pulled a stunt on me and if I was serious about you it would hurt me If I was serious about you I would get offended because you are implying I have some ulterior motives. So it is a STUNT anyway you look at it. And stunts are offending in nature. It is best to be quiet sometimes.
Pizzaman81 Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 I dump the girls I date if we don't end up having sex within 2 weeks. And they dump you once they see your FACE. -Pizzaman
kissez Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 i dump the girls i date if we don't end up having sex within 2 weeks. lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!
SoulSearch_CO Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 LOL - did you expect him to admit those were his intentions? OF COURSE he's going to act offended to preserve his dignity that you rejected him. Since I tend to just say what's on my mind, I'd rather date a guy that didn't mind be being blunt and straight-forward. So a guy like this would have lost all my interest by getting offended over something so silly.
DanielMadr Posted November 14, 2009 Posted November 14, 2009 And you dare to call some guys players:rolleyes: I call them men with womens tactics for close quarter battles. How can you look him in the eyes when you do so much intrigues. I suppose objective sanctifies means. I just hope you make him a happy husband.
Author love_confusion Posted November 14, 2009 Author Posted November 14, 2009 Since I tend to just say what's on my mind, I'd rather date a guy that didn't mind be being blunt and straight-forward. So a guy like this would have lost all my interest by getting offended over something so silly. I try to say what's on my mind, too, but that always seems to get me in trouble...hence this thread lol!
SoulSearch_CO Posted November 15, 2009 Posted November 15, 2009 I try to say what's on my mind, too, but that always seems to get me in trouble...hence this thread lol! LOL. It can be a blessing and a curse. In this case, I say "blessing."
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