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Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 26th February 2018, 5:40 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,012
Posted By hestheone66
I don't think it's a problem about him, but the...

I don't think it's a problem about him, but the two of you are just not compatible. You are right to feel resentful but I think the anger may be misplaced and maybe you are angry with yourself.i...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 27th November 2017, 3:47 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,673
Posted By hestheone66
How many weeks along is she?

How many weeks along is she?
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 23rd November 2017, 12:43 AM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,499
Posted By hestheone66
The sarcasm you cited made me wonder whether he...

The sarcasm you cited made me wonder whether he may just be an a__hole..
Forum: Separation and Divorce 1st November 2017, 3:53 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 1,020
Posted By hestheone66
I had a controlling ex who was unstable and did...

I had a controlling ex who was unstable and did push/pull..he also had a gun and we live a country where very few people have guns.

The house was only in my name..

I. Planned for months my...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 24th October 2017, 3:56 PM
Replies: 187
Views: 7,948
Posted By hestheone66
Female led relationship

You could overtly change the relationship bdybamic by choosing to have a female led relationship. (Google it)

Your husband already admitted his preference for strong women. He may indeed have a...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 9th October 2017, 3:44 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 558
Posted By hestheone66
I've been where you are

I lived for 12 years with a self absorbed narcissistic baby-man.

Yes he SAID he loved me with great passion and fervor, tears in his eyes declarations etc....
BUT he didn't..he just needed my...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 9th October 2017, 1:40 AM
Replies: 31
Views: 1,698
Posted By hestheone66
I'm in Melbourne too... I think if you are...

I'm in Melbourne too...

I think if you are able to seek a termination it would be realistically the best option given the many hurdles you are facing. Also see about a different type of birth...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 3rd October 2017, 3:31 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,966
Posted By hestheone66
How old are your other children?

She seems to be a free spirit which is something I can really relate to.

I was at the stage in my 30s where I found the routine too much and needed to break away.

I had an accommodating and...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 3rd October 2017, 3:20 PM
Replies: 50
Views: 3,195
Posted By hestheone66
Fortunately period sex is often great, just a bit...

Fortunately period sex is often great, just a bit messy
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 2nd October 2017, 4:09 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,389
Posted By hestheone66
I think you're both codependent

And incompatible.

Fear is not a healthy way to be.

Ask yourself if you REALLY love him...and if his behavior REALLY shows he ADORES you???

You know you are staying from fear and so is...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 14th September 2017, 3:31 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 443
Posted By hestheone66
Have you ever watched the show catfish?

At the very least if you haven't video chatted, you should do an image search of her pics..you may find it interesting.
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 13th September 2017, 5:17 PM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,957
Posted By hestheone66
Are you contemplating getting back with toxic manipulative ex?

I assume you mean you've been on 2 dates with ex, not the solicitor (note to others, this is why dating someone who's just out of LTR is difficult as you're not healed, and you pine for familiarity)....
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 7th September 2017, 1:22 AM
Replies: 104
Views: 9,069
Posted By hestheone66
I'm sorry she's meddling again. Consider...

I'm sorry she's meddling again.

Consider moving away. You shouldn't have to but peace of mind is important too.

And stay strict NC.
Forum: Infidelity 30th August 2017, 5:30 PM
Replies: 231
Views: 16,026
Posted By hestheone66
If you do get erections while hugging why don't...

If you do get erections while hugging why don't you masturrbate while she's holding you.? I love doing this and vice versa..have you just gone ahead and done it?
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 29th August 2017, 5:05 PM
Replies: 64
Views: 5,275
Posted By hestheone66
I have nothing practical to suggest regarding the...

I have nothing practical to suggest regarding the child.

However if MMs wife really is addict and cheat it is not safe to assume that you haven't also shared any STI that she may have.

Please...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 13th August 2017, 5:06 PM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,957
Posted By hestheone66
Don't over invest could be good

[QUOTE=djoner;7389734]I haven't seen my therapist since the end of june. I couldnt get a hold of her at the beginning of July. When I returned from my trip, she finally called me and told me she had...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 17th July 2017, 5:27 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 1,642
Posted By hestheone66
Different perspective

I agree with the other poster who suggested really honest communication...you may feel less threatened when there are no secrets.

My very awesome bf and I are very open and it has deepened our...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 15th July 2017, 3:09 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 1,023
Posted By hestheone66
I feel sad for you...I had a long unsatisfying...

I feel sad for you...I had a long unsatisfying relationship with a person with addiction problems...

LOVE is NOT enough..

Dr Phil once said, the only unconditional love you owe is to your...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 9th July 2017, 5:28 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,781
Posted By hestheone66
You don't love him, you are a codependent.. love...

You don't love him, you are a codependent.. love is NOT anything resembling what sick toxic **** the two of you have.
Take control, leave him and block him entirely and get some counselling to...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 6th July 2017, 5:47 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,449
Posted By hestheone66
But he doesn't love you, not really

If you look at some of my posts about my toxic relationship, you will see I have been in your shoes.
The man I was with was very good at saying thing, poetic things...I knew my life was getting...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 28th June 2017, 10:13 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 661
Posted By hestheone66
If you love someone you will be happy they have...

If you love someone you will be happy they have found happiness, albeit without you..

You can know you made some mistakes, but don't be hard on yourself, it's part of life, growing up..

She...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 28th June 2017, 5:56 PM
Replies: 290
Views: 27,957
Posted By hestheone66
As it's only been two weeks proper NC I think...

As it's only been two weeks proper NC I think it's normal to miss your ex...you are doing the right things..you need time to process the loss of a significant relationship...

Don't let foolish...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 21st June 2017, 5:28 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 387
Posted By hestheone66
Sex is fundamental to the way my relationship...

Sex is fundamental to the way my relationship works. We would prioritise it over any other aspect, and accordingly, the other aspects of communication are improved as neither of us wants to...
Forum: Breaks and Breaking Up 21st June 2017, 2:17 AM
Replies: 74
Views: 2,707
Posted By hestheone66
You can love people and set them free. It...

You can love people and set them free.

It doesn't mean you are supposed to be together.

You will find someone who loves you in a healthy way. Don't make rushed choices due to your reproductive...
Forum: Infidelity 20th June 2017, 3:19 AM
Replies: 85
Views: 4,732
Posted By hestheone66
I applaud you striving for openness and ethics. ...

I applaud you striving for openness and ethics.
Your man obviously is like many who need time to process emotions without pressure or feeling it's pathological. He is also considerate of your...
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