I am who I am Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 So I met this girl last Tuesday at the local watering hole. Hit it off immediately... hell, after 20 minutes of conversation, I went in for a kiss. What can I say, sometimes I go balls to the wall Somewhere in the conversation she mentioned that she had some great seats to an Atlanta Braves game. Casually I mention that would be fun as all get go, not realizing that I just asked her out... to a baseball game that is being played 5 hours away and in a different state altogether. Fast forward to Saturday... We are eating dogs and funnel cakes and watching the braves make a great comeback in the bottom of the ninth (were down 4-1). Followed by drinks back at the hotel's rooftop bar (the Glenn hotel, I highly recommend it if in that area) overlooking the Atlanta skyline. Date 2 took place on Sunday ... hit up the aquarium (again, highly recommended) for a few hours before rolling back home, where we had a night cap before retiring back to her house. (What can I say... dinner and a movie is so passe ) Date 3, last night, walking around downtown holding hands, sip on a drink on a rooftop bar overlooking the harbor, then dinner at a swank Thai restaurant... where she picked up the check!! (she had me at hello! lol... honestly, first chick out of the last 15 I've gone out with that did this). This girl is deliciously dangerous. Can already see me falling for her, as I have already started to break plans for the weekend with one of the other girls I've been going out with, just so we can spend time together this weekend, and well, the 22 year old I've decided to write off completely. Haven't felt this kinda of connection in a loooong time. Well, here's to seeing what the future holds for me!
carhill Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 I think, in retrospect, it will be the too much too fast part, but, hey, enjoy the ride
Jilly Bean Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 but, hey, enjoy the ride LOL. And why not? Sounds like he's got a good situation as being the boy toy while she pays for everything... Would many men say no to that?
carhill Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 None that come to my mind. I think my avatar explains all
zicke Posted June 26, 2008 Posted June 26, 2008 I agree, any "relationship" that starts this fast will end very, very quick..primarily by the male who will eventually freak himself out. Once you two have sex, if you haven't already, you'll run pretty quick. You just do not know her that well yet, and she doesn't know you that well...slow it waaaayy down. Then, you have a shot.
Calisto Posted June 27, 2008 Posted June 27, 2008 I think it is kind of rude for you to break plans, that is not really nice. Plus, why can't you just tell her you have plans? Then she'd know you have a life outside of her. (In other words watch about making her the center of your world.) But the whirlwind thing can be fun. You never know, enjoy it and ignore the cynics.
Author I am who I am Posted December 2, 2009 Author Posted December 2, 2009 What was the crazy part? Meeting a girl, making out within 20 minutes, and then a few days later taking her across state lines for a first date?!? Generally don't do 5 hour car rides on the 1st date... Sounds like he's got a good situation as being the boy toy while she pays for everything... Would many men say no to that? Umm, yea... I paid for everything. Where did you read that she was paying for anything?!? Hell, she lived with me for a year and never paid rent or bills! (She had her own place, though she only went there to get mail it seemed.) I agree, any "relationship" that starts this fast will end very, very quick Well, you were close! The relationship just ended the other week (insert sad panda face here). A year a a half later... Ahh, what a wonderful woman! She is gonna make some man out there very, very happy. Sadly, it wasn't me. So since I've been back into the fray, I can only say.. wow! Dating is too much fun... already I've seen way too much drama, from drunks to cougars to college aged girls... and that was all at the same bar. Now I'm off to Manhattan for two weeks and looking forward to what tomorrow brings...
SoulSearch_CO Posted December 2, 2009 Posted December 2, 2009 Umm, yea... I paid for everything. Where did you read that she was paying for anything?!? Might've helped to re-read your OP: dinner at a swank Thai restaurant... where she picked up the check!! (she had me at hello! lol... honestly, first chick out of the last 15 I've gone out with that did this). Sorry to hear things ended, though.
Author I am who I am Posted December 2, 2009 Author Posted December 2, 2009 Yeah.... thats what you get for skimming. Tried to edit, but the double post, screwed it up. But Jilly bean was implying that she paid for everything.... she paid for one dinner, after I paid for the entire weekend. Sugar-momma she was not.
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