lucy9216 Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 I just started to talking to this guy I met on a dating website today, and while we were texting I got two pics of him. One with him unbottoning his jeans while standing up, and the other he is laying on his back completely naked...... he sent 2 others that were completely normal of him with his dog and another eating ice cream, but why send the nude pics? seriously who does this? other than that it seemed like a descent conversation and we had already agreed to meet up this week before I got the pics. I don't understand this whole thing? should I even meet up with him now? or am I overreacting? it just seems really odd to me.
A O Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 but why send the nude pics? seriously who does this? Who does this, easy, someone whose simply looking to get their leg over. If that's your game, then you're in luck, otherwise the chances of anything meaningful happening are rather slim. .
lofi_tokyo Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 Who does this, easy, someone whose simply looking to get their leg over. If that's your game, then you're in luck, otherwise the chances of anything meaningful happening are rather slim. . Gonna have to agree with this one.
Author lucy9216 Posted November 10, 2009 Author Posted November 10, 2009 Actually the 2nd pic was of him on his stomache not his back, so I got a full shot of his butt.
Author lucy9216 Posted November 10, 2009 Author Posted November 10, 2009 Yeah huh? ya know he was saying that he had one meet up with another girl on that site and he said that she was only looking to have a one nighter so he didn't see her again.... or hmmmm.... maybe it was the other way around....? whatever it is, I am not looking for a fling with some random guy.
lofi_tokyo Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 At least its kind of a funny story. ;p Next time you and your girlfriends are talking about some of the crazy guys you've dated or had pursue you, you can mention this one.
thegreatmoose Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 I just started to talking to this guy I met on a dating website today, and while we were texting I got two pics of him. One with him unbottoning his jeans while standing up, and the other he is laying on his back completely naked...... he sent 2 others that were completely normal of him with his dog and another eating ice cream, but why send the nude pics? seriously who does this? other than that it seemed like a descent conversation and we had already agreed to meet up this week before I got the pics. I don't understand this whole thing? should I even meet up with him now? or am I overreacting? it just seems really odd to me. Assuming you are looking for a relationship, you should end it immediately. A very short email saying you're not interested is what he deserves. There are many good guys out there.
aerogurl87 Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 I just started to talking to this guy I met on a dating website today, and while we were texting I got two pics of him. One with him unbottoning his jeans while standing up, and the other he is laying on his back completely naked...... he sent 2 others that were completely normal of him with his dog and another eating ice cream, but why send the nude pics? seriously who does this? other than that it seemed like a descent conversation and we had already agreed to meet up this week before I got the pics. I don't understand this whole thing? should I even meet up with him now? or am I overreacting? it just seems really odd to me. Ahh the classic, "watch me in the process of undressing" picture from a guy. I really don't understand why some guys think women are wired like them. They think that if they show you a picture of them undressing that it will make you want to hop in the sack with them right away, when 9 times out of 10 it repels a woman unless she's just looking for a quick f**k like the guy. So unless you're just looking for sex I wouldn't meet him.
Author lucy9216 Posted November 10, 2009 Author Posted November 10, 2009 At least its kind of a funny story. ;p Next time you and your girlfriends are talking about some of the crazy guys you've dated or had pursue you, you can mention this one. Yeah it is kinda funny..... but this is the 2nd one I met that has done this. why do I get the weirdos???
tkgirl Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 Yeah it is kinda funny..... but this is the 2nd one I met that has done this. why do I get the weirdos??? what site are you on? there's definitely some guys online that are just looking for sex only... even if the say they want more than a ONS... what they really mean is they just want to add you to their booty call list... and these guys do it because they can! don't let them...
bac Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 some men who are on match.com are also on AFF. They are typically more turned on by AFF and it is totally normal to send nude pics as an intro on AFF. He might be on AFF for many yrs and therefore he lost the point that sending nude pics is inappropriate. Another thing, he might have bipolar disorder that is why he is not in touch with reality. This condition's symptom is hypersexuality. I had an experience like you, my guy had a bipolar and was on match.com and multiple adult sites.
dreamergrl Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 This happened to me before... only it was a full on shot of his tool and nothing else, well aside from his hand. I was like... ummmm I think you sent something to me that you meant to send someone else. He's like no... I wanna show you want you'll be working with. :lmao: I never searched for a delete button so quick in my life.
