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Forum: Second Chances 3rd December 2009, 12:47 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 964
Posted By 001bh
yeah don't do what I did: beg to keep it going...

yeah don't do what I did: beg to keep it going one more semester and (and then got dumpped when she starts grad school and replaced me with new pHd guy, yet she feels 'hurt' when i defriended her.) ...
Forum: Second Chances 6th November 2009, 4:04 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,004
Posted By 001bh
What do you mean by "lying through her teeth...

What do you mean by "lying through her teeth about everything with this guy?" I feel so lost.
Forum: Second Chances 6th November 2009, 2:17 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,004
Posted By 001bh
You know I think I have a similar situation. GF...

You know I think I have a similar situation. GF breaks up with me almost 2.5 months ago after 3yrs. Tells me she still wants to be friends and all. She goes to grad school, starts dating some...
Forum: Second Chances 24th October 2009, 1:28 AM
Replies: 75
Views: 90,719
Posted By 001bh
JL911, You pretty much hit the nail on the...

JL911,

You pretty much hit the nail on the head all the way home (at least for me you did.) Immaturity, selfishness and the inability to cope with the person they say they love and wind up not...
Forum: Second Chances 24th October 2009, 12:46 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 4,297
Posted By 001bh
Let me guess, was she an only child? Does she...

Let me guess, was she an only child? Does she typically always get what she wants? Sounds to me like she's got you by the balls. Cut her off. Move on. From your description of her wanting to be...
Forum: Second Chances 5th October 2009, 10:52 AM
Replies: 114
Views: 41,913
Posted By 001bh
Interesting. I was in a similar situation with...

Interesting. I was in a similar situation with my ex. She was always putting herself and her school work before me. Not that I wasn't busy myself but I tried so hard to hang on to the thread that...
Forum: Second Chances 28th September 2009, 2:54 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 8,682
Posted By 001bh
Therapy and self help books are a waste of time...

Therapy and self help books are a waste of time and money. Get over your selfishness. You pushed her away, you made her wait a year. Now she's gone and guess why? You messed up. She figured out...
Forum: Second Chances 24th September 2009, 1:03 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 601
Posted By 001bh
He's been unemployed for a year? To not take the...

He's been unemployed for a year? To not take the new job would be foolish. If you had lost your job, I'm sure you'd be depressed and a real downer too. From what I've read, he seemed to really...
Forum: Second Chances 18th September 2009, 12:37 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 4,223
Posted By 001bh
Geez if it were me (and believe me I'm waiting on...

Geez if it were me (and believe me I'm waiting on my ex and may never get the same opportunity) I prob would not respond at all until you were beating down my door. The last thing I would want to...
Forum: Second Chances 17th September 2009, 12:41 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 4,223
Posted By 001bh
I'd second that. You dumped him, you sent him a...

I'd second that. You dumped him, you sent him a letter, if anything is to come of this you should go to him. It shows that you care and are not looking for removal of guilt ( i hope). Go, go now! ...
Forum: Second Chances 16th September 2009, 7:33 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 4,223
Posted By 001bh
If you really wanted to get an honest opinion,...

If you really wanted to get an honest opinion, you need to show some action instead of words, i.e. go knock on his door and ask if you can talk. If anything he's probably waiting for something like...
Forum: Second Chances 16th September 2009, 12:32 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 4,223
Posted By 001bh
what goes around comes around......such as life.

what goes around comes around......such as life.
Forum: Second Chances 15th September 2009, 3:30 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 626
Posted By 001bh
I would just forget it, move on and concentrate...

I would just forget it, move on and concentrate on getting into college. You'll meet better people there.
Forum: Second Chances 14th September 2009, 9:53 PM
Replies: 69
Views: 4,367
Posted By 001bh
i need a motorcycle....

i need a motorcycle....
Forum: Second Chances 14th September 2009, 8:38 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 2,097
Posted By 001bh
yeah that is odd. maybe you should check his...

yeah that is odd. maybe you should check his diet? is he exercising much? could also start sleeping in another room, use yourself as leverage. make it a game?
Forum: Second Chances 14th September 2009, 8:39 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 2,097
Posted By 001bh
Yup, I know exactly how you feel....."oh I'm too...

Yup, I know exactly how you feel....."oh I'm too tired, too stressed, too many things to think about, my head hurts, no we can't do that style, only this style, no don't want foreplay, oh forget...
Forum: Second Chances 12th September 2009, 3:22 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 2,097
Posted By 001bh
Yeah I dunno. I kept at it to the point where...

Yeah I dunno. I kept at it to the point where the ex just got fed up and felt as if she was guilty for not wanting to be "us." and then she took the easy way out and ended it. You could try to get...
Forum: Second Chances 11th September 2009, 10:13 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 2,097
Posted By 001bh
I agree, I was in a 3 year long relationship with...

I agree, I was in a 3 year long relationship with the woman of my dreams in college and around our last year she just got really uptight and only cared about herself getting into graduate school and...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 30th August 2009, 2:03 AM
Replies: 63
Views: 21,077
Posted By 001bh
Having been on the receiving end of something...

Having been on the receiving end of something like this all I can say is.....playback's a bitch! You don't know what you've had until you lost it.......
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 30th August 2009, 1:58 AM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,039
Posted By 001bh
I'm going through the same river in the same boat...

I'm going through the same river in the same boat you're in.......and it's sinking :(
Forum: Coping 30th August 2009, 1:42 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 1,187
Posted By 001bh
My ex broke up with me on the phone almost a...

My ex broke up with me on the phone almost a month ago and told me that she wasn't going to come drive down and visit me like she had promised the week before. So I went NC and was finally feeling...
Forum: In Search Of... 29th August 2009, 11:13 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 1,838
Posted By 001bh
I feel your pain :(

I feel your pain :(
Forum: Second Chances 29th August 2009, 11:04 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 724
Posted By 001bh
so who did what? I'm assuming he was the dumper?...

so who did what? I'm assuming he was the dumper? In which case yeah NC is what you should do. Wait for the next move.
Forum: Second Chances 28th August 2009, 4:09 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 2,647
Posted By 001bh
It's been some time now, i've gone NC and I'm...

It's been some time now, i've gone NC and I'm feeling better. So far she hasn't tried to contact me which is good. The more I think or her, the more I resent her for doing this to me. So I'm just...
Forum: Dating 27th August 2009, 11:28 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 1,219
Posted By 001bh
Yes! finally someone who agrees with me!

Yes! finally someone who agrees with me!
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