cutieh Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 So my neighbor called me over to meet this new guy in the apartment building. He was helping her move her stuff around her apartment. Anyways, she was trying to introduce us to hook us up. He said what his name was. He said you know there's a tenate meeting on Tuesday at 11am. I said I know. I said that I needed to talk to my female friend. He said that you can say what you got to say right now. But I refused to say it in front of him with my silent mode. So my friend too me outside the apartment and talked. I felt like he did not like me because of this. Anyways, the tenant meeting is tomorrow and feel stupid to go. What u think does he think im nice looking or not. by the way i was looking kind of crapy. I think he likes my female friend even though she introduced us.
laRubiaBonita Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 do you live in the same apartment complex.... or were you there just cause your friend said come over? if you weren't even a tenant in that complex, well- it would be dumb to go to the meeting. if you are a tenant there, and if you are interested in the guy, just go to the meeting and see what happens.
SoulSearch_CO Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 There's no way on earth for anyone here to know if he thought you were cute. Or if he liked your friend over you. Go to the meeting, already. I do think that the "I won't say it in front of you" was a little cold. You couldn't have waited until later to say what you needed to say to your friend? I would think anyone would find what you did a little rude and off-putting. If anything, he probably thinks YOU don't like HIM. So if you ARE interested in him, I'd say go to the meeting and be friendly so he doesn't think what you did was a *hint*, or something.
Author cutieh Posted November 10, 2009 Author Posted November 10, 2009 I know I was nervous cause he was and her were both looking at me mean. You know it was like a moment of silence. And I couldn't think of anything else to say. It just came out. That's why I'm nervous to go the meeting. I don't think he likes me because I did that. I feel stupid
SoulSearch_CO Posted November 10, 2009 Posted November 10, 2009 I know I was nervous cause he was and her were both looking at me mean. You know it was like a moment of silence. And I couldn't think of anything else to say. It just came out. That's why I'm nervous to go the meeting. I don't think he likes me because I did that. I feel stupid Go. But don't let it show. Walk in there like you own the joint and you are HOT. But there's a difference between being confident and condescending. Be polite, happy, kind. Say "hi" to him like you're glad to see him (but not overtly so) and use open body language. If you're nice, most likely he'll forget about it - thinking it was a fluke. Guys don't generally hold grudges like girls do, IME.
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