chocolate_boy Posted August 19, 2010 Posted August 19, 2010 Been dating a girl I've known for a few months, she admitted she had a huge crush on me for ages, we had our first date couple of weeks ago which was perfect, and we ended up having sex. Follow up date two nights later, same again and stayed at hers, she was texting me all weekend after, saying she misses my cuddles etc. Third date at hers couple of nights ago, we got a bit drunk and started talking about stuff, I think I acted a bit too keen though, I didn't ask her to be my gf or anything, but I do remember pulling her up on spending time with another guy she sees a bit, I said it in a jokey/teasy way that I'd like her all to myself, but she then said "oh don't be needy I can't be doing with that". I remember at the time cringing, but not sure how I handled it, probably a bit too tipsy. We fell asleep cuddling and I got plenty of kisses the next morning initiated by her, we are going to a party together tomorrow night, and spending some time together on Saturday afternoon. Since the other night, I've backed off a bit, she keeps chatting to me on IM when I'm on-line, she pops up and says hey, but she just seems a bit off now, like when I suggest anything romantic sounding, she isn't replying to the comment. She's also said she's not going to be able to do sat afternoon now as she has double shift at work with only 4 hours between when she needs to catch up on shopping/housework etc. I'm getting the signs she's slipping away a bit, I'm just wondering if I screwed up beyond repair, or what I can do now? i do really really like this girl, and I've been thinking about her pretty much 24/7. We're still going to the party tomorrow night, I know I need to chill but just wondering if it's a lost cause now? I really hate the early stages of dating sometimes, it's so tough. Before the third date she was telling me nobody ever made her laugh like I do and she loved spending time with me, all those txts seem to have stopped last few days though.
torranceshipman Posted August 19, 2010 Posted August 19, 2010 Dating is a minefield, hey...all i can say is, from a girls POV, act cool. Fairly interested but cool. I guarantee she'll be more into you
Author chocolate_boy Posted August 19, 2010 Author Posted August 19, 2010 Dating is a minefield, hey...all i can say is, from a girls POV, act cool. Fairly interested but cool. I guarantee she'll be more into you Thanks, yeah she seemed really into me until today/yesterday, I'm backing off and letting her initiate contact etc. I'm just hoping i can maybe patch things up by being cool tomorrow night then, if it's not a lost cause
Author chocolate_boy Posted August 19, 2010 Author Posted August 19, 2010 Any other views? Kinda beating myself up over this all day We've been chatting on IM again, she initiated it earlier and she's sent me a couple of emails, but they're not flirty like they usually are.
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