caseinpoint Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 I know this guy as an acquaintance but I feel myself thinking about him and liking him. I like what I know about him. He's nice and kind. I'm not sure whether he likes me a little or just sees me as a friend. I know I could have asked him but it's difficult for me to take that approach. I get nervous around him. Anyone knows how to stop being addicted to someone?
SierraRose Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 I know this guy as an acquaintance but I feel myself thinking about him and liking him. I like what I know about him. He's nice and kind. I'm not sure whether he likes me a little or just sees me as a friend. I know I could have asked him but it's difficult for me to take that approach. I get nervous around him. Anyone knows how to stop being addicted to someone? You don't sound like an addict, you have a crush! You don't have to ask him if he likes you as a friend or more. When you see the timing is right, ask him if he wants to grab a coffee or something. Give him the chance to ge to know you a bit more and if there are sparks, you'll know it! You will also know if there aren't. Simply put, a friendly gesture and if he's not interested, no harm done. Go about being friends.
Author caseinpoint Posted November 9, 2009 Author Posted November 9, 2009 You don't sound like an addict, you have a crush! You don't have to ask him if he likes you as a friend or more. When you see the timing is right, ask him if he wants to grab a coffee or something. Give him the chance to ge to know you a bit more and if there are sparks, you'll know it! You will also know if there aren't. Simply put, a friendly gesture and if he's not interested, no harm done. Go about being friends. It's a crush that I can't kick. We don't get the chance to meet a lot and I'm tired of waiting for something to happen. So I just want to drop the addiction because I keep thinking of how good he is, when in fact I don't know all about him to decide that he's that good. It's putting him on the pedestal that I need to kick. Can anyone help?
SierraRose Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 A crush is temporary-keep busy, see friends, date... There is no science on forgetting a crush. All I can say is it will come and go quickly.
SoulSearch_CO Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 Just like with any addiction - go cold turkey. Avoid contact whenever possible. Focus on other things.
Author caseinpoint Posted November 9, 2009 Author Posted November 9, 2009 I'll go cold turkey. We have common friends and I dread having hear them talk about him, if they do. I really want to get over this.
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