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Forum: Separation and Divorce 13th July 2018, 7:57 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 412
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
Giotto, as difficult the decision to...

Giotto, as difficult the decision to separate/divorce...you will reap the rewards.

There are plenty of "more experienced" ladies that just can't get enough sex. You will eventually meet one of...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 13th July 2018, 9:45 AM
Replies: 14
Views: 344
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
As hard as you try, you can't help someone who...

As hard as you try, you can't help someone who doesn't want to help themselves, even a life long spouse.

It doesn't seem like starting over as a divorced man is an option for you. If you can coast...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 9th July 2018, 9:50 AM
Replies: 68
Views: 3,490
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
He is projecting his disgust of the affair onto...

He is projecting his disgust of the affair onto you. A's aren't pretty in the light of day. Too bad for him.

If you do keep this baby your communication with him will have to be cold, hard and...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 4th July 2018, 5:47 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 617
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
He's confused? No. He's casting his line in...

He's confused? No.

He's casting his line in the water and hoping you'll bite. Who cares if you put him off? He'll just move on to the next on-line willing participant. No loss there.
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 4th July 2018, 5:42 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 3,490
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
Brilliant ^^^^ Burnt, I wish you could be my...

Brilliant ^^^^

Burnt, I wish you could be my personal counsellor!
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 4th July 2018, 9:51 AM
Replies: 68
Views: 3,490
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
Your post should be a warning to all those in the...

Your post should be a warning to all those in the early giddy stages of an affair. It's all fun in the beginning but one small negative gesture or a string of hurtful words and in an instant, worlds...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 3rd July 2018, 11:07 PM
Replies: 162
Views: 11,003
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
OP, his 'hurt' and need for time is a twisted way...

OP, his 'hurt' and need for time is a twisted way of putting you back in your OW place...and it's working. Unfortunately your wants, needs and hurt will always be completely irrelevant to him. He...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 3rd July 2018, 9:20 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,648
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
Shoot, I forgot the granddaddy of them all: ...

Shoot, I forgot the granddaddy of them all:

8. I've never lied to you. Why would I lie? I have no reason to.
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 28th June 2018, 9:49 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,648
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
Here are more lies told (no particular order): ...

Here are more lies told (no particular order):

1. We are just roommates

2. We don't/haven't had sex in (fill in the blank) years

3. We have nothing in common

4. I'm only staying for the...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 12th June 2018, 10:04 AM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,737
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
Agree. If I applied any pressure on him he became...

Agree. If I applied any pressure on him he became a cornered wild animal. So I dropped the subject and set my own exit date. He left his M before then.

That said, during the A I made it...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 6th June 2018, 9:27 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 5,737
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
My MM left his W. Although we had some...

My MM left his W.

Although we had some pretty stormy times and periods of NC, the goal never changed. As a couple of the other posters stated here, the way the MM treated them as an OW during the...
Forum: Separation and Divorce 29th May 2018, 10:07 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 550
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
Sad, so sorry this happened to you. Your partner...

Sad, so sorry this happened to you. Your partner may or may not be 'talking' to someone else. But for here and today, your new journey starts by picking up the pieces. How? With time.

I was with...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 18th May 2018, 8:42 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,171
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
Angel, I get it. He may love you, but not enough....

Angel, I get it. He may love you, but not enough. Not enough to divorce his wife and be with you full time. Sure the talks are great and the time you spend together is wonderful, but then he goes...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 15th May 2018, 9:43 AM
Replies: 643
Views: 24,868
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
Don't beat yourself up too badly CH. It's so easy...

Don't beat yourself up too badly CH. It's so easy to get sucked back in with their promises of ever-lasting togetherness. All lies.

But now you know he's never going to leave her. That's great...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 10th March 2018, 12:23 PM
Replies: 115
Views: 13,359
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
GH, great you are starting to understand that you...

GH, great you are starting to understand that you have to look inward. It's so painful.

Here's something that may help you on your journey out of this A. Your kids. If I could add up the seconds,...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 8th March 2018, 10:27 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 3,134
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
Sorry you're going through this OP. He WILL...

Sorry you're going through this OP.

He WILL contact you again once the dust settles at home. He'll tell you lies like "I missed you" and "couldn't stop thinking about you" and whatever it takes to...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 26th February 2018, 10:36 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 2,359
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
Hey Blues - Grays indicated above the boyfriend...

Hey Blues - Grays indicated above the boyfriend still lives with his wife.

That said OP, yes you overreacted a smidge BUT given the circumstances your concerns and fears go above and beyond the...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 9th February 2018, 10:35 AM
Replies: 63
Views: 3,202
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
This guy is monkey branching from one damaged...

This guy is monkey branching from one damaged damsel to another.

Can you give him a smack upside the head and ask him WTF is he doing? Sometimes harsh words from a close friend can snap someone...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 1st February 2018, 10:35 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 621
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
Men: Peacocking or Insecurity

I've recently started seeing a fellow again after a 6 month hiatus. We are both in our 50's so plenty of life experience under our belts.

Last summer when we would go on dates, each time he would...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 26th January 2018, 10:42 AM
Replies: 76
Views: 6,266
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
They ALL have passionless marriages. That excuse...

They ALL have passionless marriages. That excuse is older than dirt.

Sorry you're feeling used.....but you were. He was just looking for props (as were you) and you both got a rush out of the...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 10th January 2018, 10:13 AM
Replies: 66
Views: 4,554
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
THIS ^^^^ to a "T". It is exactly what I went...

THIS ^^^^ to a "T". It is exactly what I went through. xMM wanted me to be a happy, carefree OW but damn, it was hard enough to get out of bed somedays.

OP, I know what your MM is going through....
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 9th January 2018, 10:21 AM
Replies: 66
Views: 4,554
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
See, when I went through mine (dissolution of the...

See, when I went through mine (dissolution of the M was in the works long before HE entered the picture), MM was there as support. I didn't share the nitty gritty details with him...didn't want...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 27th December 2017, 7:39 PM
Replies: 122
Views: 11,827
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
Origin is dead on. That's exactly how my xmm...

Origin is dead on. That's exactly how my xmm worked. He was the poor victim and I was the evil wrong-doer. Can you imagine living each day with them walking on eggshells? No thanks. He used to block...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 26th December 2017, 1:34 PM
Replies: 64
Views: 1,851
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
One FB user's posts were always and only: -...

One FB user's posts were always and only:

- My son scored the most goals at his hockey game
- Look at the salad I made
- I bake so many Christmas cookies for everyone
- My co-workers bought...
Forum: Dating 26th December 2017, 1:08 PM
Replies: 39
Views: 1,228
Posted By What_Did_I_Do
Same here. Nada, zippo, zilch. Though I...

Same here. Nada, zippo, zilch.

Though I almost sent one to someone I dated very briefly last summer. I might send a belated greeting today. Hope he's still single!
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