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Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 7th January 2019, 4:27 PM
Replies: 15
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Posted By Lovezen_30
Why? To give you an example of what makes...

Why?

To give you an example of what makes him friend-worthy. Two weeks ago I was extremely nervous about a performance I was doing...knowing this, he travelled to the venue, even though it was a...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 7th January 2019, 3:57 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 498
Posted By Lovezen_30
Good idea to try being friends post break up?

So I was dating a guy for just shy of 3 months. In a previous thread I was fed up of him being distant (not replying for days, not initiating anymore) - eventually I'd had enough and raised it with...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 9th December 2018, 4:20 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 498
Posted By Lovezen_30
saw him again today and I feel pretty broken up...

saw him again today and I feel pretty broken up about it. We are actually in the same theatre group and had rehearsals. One of the cast members asked if there was something going on because of the...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 8th December 2018, 5:41 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 498
Posted By Lovezen_30
Kelliousme, thanks for your reply. In the past my...

Kelliousme, thanks for your reply. In the past my counsellor & yoga teacher both told me I give too much to people who don't always give back. Because of that, I am now conscious of looking after...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 8th December 2018, 5:24 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 498
Posted By Lovezen_30
Well - we did mention meeting for a tea/coffee...

Well - we did mention meeting for a tea/coffee next week. I'd like to because I enjoy spending time with him & I also I feel I am able to be supportive right now/he does the same for me. The only...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 8th December 2018, 5:05 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 498
Posted By Lovezen_30
I think an important thing to mention is that the...

I think an important thing to mention is that the abuse scenario had been a repressed memory until this March. So he's dealing with all that emotionally - then he meets me and it is obviously a very...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 8th December 2018, 4:53 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 498
Posted By Lovezen_30
I don't accept that I've been selfish - I've been...

I don't accept that I've been selfish - I've been there for him patiently talking things through on multiple occasions. Also part of the reason I broke it off IS so he can focus on himself and not a...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 8th December 2018, 4:29 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 498
Posted By Lovezen_30
Broke it off yesterday, he is texting me today?

I've been seeing a guy for 2 1/2 months but 2 weeks ago he became very distant. During an intimate moment that triggered him, he told me he had been abused as a child. We went on to have a lovely...
Forum: Dating 4th November 2018, 5:48 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 325
Posted By Lovezen_30
Well, after a bit of space (er, 1 1/2 days) he...

Well, after a bit of space (er, 1 1/2 days) he seems very keen again. Things got very intense between us quite quickly and I think it freaked him out. I thought he would come back soon, because I...
Forum: Dating 2nd November 2018, 7:40 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 325
Posted By Lovezen_30
The date happened and wow, now I understand! ...

The date happened and wow, now I understand!

So he does look a little sick/pale & he tells me he was not going to blow me off, but was waiting another hour in the hopes he would feel better....
Forum: Dating 1st November 2018, 3:23 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 325
Posted By Lovezen_30
Yes after this date, I am going to pull way back...

Yes after this date, I am going to pull way back and let him take the lead. If he doesn't, that tells me he is happy to amble along dating as long as I am steering it forward - but it'll be good to...
Forum: Dating 1st November 2018, 2:32 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 325
Posted By Lovezen_30
Well I'm not sure whose turn it is now! But yes,...

Well I'm not sure whose turn it is now! But yes, I have done a lot.

I guess I'll just reply tomorrow saying 'Unless I hear otherwise I'll be waiting at the station for 7.' :) If he cancels again,...
Forum: Dating 1st November 2018, 2:13 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 325
Posted By Lovezen_30
Cancelled/rescheduled date. Feeling vulnerable, thoughts?

I've been seeing a seemingly lovely guy for a month. He has been very consistent in terms of meeting up, showing interest and planning dates. On the last date I would say things were taken up a notch...
Forum: Dating 14th October 2018, 12:46 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 201
Posted By Lovezen_30
No. We got closer and closer and then bumped into...

No. We got closer and closer and then bumped into his friend at the end of the night!! I definitely thought a kiss was coming as he was gazing at me like this > :love: but we couldn't shake the...
Forum: Dating 14th October 2018, 12:28 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 201
Posted By Lovezen_30
Yeah we kissed each others cheeks a few times...

Yeah we kissed each others cheeks a few times last time. His lips felt so...soft :love: Definitely felt the chemistry.

So it's actually an all day music festival he's asked me to go next weekend....
Forum: Dating 14th October 2018, 11:59 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 201
Posted By Lovezen_30
Confused - friends or dating?!

We went out again the other night, but I'm starting to wonder if this is a friends or romantic situation. The setting was quite intimate & at one point he leaned forward so that we were basically...
Forum: Dating 8th October 2018, 4:10 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 201
Posted By Lovezen_30
Looks like I'm being ghosted...

Oh never mind. He contacted me apologising profusely for not being in touch and asking me out tomorrow...

Damnit I need to find a way to calm these raging butterflies! I am not a teenager...
Forum: Dating 6th October 2018, 3:58 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 201
Posted By Lovezen_30
Spain. I was in an LDR this time last year (that...

Spain. I was in an LDR this time last year (that time it was me moving) & it didn't work out. I found the LDR very difficult - although I was not the one who ended it - and think I would struggle to...
Forum: Dating 6th October 2018, 3:45 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 201
Posted By Lovezen_30
Should we keep dating if he's moving next year?

Met a guy & hit it off immediately, we chatted for a week until our first date last night. We went to a show & went for a drink after...which turned into 4 drinks, all of which he paid for. We had a...
Forum: Dating 24th September 2018, 11:39 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 92
Posted By Lovezen_30
However

That said, I think he has added other people from the social meet up so I realllly want to avoid reading into it!
Forum: Dating 24th September 2018, 11:36 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 92
Posted By Lovezen_30
To ask him out, or not to ask him out - rebound risk?

Hey everyone. I went through a break up 6 months ago and I was totally heartbroken. My ex had asked me to move in with him but then emailed to break up and had a 'new' girlfriend within a week. I...
Forum: Dating 4th August 2018, 7:52 PM
Replies: 14
Views: 424
Posted By Lovezen_30
Why would you want to be with a guy that takes...

Why would you want to be with a guy that takes photos of girls without their knowledge for a start? No offence but he sounds like a major creeper and no prize.

You're not happy, get rid.
Forum: Long-Distance Relationships 7th June 2018, 1:33 PM
Replies: 3
Views: 464
Posted By Lovezen_30
Long distance failed & I'm about to move home - anyone else?

5 1/2 months into 8 months of separation my ex broke it off. He said he had mental health issues, 'I need to be alone just now' bla bla - on social media I discover he actually left me to be with...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 23rd May 2018, 9:09 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 259
Posted By Lovezen_30
Its simply a concern I have at the moment. ...

Its simply a concern I have at the moment.

Yes, I was generous. One week before we broke up I had 2 lunch hampers sent to his home because he was exhausted at work and it was one less thing for...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 23rd May 2018, 2:40 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 259
Posted By Lovezen_30
Were you left with the feeling that the...

Were you left with the feeling that the relationship had been a lie? Because that's how I'm feeling at the moment.

I am glad that you were able to let go and enjoy your life again. At the moment I...
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