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Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 3rd November 2017, 5:41 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 2,084
Posted By Trust666
I got back with my first serious girlfriend from...

I got back with my first serious girlfriend from college 25 years later. It was great until she left me for another man lol. Now it totally sucks, I never thought she would betray me in a million...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 30th October 2017, 6:59 AM
Replies: 151
Views: 7,378
Posted By Trust666
Oh we weren't together for 25 years. Dated in...

Oh we weren't together for 25 years. Dated in college then again recently in our early 40s. Now she left me for her high school sweetheart. Friends for 25 years. Obviously she didn't care about being...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 29th October 2017, 8:10 PM
Replies: 151
Views: 7,378
Posted By Trust666
Sorry to hear about all this. We make mistakes...

Sorry to hear about all this. We make mistakes and as mentioned above sometimes we do have to touch the fire.

My ex is dangerous to me, so in order to get over her I had to do NC and also burn...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 27th October 2017, 5:58 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 607
Posted By Trust666
OK so he is telling you he thinks he rebounded...

OK so he is telling you he thinks he rebounded with you, "did not have freedom after last ex".

Not black and white = I want to go play the field while you think of me and hope I come back. Plan B....
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 27th October 2017, 4:38 PM
Replies: 151
Views: 7,378
Posted By Trust666
9 times out of 10 I agree. But hate/anger can...

9 times out of 10 I agree. But hate/anger can motivate and help some folks especially when you factor in why a breakup happened.

I am finding betrayal is best dealt with hate/anger to help me move...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 27th October 2017, 4:34 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 607
Posted By Trust666
Wishy washy reasons usually mean = all I know is...

Wishy washy reasons usually mean = all I know is I do not want this relationship but I am not going to just say it out loud.

He might have had feelings for you at one point, and you and him and...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 27th October 2017, 4:28 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 3,382
Posted By Trust666
My ex went from clingy, insecure, wanting to be...

My ex went from clingy, insecure, wanting to be with me 24/7 to pretty much ghosting in an instant. I went NC and she claimed I was ignoring her. So from her not contacting me to her saying "you are...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 27th October 2017, 4:23 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 3,382
Posted By Trust666
If you continue to contact him and or reply your...

If you continue to contact him and or reply your hurt now will be miniscule compared to what continued contact will bring.

Sometimes we say what we need to say and then go NC, you said what you...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 27th October 2017, 4:15 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 588
Posted By Trust666
...and then he went quiet on you again. Actions...

...and then he went quiet on you again. Actions over words. You could have done nothing wrong, he just might not be that into you or about a gazillion other things.

It is hard, and I still fail...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 27th October 2017, 4:11 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 3,382
Posted By Trust666
Forever is negotiable. I have had many exes come...

Forever is negotiable. I have had many exes come back years later as friends and also lovers, but until you are healed never reply and never initiate contact.

I wish I could forget my ex and what...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 27th October 2017, 4:01 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 607
Posted By Trust666
Exactly what you didn't want to hear....he moved...

Exactly what you didn't want to hear....he moved on and you need to now also.

NC you two are done, it's hard I am going through same thing. A woman I knew for more than half my life and trusted...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 27th October 2017, 3:51 PM
Replies: 151
Views: 7,378
Posted By Trust666
^This. You are not alone, I am a guy who...

^This.

You are not alone, I am a guy who hates no one, but I now hate my ex. Betrayal does that. But at some point, we have to do as Blanco says and let go of it after it no longer serves us.
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 27th October 2017, 3:12 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 3,382
Posted By Trust666
Many women and men in their 30s that do not...

Many women and men in their 30s that do not mature and are unable to commit have a rough time dating, and or finding someone to put up with their issues especially non-commitment.

You two want...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 27th October 2017, 1:47 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 301
Posted By Trust666
Then concentrate on that also, no idealizing just...

Then concentrate on that also, no idealizing just what you did not like. Makes moving on much easier.

Good luck with everything and sorry you are going through this. Heartbreak is a chance to...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 27th October 2017, 1:45 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 3,382
Posted By Trust666
I have abanodonment issues myself, we all have...

I have abanodonment issues myself, we all have baggage. When it comes to baggage we have to decide what works with our baggage.

If you can not deal with his actions due to his claimed baggage then...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 27th October 2017, 1:38 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 588
Posted By Trust666
When he contacts you again ignore him, do not...

When he contacts you again ignore him, do not reply. You don;t want this guy in your life, he'll mess you up.

Ghosting hurts we want answers and it bruises our ego, ignoring him will drive him...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 27th October 2017, 1:33 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 3,382
Posted By Trust666
Being each others' firsts seems like alot. This...

Being each others' firsts seems like alot. This woman above was my first and I was her first at 19. We both moved on, and I admit when we reconnected recently the idea of being each others' first was...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 27th October 2017, 1:27 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 3,382
Posted By Trust666
We originally broke up at 19 and we reconnected...

We originally broke up at 19 and we reconnected at 43. That breakup was college travels.

The most recent dating break up at 43 she said we would reconnect a few times. I told her I had no desire...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 27th October 2017, 1:22 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 3,382
Posted By Trust666
It's not what people say it's their actions. ...

It's not what people say it's their actions.

My ex who I knew for 25 years, we dated twice in that period and were awesome friends told me she loved me and initiated crazy deviant sex the day of...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 27th October 2017, 1:17 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 301
Posted By Trust666
It can take a while, but if you felt it was stale...

It can take a while, but if you felt it was stale concentrate on that aspect and it might help you move along quicker.

We're all different and every breakup is different. I moved on within a week...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 27th October 2017, 1:12 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 3,382
Posted By Trust666
NC is simply for you to heal, if you are...

NC is simply for you to heal, if you are wondering how long it is going to take him to realize you are not yet done grieving. The answer is simple, stay NC indefinitely and move on, it's over at...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 26th October 2017, 10:25 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 402
Posted By Trust666
//I guess I'm just sort of in a weird place...

//I guess I'm just sort of in a weird place tonight. Thoughts of what might have been and my life this past year.//

In a much better place than you would have been from the sounds of it.

I get...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 26th October 2017, 7:53 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 584
Posted By Trust666
Go full NC and try and think of it in a positive...

Go full NC and try and think of it in a positive light. It was short, and she was honest. I've dated women for years who were less honest in the end, and feel I wasted years with some of them.

The...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 26th October 2017, 7:43 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 2,460
Posted By Trust666
She didn't laugh when weeks later I said that to...

She didn't laugh when weeks later I said that to her in a conversation involving returning clothes and me moving across the country soon.

We argued a bit and I was mean and immature and brought up...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 26th October 2017, 7:05 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 2,460
Posted By Trust666
Same girl, while breaking up with me Her:...

Same girl, while breaking up with me

Her: you're my white whale, I have been chasing you for over 20 years.

me: um you had me so how am I a white whale

Her: I guess you're right, I was just...
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