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Why be on a dating site if you're not ready?


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Who's brother are we talking about now?

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I don't know, I just always watch these daytime shows, I'm sure I'm not keeping up here. Lol. And seriously on these chat shows, do you never think there's summat going on in the family? :lmao:

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I don't know, I just always watch these daytime shows, I'm sure I'm not keeping up here. Lol. And seriously on these chat shows, do you never think there's summat going on in the family? :lmao:

 

I think there's a lot going on in the family :lmao:

 

Okay, in all seriousness.. and Jerry aside...

 

What to say if he thinks he's over it and asks me out?

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I would go on the date, see how it goes, if he gives any hint he's not, stop seeing him, but if not, enjoy :)

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I would go on the date, see how it goes, if he gives any hint he's not, stop seeing him, but if not, enjoy :)

 

You wouldn't be wondering if there is still an attachment? Or if it got serious, if he still has feelings for her (and what if they started hanging out again?)

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Not sure. When I went on line I have to say I was not 100% ready but wanted to see what was up, I was curious. I got real lucky and met someone that was a perfect fit for me but I had no idea what I would find or how I would react. Not sure if that helps.

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I (stupidly?) asked him what brought him to the site.

Excuse me Dreamer.. was this a dating site? I have been asked this question several times before and frankly I always find it very stupid especially if it's from someone I have met on a dating site. I mean since it's a dating website and not a Metro train or Starbucks, I would think my intentions would be obvious?

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Excuse me Dreamer.. was this a dating site? I have been asked this question several times before and frankly I always find it very stupid especially if it's from someone I have met on a dating site. I mean since it's a dating website and not a Metro train or Starbucks, I would think my intentions would be obvious?

 

Well it sort of is. One would think.. but I've ended up talking to guys who are just looking for friends. Who are married and want a FWB. All sorts of things. So given that... I ask. I also have a guy friend who uses the site, and he's ran into similar things with the girls. I think more people are using it for more reasons the other then dating.

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