Author lucy9216 Posted November 10, 2009 Author Posted November 10, 2009 hehehehe..... well atleast I know that I am not the only one who gets these and what is AFF? never heard of it? I am on match. and yes the guy is already going on about how is he looking for something serious, someone to spend his life with, and calling me babe and honey....
sedgwick Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 I wouldn't go out with someone who had that little class. Sending naked pics of yourself is creepy.
Devil Inside Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 hehehehe..... well atleast I know that I am not the only one who gets these and what is AFF? never heard of it? I am on match. and yes the guy is already going on about how is he looking for something serious, someone to spend his life with, and calling me babe and honey.... Actions and words don't quite match up. I think this guy is looking for a piece. Us guys are visual. We like pics from you ladies....but obviously it doesn't work so well the other way around. However, I have to say, this guy should have waited...I mean this is the first day you talk to him...no where really left to go from here.
Author lucy9216 Posted November 10, 2009 Author Posted November 10, 2009 I just asked him what the pics were all about and he apologized and said that he hopes he didn't upset me?....... I don't think I am going to meet this guy, I am really worried about what his intentions are especially after reading everyone's responses..... yeah kinda freaky
Sam Spade Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 (edited) homo; or something. he is socially slow and doesn't know much about women at best or he's a sleezebag at worst. if the first, not a huge deal unless he persists in the same style; guys should never attempt to be 'sexy' (unless they want to entertain a girl and make a girl laugh, in which case it's okay.) Edited November 10, 2009 by Sam Spade
Author lucy9216 Posted November 10, 2009 Author Posted November 10, 2009 homo; or something. he is socially slow and doesn't know much about women at best or he's a sleezebag at worst. if the first, not a huge deal unless he persists in the same style; guys should never attempt to be 'sexy' (unless they want to entertain a girl and make a girl laugh, in which case it's okay.) well.... it definatly made me laugh after I was completely turned off by it, but I don't think that is what he was going for, hehehe.... but yes socially slow or a sleezebag...
Lucky_One Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 I just asked him what the pics were all about and he apologized and said that he hopes he didn't upset me?....... I don't think I am going to meet this guy, I am really worried about what his intentions are especially after reading everyone's responses..... yeah kinda freaky A good response now would be, "Yes, you did upset me; those pics were inappropriate and uninvited. Thanks for the offer, but i am not interested." And then block him, if he continues to contact you.
phineas Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 Again. I've had women in the past next me because I didn't have a clean toilet or apartment when they unexpectedly dropped by. This guy sends you nude pics, you don't even know him & your still on the fence about meeting him? LOL! In all fairness, the toilet did need a shave when the one woman asked to use it.
Author lucy9216 Posted November 10, 2009 Author Posted November 10, 2009 Again. I've had women in the past next me because I didn't have a clean toilet or apartment when they unexpectedly dropped by. This guy sends you nude pics, you don't even know him & your still on the fence about meeting him? LOL! In all fairness, the toilet did need a shave when the one woman asked to use it. Well my toilet could use a good cleanning now and then too hehehe.... I know you may be right about that too, but of course I want to be careful on who I meet. I did tell him that with the pics he sent me he gave me the impression that he was looking for something other than what he stated. He did apologize and said he wouldn't do it again. He just reminds me so much of someone else I met that did the same thing and it turned out that he was creating a booty call list. He had wanted me to go to vegas with him for a weekend, but he also arranged for another girl to go and he was planning on jumping back and forth between the two of us during the weeknd, YUCK!!! good thing I found out before I went.
bac Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 hehehehe..... well atleast I know that I am not the only one who gets these and what is AFF? never heard of it? I am on match. and yes the guy is already going on about how is he looking for something serious, someone to spend his life with, and calling me babe and honey.... AFF is 'adult friend finder' site where people are looking for FWB and NSA. I have a guy from match.com who calls me babe as well. I hope we are dating different guys because my guy was not nude on pics.
Author lucy9216 Posted November 11, 2009 Author Posted November 11, 2009 bac-if you havent gotten nudy pics from your guy yet then I am sure it is someone different... but if you get the nudy pics like I got then it might be the same one lol
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