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Guy that flaked on me months ago is talking to me again


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Well, another guy I met on this dating site about 5 months ago.. we had really hit it off so I thought, talked, texted, and emailed for about a month till we actually met. After we met he said he wanted to take me out again but never did. He sent random texts every couple of weeks saying he wanted to go out again but then he would flake and never arrange anything.

 

Now it has been almost 3 months since I heard from him, I had decided to send him an email on the dating website and just say hi how are you and that was the jist of it. He responded in minutes saying hey beautiful how are you and your girls and we should definatley catch up sometime and that he owes me a new better improved date. So I responded and said if you would like to here is my number if you dont still have it. 4 days go by and nothing, then I get another email on the 5th day saying "hey here is my number too if you don't still have it" ummmm... okay?

 

I honestly am not holding out for anything on this guy, I mean I was kinda upset at first when he stopped talking to me but now I expect it but should I contact him or just wait to see if he does?

Edited by lucy9216
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He's flaked on you already for the second time. If he was really interested in you, he would have taken you out months ago.

 

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Yeah I wouldn't expect too much. Fall back a little, if he makes a date then go on it... but don't actively pursue him. Flakenstein.

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