deux ex machina Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 He he, they are just desperate I believe...no other explanation. That happened to me. I played dead and now they drag me. Hopefuly they loose interest. Or I might squirt some stinky stuff...to repel them away. Ill buy an AXE deodorant...it stinks like dead yak.....dont trust the commercials. Show them the dead hookers you have in the trunk of your car.
deux ex machina Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 You cant fool me, woman. Ive seen the multitasking at work....3 things at most and none of them done properly. Btw thats the reason you always burn something in the kitchen;) "Done" is for the pot roast, Daniel. Or those hellcats.
Author DanielMadr Posted November 8, 2009 Author Posted November 8, 2009 Show them the dead hookers you have in the trunk of your car. I believe she might be a little kinky and she actually might find it appealing. Just for the record....I have no dead hookers in the trunk. I dont have a car. And I like them fresh.
deux ex machina Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 I believe she might be a little kinky and she actually might find it appealing. Just for the record....I have no dead hookers in the trunk. I dont have a car. And I like them fresh.
Adunaphel Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 I think some girls just take it very personally if a guy does not "give in". I remmeber of a post I once read on another forum, where a lady (who was *very* pretty, successful, smart, charming and had a lot of other qualities) was genuinely hurt that a guy who was not single kept refusing her avances - seducing him had become a matter of principle. I also met a couple of girls who remind a lot the ones you just described. I have to say that I find it frustrating that while such a behaviour would not be acceptable for a guy, it is often condoned if the 'perpetrator' is a woman. (obviously I am female and I sincerely hope that my bf never ever gets to know women belonging to that cathegory. )
SierraRose Posted November 9, 2009 Posted November 9, 2009 Excuse me if I am too blunt here, but it sounds like she is a pig that is used to getting what she wants. You rejected her and that was not in her plans.
jamcherries Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 ^ Yes, second that. Another example of entitlement syndrome. Women are encouraged to dislike men who are not attracted to them, on the grounds that they are 'unworthy' anyway.
Woggle Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Many women simply can't stand being told no by a man. It cuts deep and bruises their ego especially if they are used to men catering to them.
cheergirl Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Ewwww.... Gross... what a terrible atmosphere to work in...
boogieboy Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 30 somethings sometimes forget to take the pill...I'm gonna giggle on THAT one all night. :lmao: Her biological clock hates you Daniel, she is just riding the emotional wave...you reminded her of the time she doesnt have. Her vision of a family is slipping away.
always_searching Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 ^ Yes, second that. Another example of entitlement syndrome. Women are encouraged to dislike men who are not attracted to them, on the grounds that they are 'unworthy' anyway. Hahahaha! That's right! A man rejects my advances and I do more than dislike him: I ruin his life! Stalk, boil bunnies, torture his lady-friends...you know, the usual. HELL HATH NO FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED! :lmao: Yeah...I'm totally kidding. If a guy isn't interested: he's not interested. No hard feelings--that's just life and life is all about rejection. Regardless, the point you bring up is a good one: women friends often do this with each other viz. tell the woman that the guy is totally into her, etc. and, when he turns out to not be interested, the women-friends bash the hell out of the poor guy in order to keep their girlfriend's ego intact.
Midnight Rider Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Worst of all it is in a workplace. I go there to make money/save the world not to solve these dramas. That's why it's best to avoid dating/relationships with co-workers. It is hard enough for you going on those dangerous Team America missions, these women don't understand that nor do they have any respect for you.
always_searching Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 I think I have found my soul mate. I love me a man who loves him some crazy!
jerseyboy Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Dont even try to rationalize it dude. Just lose their numbers. One girl, first date, invites me in to sit on her couch. Supposed to go to a club, some acquaintances are there of ours, because Im not totally feeling this girl yet. She starts with we dont have to leave at all, and starts getting touchy, trying to reach in to kiss. IM playing stupid,like I have no idea what she means, and saying nah we should go, theyll be waiting for us, itll be fun etc. I dont really know the way, and she really wants to drive, knoiws a back way etc. Its pouring out, really comiong down hard. And shes going down these small curvy backroads flying. So I ask her to please slow down. And she starts laughing and saying its fun, and now is going even faster. Literally hydroplaning on these f'ing roads. And Im thinking this crazy bitch wants to kill us. So now Im yelling stop the f'ing car and let me out. I had to say it several times before she at least slowed down. Then we get there and shes bitching to friends , off to the side,about my not wanting to mess around and the car ride. I left the club with her nurse friend that night.
b52s Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Many women simply can't stand being told no by a man. It cuts deep and bruises their ego especially if they are used to men catering to them. Exactly, men are so used to being rejected (esp. sexual attempts) by women, it doesn't bother them. If women make the aggressive sexual move, and the guy even hesitates, and says, "let's take things slow" She'll get seriously hurt or ticked-off.
jerseyboy Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Its harder for a woman to do it I think, precisely because the standards are different. And frankly it is pretty humiliating for a woman to throw it out there, and have someone say no thank you. Ie if you dont even value that about her....
