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Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 17th October 2015, 9:58 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 887
Posted By h20-50
This was a clear cut case. I've read and read...

This was a clear cut case. I've read and read and read about it. She matches all the criteria, the push pull was there, the physical abuse was there in her childhood, and past relationships. All...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 17th October 2015, 8:17 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 887
Posted By h20-50
No, I believe she has BPD, it became really...

No, I believe she has BPD, it became really obvious to me. I know she loved me but it went from you're the love of my life to I'm done over a text in 5 days, literally. I'm positive she is...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 17th October 2015, 6:55 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 887
Posted By h20-50
I initially stayed in contact due to work related...

I initially stayed in contact due to work related issues. I remained in contact for the same reason, only if it's work related but nothing has been.

It would be nice to get an apology or some...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 17th October 2015, 5:13 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 887
Posted By h20-50
I get where you're coming from but you're way off...

I get where you're coming from but you're way off base with your assumptions of me. My strict no NC is no different than anyone else's on here. Nothing sadistic and nothing that puts me in a bad...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 17th October 2015, 4:59 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 887
Posted By h20-50
Honestly it's gotten to the point it's almost...

Honestly it's gotten to the point it's almost entertaining.
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 17th October 2015, 4:38 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 887
Posted By h20-50
Holy Breadcrumbs batman!!

We've been broken up a month, her decision. I bowed out gracefully, no begging, pleading, I did tell her what I wanted, how I felt about her and that I didn't want to R to end without being sappy or...
Forum: Dating 10th July 2015, 12:43 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,929
Posted By h20-50
Nothing to be sorry about, I've always seemed to...

Nothing to be sorry about, I've always seemed to learn the hard way. Good news is I didn't blowup or make it a big issue, it was my issue more than anything. I trusted her, but now I know for sure...
Forum: Dating 10th July 2015, 12:01 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,929
Posted By h20-50
Ok, just an update and resolution First, no I...

Ok, just an update and resolution
First, no I didn't snoop. She got on her FB account on my phone, must not have closed it and I received the message when she wasn't there and based of the message...
Forum: Dating 9th July 2015, 4:09 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,929
Posted By h20-50
Did I ever say that?? I said IMO she...

Did I ever say that??

I said IMO she should be forward with these guys and not communicate with LOL's and LMAO's. That just encourages guys. That was my opinion and I was looking for other...
Forum: Dating 9th July 2015, 2:30 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,929
Posted By h20-50
I think you and d0nnivain are both correct. I...

I think you and d0nnivain are both correct. I think d0nnivain nailed her communication style on the head. I also think you're correct in how to handle it. The issue is solely mine as it's truly...
Forum: Dating 9th July 2015, 12:10 PM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,929
Posted By h20-50
She does that all the time and shows me the...

She does that all the time and shows me the messages for all the randoms. These 3 guys were old friends from years ago that seem to float in and out for years just to drop flirtatious lines. One...
Forum: Dating 9th July 2015, 10:28 AM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,929
Posted By h20-50
Didn't know that. Ok I was just going to ask how...

Didn't know that. Ok I was just going to ask how I should approach this if at all? I agree with you and Gauis's advice. When I brought it up she expressed it as you did just in different words. I...
Forum: Dating 9th July 2015, 10:23 AM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,929
Posted By h20-50
They know she has a BF, there is no doubt about...

They know she has a BF, there is no doubt about that.
Forum: Dating 9th July 2015, 10:15 AM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,929
Posted By h20-50
Would you mind PMing me?

Would you mind PMing me?
Forum: Dating 9th July 2015, 9:33 AM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,929
Posted By h20-50
Exactly this! This is how she sees it. She has...

Exactly this! This is how she sees it. She has told them she has a boyfriend and they know. Guys are sleazy, especially these 3 and my opinion is any reply other than directness and it's...
Forum: Dating 9th July 2015, 9:28 AM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,929
Posted By h20-50
Yes her status is in a relationship and there are...

Yes her status is in a relationship and there are multiple pictures of us together on both our pages.

This is where my grey area will get me into trouble. She sees it as being friendly and not...
Forum: Dating 9th July 2015, 8:45 AM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,929
Posted By h20-50
No it's not worth breaking up over, it's just...

No it's not worth breaking up over, it's just something that has been on my mind for a bit and decided to ask for advice. I agree with you on all points, I guess I was hoping maybe I was approaching...
Forum: Dating 9th July 2015, 7:45 AM
Replies: 51
Views: 1,929
Posted By h20-50
FB and Guys Messaging my GF

Need advice on how to handle/approach this situation.

My GF is an exetermely attractive woman, she easily gets plenty of attention but that doesn't bother me. What does bother me are some of the...
Forum: Dating 23rd December 2014, 1:12 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 832
Posted By h20-50
I think you ladies are right. I was to concerned...

I think you ladies are right. I was to concerned about trying to portray the "not desperate or clingy guy" that I lost touch with who I am. I dont see talking almost everyday as being desperate or...
Forum: Dating 23rd December 2014, 12:03 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 832
Posted By h20-50
Frequency becuase she had an engagement out of...

Frequency becuase she had an engagement out of town the first week, we got together the second weekend and following weekend, I had an engagement this past weekend and this weekend due to holiday...
Forum: Dating 23rd December 2014, 12:00 PM
Replies: 20
Views: 832
Posted By h20-50
Are you suggesting it's ok to call everyday after...

Are you suggesting it's ok to call everyday after two dates in a month? Honestly I would have no problem with that but it seems to scream desperate. Maybe I am just out of touch. I was in a LTR so...
Forum: Dating 23rd December 2014, 10:53 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 832
Posted By h20-50
I did send her a text yesterday at the time in...

I did send her a text yesterday at the time in knew she would wake up and didn't hear back at all so this whole thing has got me suspicious.:mad:

Trust me, I'm doing my best with our schedules...
Forum: Dating 23rd December 2014, 10:42 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 832
Posted By h20-50
It's hard with her job and mine. We both are...

It's hard with her job and mine. We both are working long hours and I just started working a night shift for a while.

Huge double standard in your statement. I mostly call, rarely text 2-3...
Forum: Dating 23rd December 2014, 9:25 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 832
Posted By h20-50
IM not attached and didn't come off as desperate...

IM not attached and didn't come off as desperate at all just interested, I made sure of that but by no means overbearing. I Only contact 2-3 times a week TOPS and never contact unless she responds...
Forum: Dating 23rd December 2014, 8:56 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 832
Posted By h20-50
I get what you're saying and agree with some...

I get what you're saying and agree with some points you have made. However as the guy, spending the money, planning all the dates, ensuring she is having a good time, making all the contact, setting...
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