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Forum: The Other Man / Woman 26th December 2017, 1:48 PM
Replies: 278
Views: 23,749
Posted By jenkins95
Love you too midnight :) Have a lovely...

Love you too midnight :)

Have a lovely holiday - and the same to Breaking Wave. Things WILL get better, even though it's almost impossible to believe right now. Like midnight, I'm over two years...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 24th December 2017, 4:23 PM
Replies: 92
Views: 5,496
Posted By jenkins95
Very wise words. And wonderful to see one of my...

Very wise words. And wonderful to see one of my LS heroes back posting again!

How are you Grey Cloud? I still think about you lots and I truly hope you are in a good place in your life and your...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 24th December 2017, 4:12 PM
Replies: 92
Views: 5,496
Posted By jenkins95
Yes, 100% this. MM get themselves into...

Yes, 100% this.

MM get themselves into affairs by a series of very selfish, very dumb, very shortsighted decisions. Both your MM and I tick this box.

But I think where we differ is what we did...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 22nd December 2017, 9:32 PM
Replies: 92
Views: 5,496
Posted By jenkins95
Thank you for such kind words S. I'm truly...

Thank you for such kind words S. I'm truly trying, but I know that the potential to be 'bad' is in me. I'll have to guard every day for the rest of my life that that version of me stays locked away....
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 22nd December 2017, 1:26 PM
Replies: 92
Views: 5,496
Posted By jenkins95
(((Serendipity))) Lovely to see you back...

(((Serendipity)))

Lovely to see you back again (well, not really, because that normally means things have become tough again - but you know what I mean!). I'm honoured that you consider me a...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 22nd December 2017, 1:14 PM
Replies: 92
Views: 5,496
Posted By jenkins95
(((Serendipity))) Lovely to see you back...

(((Serendipity)))

Lovely to see you back again (well, not really, because that normally means things have become tough again - but you know what I mean!). I'm honoured that you consider me a...
Forum: Infidelity 22nd December 2017, 5:27 AM
Replies: 49
Views: 7,005
Posted By jenkins95
For now! But it is very unlikely to continue...

For now!

But it is very unlikely to continue that way. It is a very rare person (and especially a woman) who can have sex regularly with the same person and not develop any feelings. It is also...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 21st December 2017, 12:56 PM
Replies: 122
Views: 11,391
Posted By jenkins95
This is an excellent illustration of the type of...

This is an excellent illustration of the type of man you are dealing with - and will hopefully help you see him for what he is and move on.

I was an MM in an affair and that makes me (or made me)...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 19th December 2017, 12:45 PM
Replies: 122
Views: 11,391
Posted By jenkins95
(((lookingforclosure))) This thread is...

(((lookingforclosure)))

This thread is heartbreaking to read. You have cleary suffered so much over the past years due to MM...and of course, partly down to yourself (but mainly him).

The...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 7th December 2017, 11:13 PM
Replies: 497
Views: 39,606
Posted By jenkins95
Well what a hero!! (Rolls eyes) Come on...

Well what a hero!! (Rolls eyes)

Come on niteandfog, he denied involvement TO SAVE HIS OWN ASS! Surely you see that?
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 30th November 2017, 6:35 PM
Replies: 43
Views: 4,585
Posted By jenkins95
(((BreakingWave))) I remember your posts...

(((BreakingWave)))

I remember your posts from a few months back and often think about you.

PLEASE repeat, re-post, vent and sound like a broken record as much as you need to. Don't shy away,...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 30th November 2017, 12:22 PM
Replies: 497
Views: 39,606
Posted By jenkins95
I just want to say that I agree wholeheartedly...

I just want to say that I agree wholeheartedly with midnight blue's post. I say this as an MM who developed feelings for the OW, became obsessed, fell in love, etc, etc.... all the usual c*ap......nd...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 30th November 2017, 12:02 PM
Replies: 113
Views: 8,214
Posted By jenkins95
Amen to that Birdies. I'm another one whose been...

Amen to that Birdies. I'm another one whose been there and got the t-shirt :(

Good luck OP, you've said some very encouraging things in your recent posts. Wishing you the strength to go NC and...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 28th November 2017, 2:43 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 2,725
Posted By jenkins95
There may be some truth in what you say here and...

There may be some truth in what you say here and I find that debate an interesting one.

But the fact is, this particular man discussed in this particular thread DID sign up for it - his choice. If...
Forum: Infidelity 21st November 2017, 11:13 AM
Replies: 46
Views: 8,807
Posted By jenkins95
Just wanted to take a moment to comment on this...

Just wanted to take a moment to comment on this post. aliveagain, I have often admired your posts from afar, but never knew your full history before. This is so shocking to read. No one should have...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 21st November 2017, 10:10 AM
Replies: 43
Views: 4,585
Posted By jenkins95
(((Vivir))) I really feel for you - that was...

(((Vivir))) I really feel for you - that was traumatic and must have left you feeling very emotionally fragile and confused. The ripples will last a few days, but you'll get past it and good for you...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 20th November 2017, 6:04 AM
Replies: 26
Views: 3,823
Posted By jenkins95
Amazing thread. I relate to so much of what has...

Amazing thread. I relate to so much of what has been written here. I will be back to contribute a lot more, but don't have much time now so will just comment on the above.

I'm very sceptical when...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 17th November 2017, 3:21 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 851
Posted By jenkins95
Wow, thank you! But I thought what you wrote was...

Wow, thank you! But I thought what you wrote was brilliant - it really spoke to me!

I am really rooting for you alsudduth. You seem like such a lovely, genuine person and I feel your vulnerability...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 17th November 2017, 10:28 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 778
Posted By jenkins95
Hi Nikki I'm glad that posters aren't...

Hi Nikki

I'm glad that posters aren't immediately taking the "just divorce him" approach, which we sometimes see. There is some good, sound advice here.

To me, this...



...and the fact...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 17th November 2017, 8:02 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,245
Posted By jenkins95
Some very touching stories on this thread. It is...

Some very touching stories on this thread. It is wonderful that people can find happinness again after the heartbreak of losing a life partner.

This really made me laugh: -



This is the...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 17th November 2017, 7:34 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 851
Posted By jenkins95
Hi alsudduth I find this thread very moving...

Hi alsudduth

I find this thread very moving and I am extremely impressed at how you are working to make the best of yourself, your marriage…and especially your family. I truly applaud you for your...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 17th November 2017, 4:29 AM
Replies: 21
Views: 1,245
Posted By jenkins95
Just wanted to share a little anecdote that this...

Just wanted to share a little anecdote that this thread reminded me of.

In the 1990s, my wife and I went on holiday to Sicily and visited a beautiful rural church one day. In the graveyard, an...
Forum: Infidelity 11th November 2017, 4:31 AM
Replies: 55
Views: 10,541
Posted By jenkins95
OP, I'm sorry to say, as a former cheater myself,...

OP, I'm sorry to say, as a former cheater myself, I agree 100% with Blues. I would almost bet my house on the fact that he slept with (at least) her.

You have both screwed up, but actually, if...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 10th November 2017, 9:56 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 640
Posted By jenkins95
Brilliant post! We all change and we all...

Brilliant post!

We all change and we all show love in different ways and this may change as we go through the stages of life. We all have a past.

Bottom line, your H has never been happier!
...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 10th November 2017, 5:16 AM
Replies: 497
Views: 39,606
Posted By jenkins95
Hello again ((niteandfog)) I know you are...

Hello again ((niteandfog))

I know you are getting a hard time here and you probably feel you are being ganged up on by the LS members. Know that it is only because the posters speak from...
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