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Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 5th November 2017, 11:26 AM
Replies: 290
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Posted By djoner
Thanks for the replies... I just feel so...

Thanks for the replies...

I just feel so confused and like I'm going crazy. I keep having flashbacks of my Dad. He was a real fun loving guy. He had his flaws but meant the world to me.

I met...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 3rd November 2017, 9:59 AM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
Hello LS. Been a little while since my last...

Hello LS.

Been a little while since my last visit here. Been going through a rough last few months. I was seeing the attorney for about the 1st month since my Dad passed, even shortly before he...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 16th September 2017, 8:31 AM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
Thanks springy Actually I haven't seen...

Thanks springy



Actually I haven't seen the ex since the day of my Dad's funeral. I've been on dates with the attorney I had been seeing, not sure of a solicitor.

She's a cool girl and I was...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 11th September 2017, 12:57 AM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
Well, I went on 2 dates with her since my father...

Well, I went on 2 dates with her since my father passed which has almost been 4 weeks. I've kind of slowed down. I'm pretty depressed.




Actually, I gave her money (more than what she gave me)...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 26th August 2017, 1:44 AM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
Hey BettyDraper. My mother said the same...

Hey BettyDraper.

My mother said the same thing you said regarding using my vulnerable state as a way back in ALMOST verbatim as you did. My ex and her mother was at the funeral yesterday and went...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 22nd August 2017, 1:26 PM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
Thank you BTDT2012. It's like I'm having to...

Thank you BTDT2012.

It's like I'm having to start the grief process all over again, just for a different circumstance. I haven't felt like doing much of anything. Its very hard to carry on when...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 17th August 2017, 9:02 AM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
Well, just an update. My Dad passed away...

Well, just an update.

My Dad passed away yesterday and I am still trying to process it all. I did break NC yesterday with my ex by text to inform her he had just passed since she knew him. She...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 16th August 2017, 10:27 AM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
What's wierd is yesterday, It just came as a rush...

What's wierd is yesterday, It just came as a rush and I briefly was missing my ex again, realizing that we are NC since the trip 30 days ago, and seeing how she was making an effort in reconciliation...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 14th August 2017, 7:55 AM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
Thanks Whodatdog. And that's exactly what I...

Thanks Whodatdog.

And that's exactly what I was trying not to do, but have slowly found myself doing it anyway, overthinking. :p

I am going to focus more on continuing to reading my self help...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 14th August 2017, 5:47 AM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
Thanks healing light. Well, I haven't heard from...

Thanks healing light. Well, I haven't heard from my ex. We were NC for 30 days right before the trip and now we're straight NC since the trip, and the trip was already a month ago.

Hestheone66, I...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 13th August 2017, 2:31 PM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
Yeah that's why some of the daily text msg I get...

Yeah that's why some of the daily text msg I get from her, I might have to not respond to or respond super late. I am in no way trying to let myself get in a deep committed relationship with someone...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 13th August 2017, 8:21 AM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
I haven't seen my therapist since the end of...

I haven't seen my therapist since the end of june. I couldnt get a hold of her at the beginning of July. When I returned from my trip, she finally called me and told me she had left town, leaving her...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 13th August 2017, 1:15 AM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
Thanks WhoDatDog I went on another date with...

Thanks WhoDatDog

I went on another date with the attorney last night. We have been communicating everyday for the last 2 weeks, many times, she being the one who initiates it. I really like her...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 7th August 2017, 11:32 AM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
Actually, I met up with 3 different women from...

Actually, I met up with 3 different women from that site. One, I really clicked with is an attorney and she's 1 year older than me. She's been married but no kids.Her conversation and personality was...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 4th August 2017, 11:19 PM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
Funny thing. About 2 months ago, my therapist had...

Funny thing. About 2 months ago, my therapist had suggested I try online dating. Never had tried it before so she referred me to a website called plenty of fish. Most of the women I was interested...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 4th August 2017, 8:16 AM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
NC with someone just feels so cruel

Well, thats true, but as I mentioned before, Me and her are 3 weeks strong NC and I'm while I'm doing good, I still struggle with the fact that I feel responsible for us not remaiming friends. Since...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 3rd August 2017, 3:49 PM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
Thank you BTDT2012. Because that is...

Thank you BTDT2012.

Because that is something I always struggle with wondering about wasting her time. It makes it hard for me to move forward at times, wondering if I deserve to find love in the...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 2nd August 2017, 7:35 PM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
Thank you LivingWaterPlease. I just don't...

Thank you LivingWaterPlease.

I just don't feel like going backwards and that's exactly what I would be doing.

On the trip, my cousins were trying to play matchmaker and push us back together. I...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 31st July 2017, 1:29 PM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
Thank you sandylee1. Excellent post. I think...

Thank you sandylee1. Excellent post.

I think I've concluded that she wanted to marry me because I demonstrated having the ability to take care of her. She did kind things for me, but it was no...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 30th July 2017, 12:53 PM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
Well, the trip was 2 weeks ago. I had plenty of...

Well, the trip was 2 weeks ago. I had plenty of opportunities to see her before hand, so I really didn't need the trip to do that. I have not spoken with her since our return on july 15 because I let...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 30th July 2017, 5:17 AM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
Anybody gone thru something similar? Feeling...

Anybody gone thru something similar?

Feeling like you're the ********* who didn't want the person back when they're trying to get back together?
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 29th July 2017, 8:57 AM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
Hey LS. Been a while and wanted to give an...

Hey LS. Been a while and wanted to give an update. A little long, but will try to narrow it as much as I can.

Some may not remember but before me and my ex had broken up, we were going on a group...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 29th June 2017, 7:56 AM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
Thanks hestheone66. Negative thoughts tend...

Thanks hestheone66.

Negative thoughts tend to creep in because I'm depressed. I'm not good as some people at ignoring it and pretending like it doesn't exist.

I'm thinking that I just got my...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 28th June 2017, 9:13 AM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
Goodmorning LS. I've been still trying to...

Goodmorning LS.

I've been still trying to push forward. My ex and I have been no contact for over 2 weeks now. I haven't seen her since we broke up on April 1st.

Every morning I wake up,...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 16th June 2017, 10:57 AM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By djoner
Thanks SD. This break up has taught me more...

Thanks SD.

This break up has taught me more and more about myself and the guilt thing is something I need to work on before even thinkin about getting into another relationship.

I think women...
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