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Forum: Coping 8th February 2015, 11:27 PM
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This entire week has been hell. I don't know why...

This entire week has been hell. I don't know why this isn't getting any better. I've done everything right and I'm not healing.

God, why did you bring me to her? Why am I left to suffer like this?...
Forum: Coping 2nd February 2015, 6:51 PM
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Today marks the day where we have now been broken...

Today marks the day where we have now been broken up and not speaking for longer than our relationship lasted, and I'm still struggling so badly. I've never experienced anything like this. When will...
Forum: Coping 31st January 2015, 5:46 PM
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So I'm in the midst of reading this book on...

So I'm in the midst of reading this book on getting my anxiety problems under control. I just finished a chapter that deals with anxiety and self-esteem issues in intimate relationships, and I'm...
Forum: Coping 30th January 2015, 11:55 AM
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I've never really had a situation like this where...

I've never really had a situation like this where there's the breakup, and then not a single word has been spoken to each other since in two and a half months. I know they say it's for the best, but...
Forum: Coping 30th January 2015, 9:54 AM
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It's surreal to think that, if only we didn't...

It's surreal to think that, if only we didn't care as much, if only we didn't have such strong feelings, we'd be fine. Sad, sure. But, we'd be fine.

C'est la vie.
Forum: Coping 29th January 2015, 10:13 PM
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About 2 and a half months in and today is the...

About 2 and a half months in and today is the worst anguish I've ever felt in my life. I don't understand it. Tuesday was probably the best I've felt and today the pain is so crippling I don't even...
Forum: Coping 26th January 2015, 8:44 PM
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I've been working hard on improving myself day in...

I've been working hard on improving myself day in and day out. Personally, I'm getting better but my heart still hurts constantly.
Forum: Coping 26th January 2015, 3:00 PM
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I'm struggling to let go. I've accepted that...

I'm struggling to let go.

I've accepted that it's over and I've accepted that chances I'll ever hear from her again are slim to none, yet I still crave answers. I still have so much that I want to...
Forum: Coping 25th January 2015, 5:08 PM
Replies: 9,869
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I'm getting so tired of waking up and having...

I'm getting so tired of waking up and having heavy sadness rush into my heart. I'm so tired of all the questions I keep replaying over and over again.

What does she think of me?
Does she care...
Forum: Coping 23rd January 2015, 10:59 PM
Replies: 9,869
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Last week at the post office I saw a girl who...

Last week at the post office I saw a girl who smiled at me. I could see myself with this girl. Holding hands, cuddling, laughing. That was the first post-breakup moment where that happened and I saw...
Forum: Coping 23rd January 2015, 3:53 PM
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I'm over 60 days no contact and it honestly...

I'm over 60 days no contact and it honestly doesn't feel like it's been nearly that long. Feels like this all happened a few weeks ago.
Forum: Coping 22nd January 2015, 10:41 PM
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Also, I actually know the relationship had to end...

Also, I actually know the relationship had to end because I needed a wake up call to actually take action in fixing my life, instead of looking for someone to save me. I know I've made improvements...
Forum: Coping 22nd January 2015, 10:34 PM
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Views: 671,808
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I'm having a really bad day filled with...

I'm having a really bad day filled with bitterness, which is the worst emotion there is. I don't hate her at all, I just wish she would have handled the breakup better instead of being so cold. An...
Forum: Coping 21st January 2015, 2:19 PM
Replies: 9,869
Views: 671,808
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Thank you. I really appreciate it. :) I'm...

Thank you. I really appreciate it. :)

I'm not sure if my ex knows how much of a struggle this is. We weren't together long and I didn't put up any kind of fight when she ended it. Just wished her...
Forum: Coping 21st January 2015, 12:51 PM
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Having one of those days where I'm just sad....

Having one of those days where I'm just sad. Thinking about what was and what could have been. Wondering what changed and how fast it changed. Wondering how something that started so magical could...
Forum: Coping 19th January 2015, 4:04 PM
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Yeah, there's a lot of emotion. I am so grateful...

Yeah, there's a lot of emotion. I am so grateful for her and the light she brought to me when I needed it the most. But on the other hand, losing someone that brings out the best in me is...
Forum: Coping 19th January 2015, 2:20 PM
Replies: 9,869
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I've already written letters to her that I have...

I've already written letters to her that I have no intentions of sending. I would love to eventually, and if she somehow contacted me in the future, I would absolutely share them with her because I...
Forum: Coping 19th January 2015, 1:41 PM
Replies: 9,869
Views: 671,808
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Welp, I've reached the two month point. Kind of...

Welp, I've reached the two month point. Kind of weird how not a single word has been spoken since the night it ended. Am I feeling better? I guess a little. My mind is focused on my personal...
Forum: Coping 16th January 2015, 8:11 PM
Replies: 9,869
Views: 671,808
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I don't know what's going on but I've been in...

I don't know what's going on but I've been in absolute anguish for the past 24 hours. I was doing much better overall and It's been 2 months now. Over the next 3 weeks I will reach a point where we...
Forum: Coping 22nd December 2014, 10:43 AM
Replies: 9,869
Views: 671,808
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This is way, way harder than I imagined it would...

This is way, way harder than I imagined it would be. For a 10 week relationship in which we only saw each other about 10 times, I'm almost embarrassed I'm in so much pain over it, and the last two...
Forum: Coping 12th December 2014, 12:23 AM
Replies: 9,869
Views: 671,808
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I have bad days, I have better days, and then I...

I have bad days, I have better days, and then I have days like today where the anguish is so strong I just want to die.
Forum: Coping 4th December 2014, 9:00 PM
Replies: 9,869
Views: 671,808
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Not well at all. I feel like I'm fading away. The...

Not well at all. I feel like I'm fading away. The pain is so intense.

I'm embarrassed about it. People here are struggling losing the person they loved after many years together, and I feel all...
Forum: Coping 3rd December 2014, 8:00 PM
Replies: 9,869
Views: 671,808
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I cannot believe how much pain I am in. It's...

I cannot believe how much pain I am in. It's unbearable. It's embarrassing.

TWO MONTHS. A girl I knew for two damn months and I saw in person like 10 times is making me feel this much pain. I...
Forum: Coping 30th November 2014, 11:43 PM
Replies: 9,869
Views: 671,808
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I'm right there with you. I feel like I'm a very...

I'm right there with you. I feel like I'm a very good person and don't understand why this happened to me again. My heart and my head hurt like hell.

Like you, I believe everything happens for a...
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