stace79 Posted March 2, 2007 Posted March 2, 2007 My NC is working faster than I'd thought...it had barely been 24 hours last night. Well this morning I woke up and turned my phone on, and I had not only a voicemail but also a text. His VM was basically saying he missed talking to me and he hoped I wasn't just shutting him out without saying anything to him. And that if I didn't want him to talk to me I needed to just say so. The text says "i cannot fathom that youre pulling this when u know what ive been through this week. for u to shut me out now is incomprehensible and unforgiveable." He sent that one at almost 3 a.m. which means he probably didn't sleep much last night. First of all, why should I have to tell him I'm going NC? GOD I hate guys. =) Sorry to the other guys who are decent on here.
Author thecount Posted March 2, 2007 Author Posted March 2, 2007 Stace, The first 2 weeks I was fine, Then it started to really hit me how much I miss her. I dont' know exectly what I miss, if it's her or just having someone around me. We were together all the time. your ex sounds pretty messed up in the head. he leaves you, but you have to be there for him. It's like you don't even have an option. what the sh*t is that? Good for you for not contacting his sorry A$$. Keep it up. And just remember do the N/C thing for yourself. Not to get him back. He needs to change, he needs to be a little more empathetic to you and your feelings. He is way too selfish. 24 hours is not going to do that. It takes way longer time. I'll give you the same advice everyone here has giving me. Be good to yourself. You deserve better.
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