crazy_grl Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 NO! I have no idea what would happen. I don't think anyone here could. The reaction would be different from different people. But that's not the kind of thing you text.
SadandConfusedWA Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Would you be able to really move on if he rejected you after that? If yes then it might not be such a bad idea.
burning 4 revenge Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 You need to do it Spook and you need to do it now
Author spookie Posted November 6, 2009 Author Posted November 6, 2009 Would you be able to really move on if he rejected you after that? If yes then it might not be such a bad idea. Well, it depends on if he actually rejected me. I think what's really stopping me from doing this is the fear that he wouldn't respond in any way at all.
crosswordfiend Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 What would happen if I did that? What if he texts back saying "who is this?"
Johnny M Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Lame. This is the kind of thing that needs to be said in person.
SadandConfusedWA Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Well, it depends on if he actually rejected me. I think what's really stopping me from doing this is the fear that he wouldn't respond in any way at all. Given the history I can sort of see him doing exactly that
burning 4 revenge Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Lame. This is the kind of thing that needs to be said in person. True Spookie do you know where he lives?
Citizen Erased Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 True Spookie do you know where he lives? You are awful.
Author spookie Posted November 6, 2009 Author Posted November 6, 2009 True Spookie do you know where he lives? As a matter of fact I do. At least, I know his address. But come on, that would be so creepy.
burning 4 revenge Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 As a matter of fact I do. At least, I know his address. But come on, that would be so creepy. I would like it if you showd up here and told me you loved me Why should Jack be so different?
Citizen Erased Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 As a matter of fact I do. At least, I know his address. But come on, that would be so creepy. It would. Texting him that would be kind of creepy too. He knows how you feel spookie, you don't need to tell him again. I'm sorry you're still struggling with this.
burning 4 revenge Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 It would. Texting him that would be kind of creepy too. He knows how you feel spookie, you don't need to tell him again. I'm sorry you're still struggling with this. She needs to go over there with a six pack, but its almost ten so she really needs to get a move on while the feeling is hot
SadandConfusedWA Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Maybe he doesn't know that she still feels this way or how deeply it goes for her. I think that spookie has been struggling with this for so long that some more clarification from his side could help.
Citizen Erased Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Maybe he doesn't know that she still feels this way or how deeply it goes for her. I think that spookie has been struggling with this for so long that some more clarification from his side could help. Why does it matter if he knows how much she still cares for him? It made no difference when she originally told him...and his reaction only gave her more questions. Nothing has changed so that his response would be any different this time around.
Pink Cupcakes Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 (edited) No. Somehow this could come back as harassment. He totally would have made a move by now. Also he might go with it to HR, to show you are mentally unstable or something. If you text him, he has written documentation of a sort. Edited November 6, 2009 by Pink Cupcakes
burning 4 revenge Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 I hope the silence means Spookie is acting in some way
Citizen Erased Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 I hope the silence means Spookie is acting in some way You are terrible.
Author spookie Posted November 6, 2009 Author Posted November 6, 2009 Our sexual chemistry is SO STRONG. I firmly believe there is no way he's not attracted to me.
SadandConfusedWA Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 No. Somehow this could come back as harassment. He totally would have made a move by now. Also he might go with it to HR, to show you are mentally unstable or something. If you text him, he has written documentation of a sort. Please. He wouldn't do that
Citizen Erased Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Our sexual chemistry is SO STRONG. I firmly believe there is no way he's not attracted to me. There is no way for you to know if he is or not. Like pink cupcakes said, he could go to HR with something like this, you would lose your job.
Author spookie Posted November 6, 2009 Author Posted November 6, 2009 No, I'm not acting on it... I don't have the balls! I should have acted in some way MONTHS ago (if only to look for another job) but the truth is, I am so paralyzed by the fear of actual rejection that irl, I don't even lend the impression that I'm interested any longer.
SadandConfusedWA Posted November 6, 2009 Posted November 6, 2009 Our sexual chemistry is SO STRONG. I firmly believe there is no way he's not attracted to me. I believe you. But there is a difference between sexual attraction and being in love.
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