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Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 13th September 2017, 5:17 PM
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Posted By hestheone66
Are you contemplating getting back with toxic manipulative ex?

I assume you mean you've been on 2 dates with ex, not the solicitor (note to others, this is why dating someone who's just out of LTR is difficult as you're not healed, and you pine for familiarity)....
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 13th August 2017, 5:06 PM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By hestheone66
Don't over invest could be good

[QUOTE=djoner;7389734]I haven't seen my therapist since the end of june. I couldnt get a hold of her at the beginning of July. When I returned from my trip, she finally called me and told me she had...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 28th June 2017, 5:56 PM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By hestheone66
As it's only been two weeks proper NC I think...

As it's only been two weeks proper NC I think it's normal to miss your ex...you are doing the right things..you need time to process the loss of a significant relationship...

Don't let foolish...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 1st June 2017, 5:29 PM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By hestheone66
Ok. Try some online dating where you just get...

Ok.
Try some online dating where you just get to know people without need for physical proximity. It will occupy your time.

I understand loneliness, but I hope you're not too proud to reach out...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 1st June 2017, 2:28 AM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By hestheone66
Beauty fades

But a person's manipulative and controlling nature will persist.

I'm very proud that you are able to reflect with regards to her tactics.

Ask yourself why you panic if an attractive woman...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 27th May 2017, 1:03 AM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By hestheone66
post abuse trauma

I don't know what exactly it is called, but I know first hand that after you leave an emotional vampire (narcissist or manipulator), you realise that the trauma is very deep down.. and it is...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 26th May 2017, 8:02 PM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By hestheone66
Her last effort was not a genuine one...it was a...

Her last effort was not a genuine one...it was a ride to manipulate you, for her to have power..don't give it to her and block her again. You deserve so much better treatment
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 23rd May 2017, 12:02 AM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By hestheone66
It is hard and yes your heart is playing tricks...

It is hard and yes your heart is playing tricks on you.

The key is although you will care about her for a long time because you are a kind man.

You need to love yourself more, to make choices...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 22nd May 2017, 5:47 PM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By hestheone66
Be honest with yourself

It's time to think of Dr Phil's favourite bit of advice:
"The best predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour'

Pull the band aid off this festering wound and go NC...there is no point...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 19th May 2017, 2:25 AM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By hestheone66
Her behaviour demonstrates leopard doesn't change spots

Very proud of the calm way you've handled that obviously distressing phone call.

Keep it up ..

And as for second guessing yourself...I guess it's natural.

Keep your eye on the prize when...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 14th May 2017, 8:15 PM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By hestheone66
in a sense this was an unfortunate but awesomely...

in a sense this was an unfortunate but awesomely useful encounter.

You got to assert that you DON'T want her and she is less likely to believe she can just snap fingers and you'll come back.

I...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 11th May 2017, 5:27 PM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By hestheone66
Yes don't set yourself back. You do sound...

Yes don't set yourself back.

You do sound like a genuine caring man.

When you realise your worth, and have grieved appropriately, you will attract a woman who will love and value you.

For...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 11th May 2017, 2:54 AM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,934
Posted By hestheone66
She can't love, not really

And that is why you've always known she's not the one.

You possibly feel guilty that you never faced the fact, possibly as the real reason eluded you.

She uses words and gifts to manipulate...
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