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Forum: Dating 22nd December 2017, 10:54 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 411
Posted By confused_gf
LOL that is sad. But the imagery, very vivid...

LOL that is sad. But the imagery, very vivid :lmao:

Good point tho...

So yeah, I sort of dug my heels and the sand + told him how I feel.

He came clean and told me he has similar feelings,...
Forum: Dating 20th December 2017, 8:24 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 411
Posted By confused_gf
Living with a cute guy?

So I'm trying to get out of a bad living situation. I went through a lot of ads and only one stuck out to me. The guy reaches out to me and gives me a tour of his apartment. Everything checks out. We...
Forum: Addiction & Recovery 20th July 2017, 4:31 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 11,625
Posted By confused_gf
Wow. I get it. You're so much better than me. I'm...

Wow. I get it. You're so much better than me. I'm impressed with your basic, boring ass sex life. Are you gone now?
Forum: Addiction & Recovery 20th July 2017, 4:02 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 11,625
Posted By confused_gf
I'll do better next time.

I'll do better next time.
Forum: Addiction & Recovery 20th July 2017, 3:50 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 11,625
Posted By confused_gf
Clearly, you don't... I have no...

Clearly, you don't...




I have no idea and I was lied to about that/he masked his addiction.
Forum: Addiction & Recovery 20th July 2017, 3:15 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 11,625
Posted By confused_gf
I mean yeah, sex is a high risk behavior. Humans...

I mean yeah, sex is a high risk behavior. Humans wouldn't engage in it at all if we didn't enjoy it so much and I enjoy it a lot. I guess what I'm trying to say is sometimes logic and rational goes...
Forum: Addiction & Recovery 20th July 2017, 2:35 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 11,625
Posted By confused_gf
Yeah, I'll be getting tested as soon as I can....

Yeah, I'll be getting tested as soon as I can. I've already been tested recently and everything is/was fine. So hopefully that is still the case.
Forum: Addiction & Recovery 20th July 2017, 2:21 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 11,625
Posted By confused_gf
No, it's really not. But at the time I slept with...

No, it's really not. But at the time I slept with him I was unaware that he was a drug addict or sleeping around. He told me upfront that he was not the type to sleep around, and yeah, I bought it....
Forum: Addiction & Recovery 20th July 2017, 2:16 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 11,625
Posted By confused_gf
I haven't been with anyone for about a year and 7...

I haven't been with anyone for about a year and 7 months now. I've tried to stay to myself for the most part because I tend to attract "wounded birds" so to speak and it probably has to do with...
Forum: Addiction & Recovery 20th July 2017, 12:20 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 11,625
Posted By confused_gf
Heartbroken over a meth addict (possibly pregnant)

Hi all,
So about a month ago I was in a program receiving treatment for mental health issues when I met this guy. I was immediately drawn to something about him, he was very handsome, intelligent,...
Forum: Dating 1st July 2017, 6:04 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 449
Posted By confused_gf
Seems like you're overreacting.

Seems like you're overreacting.
Forum: Dating 29th June 2017, 7:50 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 972
Posted By confused_gf
I don't mind if a guy shows me how he wants to be...

I don't mind if a guy shows me how he wants to be treated. It would be a level up from what I'm used to at this point.
Forum: Dating 29th June 2017, 7:40 AM
Replies: 28
Views: 972
Posted By confused_gf
Trying to think. I've had a lot of problems...

Trying to think.

I've had a lot of problems in the past with guys chatting up girls in front of me, to the degree that I feel totally invisible. Checking out girls in front of me (while on a...
Forum: Dating 28th June 2017, 11:35 PM
Replies: 52
Views: 2,468
Posted By confused_gf
You're probably emotional because you got so...

You're probably emotional because you got so physical with him so soon. I don't blame you, same thing happened to me recently. But I just have to say "Yeah I really liked the dude, but it was just a...
Forum: Dating 28th June 2017, 11:10 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 972
Posted By confused_gf
do young guys need to be "trained"?

I'm 26 and I once had a girlfriend tell me that all guys need to be "trained" on how to treat their girlfriends. My first real boyfriend was at 19 and I did a lot of "training" (yep, even on things...
Forum: Dating 15th June 2017, 1:46 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 315
Posted By confused_gf
I was just hoping to find someone, romantically,...

I was just hoping to find someone, romantically, who can empathize with my situation - having struggled and overcoming issues with mental health. Not necessarily someone who isn't sane. Obviously it...
Forum: Dating 15th June 2017, 12:33 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 315
Posted By confused_gf
I should also mention, psych ward carries some...

I should also mention, psych ward carries some pretty heavy connotations. I promise we weren't all wearing hospital gowns and getting shock therapy or lobotimized lol. We were all just watching...
Forum: Dating 15th June 2017, 12:29 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 315
Posted By confused_gf
expat, as far as you being insensitive, not at...

expat, as far as you being insensitive, not at all...I'm just a romantic. I like the whole idea of finding love in a hopeless place and it seemed feasible there. I mean I was there involuntarily for...
Forum: Dating 14th June 2017, 11:12 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 315
Posted By confused_gf
too much too soon? am I missing something?

Hi all,

This is kind of a cliche topic, but I'm bored and can't get this guy off my mind. So I would consider myself an attractive girl. I'm not ashamed to say I'm "experienced" and don't have a...
Forum: Abuse 21st March 2017, 11:14 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 709
Posted By confused_gf
Love is not about control. Your father is...

Love is not about control. Your father is controlling you in very harmful ways. The longer you stay in that situation the more you will lose your soul. I know it is hard to accept: but that is not...
Forum: Abuse 20th March 2017, 2:02 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 745
Posted By confused_gf
With that type of experience you learn to live in...

With that type of experience you learn to live in fear, especially the fear of your own overwhelmingly negative emotions. It's definitely not a good situation for anybody to be in and it is...
Forum: Abuse 19th March 2017, 2:39 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 489
Posted By confused_gf
I can relate to this on so many levels....

I can relate to this on so many levels. Basically, just being young and losing your innocence too soon. Having one trauma which leads to another and another until you feel totally broken, all which...
Forum: Abuse 19th March 2017, 2:21 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 356
Posted By confused_gf
Rock bottom

So, I had a rough childhood, you know? I could really (I mean really) write a novel here about everything that happened and how damaging it was for me but it would inevitably turn into a depressing...
Forum: In Search Of... 3rd December 2015, 4:06 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 475
Posted By confused_gf
Troubles finding a good man/Avoiding crazies

Hi all, here is a little rant/invite for advice if you have any,

I know that nobody is perfect but I have been having a hell of a time finding any potential in the guys that are coming my way, I...
Forum: Dating 11th December 2014, 9:13 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 567
Posted By confused_gf
Thought I would update...so, was relaxing...

Thought I would update...so, was relaxing enjoying some "me" time when an old friend asked if we could get together. These are old guy friends of mine, one very old friend from high school who I...
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