DanielMadr Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 Is it paranoid to think some girls start to hate a guy simply because he didnt respond to their subtle sex offers? They try to seduce him and when he doesnt give in (no rejection in order not to humiliate them just doesnt respond) they start to hate him. Some times I was confronted by other girls, friends of some girl who supposedly had feelings for me probably. Her friend(s) told me to just make her happy by f@cking her. First they were very pushy, aggressive about it like it is my fault their friend is not happy or what. So they were rude. Second Im not a whore. Third I dont think I would solve her problem. It would be even bigger unless I was really bad in bed or cried afterwards or something like that. I just told them to mind their business and didnt give in. They f@acking hate me now. All of them. I can live with that. Im used to be hated but I would lie if I told you it doesnt bother me at all. Worst of all it is in a workplace. I go there to make money/save the world not to solve these dramas.
Pink Cupcakes Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 I'm sorry, I just don't follow this scenario.
Author DanielMadr Posted November 8, 2009 Author Posted November 8, 2009 I'm sorry, I just don't follow this scenario. Some girl likes you. And she wants you but you dont want her. She stops liking you and starts to hate you.
stepka Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 That sounds like sexual harrassment and should not be tolerated in any workplace or by either gender. Report their a$$es if it's that bad.
always_searching Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 Some girl likes you. And she wants you but you dont want her. She stops liking you and starts to hate you. Well, nobody likes being rejected. Did you treat her badly in doing so i.e. talk trash about her behind her back, etc? Or you just ignored her advances? If the former, well, I can't blame her for having hard feelings. If the latter, it sounds as though she has a psychological problem and her friends are just taking her side, because she is a female and was rejected--they take it personally too, because women are usually more empathetic about these things. Hopefully, she'll get over it. How old is this girl/woman? Sounds like she's fairly immature--then again, we all act stupid when we're infatuated.
carhill Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 Entitlement complex. Come here, worker monkey, I need servicing
OpenBook Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. (and Shakespeare was FLAMING gay! It was obvious even to him.)
Sam Spade Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 Entitlement complex. Come here, worker monkey, I need servicing I like the new and improved Carhill. Still wise as hell, but with some mad bad boy style on top of that .
carhill Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 Surrounded by the beauty of Asian women, the animal is starting to come out. I'm filling boxer shorts like never before. OP, you know, if you say yes to her, I won't hate you
deux ex machina Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 Take one for the team, Daniel. Do it now!
Pink Cupcakes Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 I think more men have this entitlement complex though. They get angry and blame their height, etc. for not getting dates. Then we have the George Sordini entitlement deal....look what he did.
deux ex machina Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 ... Some times I was confronted by other girls, friends of some girl who supposedly had feelings for me probably. Her friend(s) told me to just make her happy by f@cking her. First they were very pushy, aggressive about it like it is my fault their friend is not happy or what. So they were rude... Wait a minute. You're saying that her friends are pressuring you to do her? This whole group sounds like hellcats (and not in a sexy way).
Author DanielMadr Posted November 8, 2009 Author Posted November 8, 2009 Well, nobody likes being rejected. Did you treat her badly in doing so i.e. talk trash about her behind her back, etc? Or you just ignored her advances? If the former, well, I can't blame her for having hard feelings. If the latter, it sounds as though she has a psychological problem and her friends are just taking her side, because she is a female and was rejected--they take it personally too, because women are usually more empathetic about these things. Hopefully, she'll get over it. How old is this girl/woman? Sounds like she's fairly immature--then again, we all act stupid when we're infatuated. As I wrote, I just ignored it. She is 30 something as the rest. I avoid this age group for fling purposes...they tend to forget to take the pill
Author DanielMadr Posted November 8, 2009 Author Posted November 8, 2009 Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. (and Shakespeare was FLAMING gay! It was obvious even to him.) Nice quote. What bothers me is that I would understand the hate if I humiliated her in some way but how can you go from love to hate just because someone doesnt want you? I know girls who I loved and they ignored me...but havent started to hate them...I loved them.
Author DanielMadr Posted November 8, 2009 Author Posted November 8, 2009 Wait a minute. You're saying that her friends are pressuring you to do her? This whole group sounds like hellcats (and not in a sexy way). Its not like they blackmail me or something...you know girls and their subtle ways of casual words whispered now and then. But the word "do her" actually sounded. I can deal with it. It just makes me wonder how can you become a "jerk" without doing a thing
OpenBook Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 Are you the guy that did the "boob brush" thread?
deux ex machina Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 Its not like they blackmail me or something...you know girls and their subtle ways of casual words whispered now and then. But the word "do her" actually sounded. I can deal with it. It just makes me wonder how can you become a "jerk" without doing a thing There must be more to life than being really, really ridiculously good looking. Fact of life: some people are hunters - others, the hunted. Play dead, and they might go away. Or drag you to their cave by the hair. I forget how that goes.
Author DanielMadr Posted November 8, 2009 Author Posted November 8, 2009 That sounds like sexual harrassment and should not be tolerated in any workplace or by either gender. Report their a$$es if it's that bad. Its not like they would grope me or blackmail me. Its not that bad. side note: Ive worked in offices(not directly though) where majority were female.....there is so much intrigues going on that one wonders where they take time to make at least a coffee. A girl or guy but mostly girl considered by the majority of them as weird or troublemaker (the one who actually works) is out of building in two moths. Try to conquer it on your own and i guarantee you they try to poison you, those witches.
always_searching Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 As I wrote, I just ignored it. Right, but you can ignore her and still talk smack about her, thus my question. She is 30 something as the rest. I avoid this age group for fling purposes...they tend to forget to take the pill Hahaha, that's terrible. I can deal with it. It just makes me wonder how can you become a "jerk" without doing a thing Exactly: You became a "jerk," BECAUSE you didn't do a thing...or, her, rather.
always_searching Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 Fact of life: some people are hunters - others, the hunted. Play dead, and they might go away. Or drag you to their cave by the hair. I forget how that goes. :lmao:
Author DanielMadr Posted November 8, 2009 Author Posted November 8, 2009 Are you the guy that did the "boob brush" thread? Yep, thats me. I would do the boobbrushing gal, if she wasnt married. Now the witches hate me, she avoides me anyway.
deux ex machina Posted November 8, 2009 Posted November 8, 2009 ... Exactly: You became a "jerk," BECAUSE you didn't do a thing...or, her, rather. * Its not like they would grope me or blackmail me. Its not that bad. side note: Ive worked in offices(not directly though) where majority were female.....there is so much intrigues going on that one wonders where they take time to make at least a coffee. A girl or guy but mostly girl considered by the majority of them as weird or troublemaker (the one who actually works) is out of building in two moths. Try to conquer it on your own and i guarantee you they try to poison you, those witches. Haven't you heard, Daniel? We're mulitaskers! It's a gift.
Author DanielMadr Posted November 8, 2009 Author Posted November 8, 2009 There must be more to life than being really, really ridiculously good looking. Fact of life: some people are hunters - others, the hunted. Play dead, and they might go away. Or drag you to their cave by the hair. I forget how that goes. He he, they are just desperate I believe...no other explanation. That happened to me. I played dead and now they drag me. Hopefuly they loose interest. Or I might squirt some stinky stuff...to repel them away. Ill buy an AXE deodorant...it stinks like dead yak.....dont trust the commercials.
Author DanielMadr Posted November 8, 2009 Author Posted November 8, 2009 * Haven't you heard, Daniel? We're mulitaskers! It's a gift. You cant fool me, woman. Ive seen the multitasking at work....3 things at most and none of them done properly. Btw thats the reason you always burn something in the kitchen;)
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