Ody Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Its harder for a woman to do it I think, precisely because the standards are different. And frankly it is pretty humiliating for a woman to throw it out there, and have someone say no thank you. Ie if you dont even value that about her.... Agreed but there's a practice makes perfect aspect to dealing with rejection well that many women just never will experience.
jerseyboy Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Agreed but there's a practice makes perfect aspect to dealing with rejection well that many women just never will experience. I think they are more competitive than men in general with that sort of thing Just the way they are wired. So they take everything more to heart. A guy goes out to a club, or I can onyl speak for myself but think its generally true, I may want a certain girl to like me. The rest become an annoyance. People you have to be nice to, let down easy, so you can move on. Almost any girl goes into a club, she wants every guy there to be sweating her. Not saying they want them to be obnoxious about it, or even wish to be approached by all. But they want every guy there to want them. A guy goes somewhere with his girl, hes not particlaurly interested in every guy desiring her. You dont want her to be thought of as unattractive per se, but you arent looking for her to be drawing tons of atention you have to then deal with. Women want a man that every other woman wants. They also want to date men other women find attractive. When I was way younger I thought women would become disinterested if they knew other women had you. As in she had him, I dont want her left overs. Wrong. The more other women want you, and are willing to do to get you, the mroe she does as well.
always_searching Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 (edited) Guys, come on! You're generalizing all women into some kind of satirical caricature! Not all women are afraid to be rejected. Not all women want to play mind games with men. Not all women go to bars looking to get every guy there to want her. Not all women want all other women to desire her man. I mean, give me a break: of course a woman will want other people to recognize the value within her significant other that attracted her--the same goes for men! No one wants to be in a relationship with someone where other people are like, "Why the H is ___ with that person?!" As far as rejection goes: believe me, women know how it feels to be rejected. We get practice too. On the romantic level, it may not always be as direct as a man saying, "I'm not interested in you." However, you can tell by the way a man looks at you or interacts with you whether he is interested. So this, "Women are weak flowers who can't handle rejection" is some kind of medieval nonsense. Edited November 27, 2009 by always_searching
Ody Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 So this, "Women are weak flowers who can't handle rejection" is some kind of medieval nonsense. There's a difference between emotional rejection and that getting shot down at the bar or turned down for sex "rejection lite". Sure the former is pretty gender balanced but I do think the latter happens more often to men and there's a difference between making a move and getting shot down and just kind of realizing the cutie guy/girl at the end of the bar isn't giving the eye contact and such and probably isn't into you. I was probably pretty annoying about it the first bunch of times it happened to me until I realized how silly it was. Thus I could see how women who are shot down much less often might not take it well. As far as all the relationship stuff and women need all the guys attention and this and that that has spawned in the thread, well yeah I'm not touching that stuff with a ten foot pole. I thought we were just talking about getting shot down at the bar!
threebyfate Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Guys, come on! You're generalizing all women into some kind of satirical caricature!And this would be different from any other thread on LS? Everyone gets rejected all the time, whether they know it or not. Men and women will reject each other most often, after a first glance. To take it to the point of being traumatized by some guy who doesn't want to do you, especially since you're the pursuer, is silly. Time to work on your self-esteem, if this is the case.
Ody Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 And this would be different from any other thread on LS? Hehe well we can't help it all we want to do is get laid and watch sports and god damn I wish these b*tches would quit cramping my style and leave me alone when I'm trying to be a player!
Pink Cupcakes Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Like I said before, men are worse then women when it comes to this. Lots of men have a feeling of entitlement and if a woman is not interested, he is very angry and feels it is all womens' fault. Look at the guy who hadn't had a date since 1991 and walked into a gym with mostly women in the class and started shooting and killing. You don't hear this too often with women. Many women simply can't stand being told no by a man. It cuts deep and bruises their ego especially if they are used to men catering to them.
always_searching Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 And this would be different from any other thread on LS? Haha, good point. Sadly, every time I read "All men/women are ___!", it still suprises me, and I always feel the need to comment on it.
Ody Posted November 27, 2009 Posted November 27, 2009 Haha, good point. Sadly, every time I read "All men/women are ___!", it still suprises me, and I always feel the need to comment on it. Do you think using the word "many" as opposed to "all" makes a big difference? I ask because you do that often in your other thread on gender roles and intelligence, for instance: "Most, though not all [...] men want a woman they can converse with but not one who he deems as being far superior to his intellect." However in this thread my statement: "a practice makes perfect aspect to dealing with rejection well that many women just never will experience" presumably garnered this aspect of your reply: "women know how it feels to be rejected. We get practice too". I ask because there is a certain amount of generalization bound to happen in a forum such as this, and some of it you kind of have to take with a bit of leeway or it will always turn into cliche gender role stuff as this thread has become. Although it was probably doomed to end up there right from the hilarious and flippant subject line.
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