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Girl: how come Neo never talks to me

Friend: he's too shy

Friend: he needs to be aggressive

Girl: yes he does

Girl: you can tell him that thank you

Girl: hehe

Friend: hahaha

Girl: i feel like the guy! like i feel like i am chasing him and i dont like it

Girl: ive never had to do that before

Girl: its weird

Friend: so you're interested?

Girl: i dont know

Friend: what do you mean? cuz i mean....when u said "i am chasing him around, etc..."

Friend: it kinda sounds like...maybe theres something?

Girl: well yes there's something but it's really not going anywhere

Girl: this is where i got fed up the last time

Girl: and i really dont think i am going to pursue it

Girl: i am just going to be friends i think

Friend: why dont you want to pursue tho?

Girl: i am just frustrated but oh well

Girl: anyways

Girl: because nothing happens

Friend: cuz i think he is still "recovering" from last time

Girl: but nothing happened that time either

Friend:but what would you expect tho? cuz i mean...if you don't like him, then him doing something/asking you out may be pointless (in a way).

Girl: i understand that

Girl: but nothing is ever going to happen unless he does something

Girl: so it's his choice on what happens

Friend: i c...

Girl: *sigh i g2g though

Girl: i cant be caught online

Friend: but it kinda looks like you're avoiding him kinda

Girl: ugh i am not

Girl: byebye

 

 

This was an online convo my friend sent me about the girl I am trying to patch things up with. Apparently she just wants me to make a move. I feel bad for using this convo as a tool to help myself but I can't stop thinking about it. What would you take from this conversation?

 

Is she giving me a chance? What are her intentions and what can I do?

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um, well, first you should stop violating her privacy. i doubt i would speak to a friend who cut and pasted a conversation of mine or someone who read it. it's really, really, creepy.

 

but that aside, yes, make a move. just call her out for coffee and have fun again. leave the heavy stuff aside for a bit if you want to patch things up.

 

and, for the love of god, deal with her directly, like a man.

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