Author spookie Posted November 6, 2009 Author Posted November 6, 2009 There is no way for you to know if he is or not. Like pink cupcakes said, he could go to HR with something like this, you would lose your job. He'd only go to HR if he wanted to get rid of me. I don't think that would serve him very well, at the very least I know he enjoys working with me.
Author spookie Posted November 6, 2009 Author Posted November 6, 2009 I just NEED some kind of closure! Thinking about him while I masturbate is my entire sex life, has been for more than a year - there is something really wrong with that! When is something gonna change?
burning 4 revenge Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Our sexual chemistry is SO STRONG. I firmly believe there is no way he's not attracted to me. why dont you just go to his house look.....hes not going to do anything at work... you yourself say you feel the chemistry. you know your intincts dont lie to you
burning 4 revenge Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Thinking about him while I masturbate is my entire sex life, has been for more than a year - Thats actually pretty hot, tell him that
Author spookie Posted November 6, 2009 Author Posted November 6, 2009 Thats actually pretty hot, tell him that Lol, maybe I should test him that
xpaperxcutx Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 No, Spookie, don't text him that. If you have to tell him about your crush I would rather you tell him face to face.
boogieboy Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Have you two even been intimate yet? You cant be in love with someone when you havent even been to his house yet. Sure as hell cant tell him that. If not, then you cant tell him that...you have to go though the whole dating process first. What are you nuts???? If youre too chicken to tell him in person, and thats the reason you have to do it in text, for the first time, then you already know youre not supposed to tell him. If you want to stop thinking about him, and you want to torpedo your chances with him so you can move on with your life, and lose your job, then tell him. But theres a right way to do this, and you can get what you want.
xpaperxcutx Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Have you two even been intimate yet? You cant be in love with someone when you havent even been to his house yet. Sure as hell cant tell him that. If not, then you cant tell him that...you have to go though the whole dating process first. What are you nuts???? If youre too chicken to tell him in person, and thats the reason you have to do it in text, for the first time, then you already know youre not supposed to tell him. If you want to stop thinking about him, and you want to torpedo your chances with him so you can move on with your life, and lose your job, then tell him. But theres a right way to do this, and you can get what you want. Boogie, I suggest you read her past threads.
Jaytb Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 eh, why not? just do it. Do something to get some closure. Clearly Jack has infected your brains and now you're his zombie lol
Jaytb Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 I just NEED some kind of closure! Thinking about him while I masturbate is my entire sex life, has been for more than a year - there is something really wrong with that! If that's wrong, then I don't want to be right
Author spookie Posted November 6, 2009 Author Posted November 6, 2009 Ughghghghghghghghg how long will it be till i get my moterfeckcking closure
Author spookie Posted November 6, 2009 Author Posted November 6, 2009 What if I asked him something direct but non-threatening, such as, Jack, it would really help me move on if you would please explicitly reject me. Tell me that you DON'T sometimes wonder how it would be. At least, tell me that even if sometimes you do, you already know I'm all wrong for you....
xpaperxcutx Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Ughghghghghghghghg how long will it be till i get my moterfeckcking closure Just go up to him and ask him if he wants to go out with you. It's really depressing seeing you always pining for him and not doing a thing about it.
SadandConfusedWA Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 You will go crazy if you don't do something spookie.
Author spookie Posted November 6, 2009 Author Posted November 6, 2009 You will go crazy if you don't do something spookie. BUt it's my job... how do I do it in a way that doens't endanger my job?
xpaperxcutx Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 BUt it's my job... how do I do it in a way that doens't endanger my job? Well your job is already making you miserable because you see him everyday. I really don't see a difference if you actually made your feelings known. Chances are there's a 50% chance he'll reject you, and another 50% he'll say yes.
Jaytb Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 BUt it's my job... how do I do it in a way that doens't endanger my job? it won't endanger your job. He'll reject you and that will be that. In fact I am certain he will reject you. I've got 50 bucks riding on this
boogieboy Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Boogie, I suggest you read her past threads. I have, she's built this up in her head for a year, she wants to feel the emotions, shes addicted to them. She doesnt want help, She doesnt want to think straight. No matter what is suggested here, shes going to do something stupid. Didnt need to read the other posts to see that. it won't endanger your job. He'll reject you and that will be that. In fact I am certain he will reject you. I've got 50 bucks riding on this Ill see your $50 and raise you $100.
xpaperxcutx Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 it won't endanger your job. He'll reject you and that will be that. In fact I am certain he will reject you. I've got 50 bucks riding on this Can't you be a little optimistic for Spookie?
boogieboy Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Can't you be a little optimistic for Spookie? You can be the resident optimism fairy, I'm gonna gamble.
Jaytb Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Ill see your $50 and raise you $100. Oh yeah, well CHECKMATE! Oh cr@p, wrong game Can't you be a little optimistic for Spookie? well to honest, it just doesn't add up. From the sounds of things it appears he's not interested in her. The thing is she's so infatuated with him that she interprets everything he does as some sort of sign. The cycle just feeds off itself continuously.
Author spookie Posted November 6, 2009 Author Posted November 6, 2009 I have, she's built this up in her head for a year, she wants to feel the emotions, shes addicted to them. She doesnt want help, She doesnt want to think straight. No matter what is suggested here, shes going to do something stupid. Didnt need to read the other posts to see that. Ill see your $50 and raise you $100. What past experience leads to believe I'm going to do something stupid? I've been working there for two years and feeling this way and I've yet to do anything at all. Our relationship is great and always has been.
SadandConfusedWA Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Nah, spookie has good intuition. He can't make a move because of their jobs. I will bet $50 that he is into her.
Author spookie Posted November 6, 2009 Author Posted November 6, 2009 I think he's going to reject me as long as he's my boss. However, that's not the question I want to pose to him... I want him to help me stop being my boss, and also, to tell me if he can be more, then.
SadandConfusedWA Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 I think he's going to reject me as long as he's my boss. However, that's not the question I want to pose to him... I want him to help me stop being my boss, and also, to tell me if he can be more, then. Can you just be straight forward and ask him "If you weren't my boss, would you consider dating me?" or something like that. Even in text/e-mail if that's easier. His reply would tell you a lot.
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