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Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 9th October 2017, 5:43 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 572
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
Husband is a binge drinker

Background: I am 28, husband is 34. Married for just over a year. Husband is Australian and living in the UK with me at my family home. We both work.


My husband has always liked a drink but...
Forum: In Search Of... 19th October 2016, 6:47 AM
Replies: 98
Views: 4,752
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
IMO most people are 'average' in one way or...

IMO most people are 'average' in one way or another, yet most people are able to snare at least 1 partner in their lifetime.


If you see average as 'boring, uninteresting, not special' then think...
Forum: Self-Improvement and Personal Well-Being 19th October 2016, 6:35 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 664
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
Escapism. Perhaps a way to cope with...

Escapism.


Perhaps a way to cope with boredom, depression or anxiety.


A way to avoid reality and responsibility.
Forum: Self-Improvement and Personal Well-Being 19th October 2016, 6:34 AM
Replies: 374
Views: 13,366
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
I know that your health issue is a separate beast...

I know that your health issue is a separate beast and naturally will consume a lot of you thinking but I think it would be helpful to work on your self-esteem and self-confidence in the meantime.

...
Forum: Self-Improvement and Personal Well-Being 12th October 2016, 6:44 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 680
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
I was a teen when I had my first love... ...

I was a teen when I had my first love...


I miss the big group of male and female friends I had...


I miss how heaving my social life was...


I miss my friends before babies and...
Forum: Self-Improvement and Personal Well-Being 12th October 2016, 4:12 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,582
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
A lot of the time, people can't see there own...

A lot of the time, people can't see there own beauty or attractiveness until someone likes them or sees their potential. Think of all the teenagers who feel awkward and ugly until someone has a crush...
Forum: Self-Improvement and Personal Well-Being 12th October 2016, 4:04 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 680
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
Feel like I'm mourning my teen self

I am 27 years old.


I am still in good shape and pretty. I have a partner and a good job. I've travelled and done a lot of cool things. I miss my teenage self :(


I miss being 15, 16, 17. I...
Forum: Coping 12th October 2016, 4:02 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 483
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
Presently, I am in a job that I don't really...

Presently, I am in a job that I don't really enjoy but the money is good. I'm earning 30 grand. I am thinking of staying for a year and then going. I am married and I love my partner but our...
Forum: Coping 11th October 2016, 7:46 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 483
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
You raise a really good point about missing being...

You raise a really good point about missing being 17 and him being part of that. I think I am missing his friendship. He had a whip sharp mind, was witty and made me laugh and I really connected with...
Forum: Coping 9th October 2016, 9:13 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 318
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
Yes I feel like this a lot, even though I have...

Yes I feel like this a lot, even though I have done a lot of travelling and had a lot of fun. I feel 'trapped' by life a lot so I really relate to you. I think a big part of my problem is that I...
Forum: Coping 9th October 2016, 9:10 AM
Replies: 1,162
Views: 146,037
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
It's been 8 years. I really loved you. I miss...

It's been 8 years. I really loved you. I miss your friendship. You were so funny and you captured my mind in a way no-one else ever has. I miss you. I hope you are having a really great life.
Forum: Coping 9th October 2016, 9:08 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 483
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
8 years on...thinking about my first love

My first love and I broke up when we were 19. I'm 27 now. I am since with a new partner and we are married (we kind of had to get married to secure his visa...we were happy just being in a...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 24th November 2015, 6:03 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 841
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
That's so romantic! I wish the best for you both...

That's so romantic! I wish the best for you both :love:
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 24th November 2015, 6:02 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 970
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
Yes, I agree. It's sort of a vicious cycle in the...

Yes, I agree. It's sort of a vicious cycle in the case of such relationships as the man can be lazy/unorganised/chaotic and so the woman, overly-organised, a bit anxious, controlling, tries to...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 24th November 2015, 5:46 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 841
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
That's the best VeveCakes - enjoy it :) How did...

That's the best VeveCakes - enjoy it :) How did you meet?
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 24th November 2015, 5:37 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 841
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
Sex is not always emotional, and not always...

Sex is not always emotional, and not always emotional for BOTH partners. You can have a strong emotional connection which doesn't transcend into sex.
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 24th November 2015, 5:36 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 841
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
My partner and I are strongly physically and...

My partner and I are strongly physically and emotionally connected but we are lacking mentally. Our sex life is great and we are emotionally strong, but I can't have in-depth conversations with him...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 24th November 2015, 5:34 PM
Replies: 53
Views: 2,246
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
I've always loved cats (and animals generally). I...

I've always loved cats (and animals generally). I own one. Joint pet.

Do I have emotional issues?

Hm...

Don't we all to some extent?

There is the stereotype of the crazy cat lady...but I...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 24th November 2015, 5:32 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 500
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
I've had this with an ex too and I feel like such...

I've had this with an ex too and I feel like such a sap for ever carrying his ass. I saved up 6 grand + when I was alone but when I was with him I was in the minus for the first time in my life. One...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 24th November 2015, 5:30 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 500
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
This is a boundary issue. She owes you...

This is a boundary issue.

She owes you money, you have told her you want it back, and she is refusing to do so. She is stepping over your boundaries.

You have to assert yourself here. It's YOUR...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 24th November 2015, 5:28 PM
Replies: 22
Views: 1,528
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
Honestly there are so many reasons. 1)...

Honestly there are so many reasons.

1) Scared they won't find love again or scared to start over (fear of unknown; better the devil you know)
2) A level of comfort/security in the relationship...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 24th November 2015, 5:25 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,405
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
If your partner is showing disregard for your...

If your partner is showing disregard for your physical, emotional or mental well being, then they don't care about you. Ultimately it is up to YOU and you only to put yourself first and make sure...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 24th November 2015, 5:22 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 970
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
Observation: It's really hard to find an equal relationship

I'm 26 years of age and in my time of dating and relationships and those of friends and family I know closely, truly equal partnerships are few and far between.

The relationship is either skewed...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 2nd November 2015, 6:35 PM
Replies: 57
Views: 3,197
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
This is a difficult matter because part of why we...

This is a difficult matter because part of why we choose our partners is because we are sexually and physically attracted to them.

Although our partners will age, gain weight and physically...
Forum: Dating 2nd November 2015, 6:30 PM
Replies: 72
Views: 3,162
Posted By Nikki Sahagin
I find the American dating culture weird (I'm not...

I find the American dating culture weird (I'm not American...)

There seems to be a big focus on money/sex/image and that comes through on these forums. There's less talk about genuine connections,...
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