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Forum: Infidelity 9th December 2018, 5:22 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 2,373
Posted By oldlion
I really don't understand how you can continue to...

I really don't understand how you can continue to "really love" someone who has cheated on you with 3 other men (that you know about) while you are basically still in the honeymoon phase of your...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 9th December 2018, 5:09 AM
Replies: 19
Views: 1,429
Posted By oldlion
Your husband knows you had an affair, and I take...

Your husband knows you had an affair, and I take it he knows who your AP was. My question is why hasn't your husband informed the wife of your AP bout the affair. Your husband is either concerned...
Forum: Infidelity 3rd December 2018, 2:27 AM
Replies: 18
Views: 2,248
Posted By oldlion
If this is truly the way you feel then I think...

If this is truly the way you feel then I think you should at least give your wife permission to have sex with your AP's husband whenever she wants. If you are going to have an open marriage then the...
Forum: Infidelity 2nd November 2018, 10:04 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 3,046
Posted By oldlion
You got this. Tell her you are not stupid and...

You got this. Tell her you are not stupid and that you can read and understand what the messages between them says. That what the messages say and what they want you to believe they say are two very...
Forum: Infidelity 30th October 2018, 2:36 AM
Replies: 344
Views: 53,210
Posted By oldlion
If she ask for her phone back then give it to...

If she ask for her phone back then give it to her. But before you do take pictures, or send to your phone, of all the text and anything else that relates to the affair. When you give her the phone...
Forum: Infidelity 13th September 2018, 12:05 AM
Replies: 443
Views: 52,957
Posted By oldlion
A good decision. Maybe you have closed your hand...

A good decision. Maybe you have closed your hand before you let his love slip through your fingers. I really don't think you will be living with the same man you have come to know and lived with...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 5th September 2018, 4:35 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 1,064
Posted By oldlion
I don't have any advice but I have seen one other...

I don't have any advice but I have seen one other situation along the same lines. Here is something the man in your shoes learned. You can't compete with a ghost. He is what he is, in her mind, and...
Forum: Infidelity 5th September 2018, 3:41 PM
Replies: 443
Views: 52,957
Posted By oldlion
I think I know a little how your husband thinks....

I think I know a little how your husband thinks. I was Army Special Forces for over 20 years and was gone a lot. If my wife had cheated and had another man's baby, and I accepted that child, I...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 4th September 2018, 4:51 PM
Replies: 131
Views: 6,369
Posted By oldlion
I've already told you. With all you have to offer...

I've already told you. With all you have to offer in a relationship, you can do soooo much better. You would not believe what is out there just waiting for a woman like you. All you have to do is...
Forum: Infidelity 4th September 2018, 4:30 PM
Replies: 90
Views: 13,092
Posted By oldlion
If she has really changed and there is still love...

If she has really changed and there is still love and a connection, then go for it. Just remember to protect yourself before, during and after. If she loves you enough to kiss your feet in a public...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 4th September 2018, 4:25 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 2,349
Posted By oldlion
First, by not telling your husband about the last...

First, by not telling your husband about the last two calls, you have already put a big dent into the trust you are trying to build with him. If you don't tell him about the last two calls and he...
Forum: Infidelity 3rd September 2018, 11:10 PM
Replies: 443
Views: 52,957
Posted By oldlion
Your outlook on your husband reminds me of a C&W...

Your outlook on your husband reminds me of a C&W song (The Tip Of MY Fingers) that I heard. The song says, "I held your love on the tips of my fingers and I let it slip right through my hands....
Forum: Infidelity 31st August 2018, 10:26 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 12,585
Posted By oldlion
Please tell her that you will let her know 9...

Please tell her that you will let her know 9 years after you have your affair so she can perk up as it will have been your only affair. What do you think her reaction to that will be? As far as your...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 13th August 2018, 2:38 PM
Replies: 131
Views: 6,369
Posted By oldlion
He chooses his entitled, rude and obnoxious son...

He chooses his entitled, rude and obnoxious son over you. Dear lady, you can do sooooo much better. I do wish you well.
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 12th August 2018, 12:00 AM
Replies: 131
Views: 6,369
Posted By oldlion
While reading your thread I got angry on your...

While reading your thread I got angry on your behalf. When my son was about 16 he got angry with his mother over something and told me that he just wanted to hit her. I looked him straight in the...
Forum: Infidelity 11th August 2018, 11:30 PM
Replies: 26
Views: 5,177
Posted By oldlion
After reading your thread I just shook my head...

After reading your thread I just shook my head and had to read it again because I didn't believe what I read the first time. Obviously, she gave you permission to explore new relationships with other...
Forum: Infidelity 5th August 2018, 4:24 PM
Replies: 30
Views: 5,640
Posted By oldlion
You have been married only 4 years and he has...

You have been married only 4 years and he has already cheated, and with the wife of your son no less. And yes, the chances he will do it again, with someone else, is astronomical. Listen to the...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 5th August 2018, 3:15 AM
Replies: 75
Views: 4,632
Posted By oldlion
I post when I read something that I just don't...

I post when I read something that I just don't understand someone's thought process. I don't understand yours. You got married last November and you have already had more arguments than my wife and I...
Forum: Infidelity 22nd June 2018, 2:27 AM
Replies: 443
Views: 52,957
Posted By oldlion
Have your husband post on here. He will get...

Have your husband post on here. He will get plenty of advice on growing a backbone and what to do next. If he follows advice from the people on this site then he will never again be a doormat and you...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 22nd June 2018, 2:14 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 1,203
Posted By oldlion
I don't know what is wrong with your husband but...

I don't know what is wrong with your husband but no normal healthy man is not having sex with a willing wife, especially after only 3 years being married. When I had been married only three years, my...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 4th June 2018, 2:01 AM
Replies: 39
Views: 2,274
Posted By oldlion
My first advice to anyone is "never live with a...

My first advice to anyone is "never live with a spouse or SO that doesn't love you or someone you do not love". That is a sure recipe for misery. You have several choices.

(1) Continue living as...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 4th June 2018, 1:46 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 1,083
Posted By oldlion
Instead of an open marriage, where you do things...

Instead of an open marriage, where you do things separately, try swinging and do things together. I don't advocate such a lifestyle but if you're going to do things then do them together. That way...
Forum: Infidelity 4th June 2018, 1:26 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 2,969
Posted By oldlion
I have to say that you calling the men she was...

I have to say that you calling the men she was involved with and offering to pack her up and send her to them was pure genius. Was there any physical contact (PA) between her and them? Maybe she has...
Forum: Infidelity 4th June 2018, 1:06 AM
Replies: 31
Views: 6,564
Posted By oldlion
I am in agreement with the advice you are...

I am in agreement with the advice you are getting. I especially like what WilyWill said. You only have two choices that are to your benefit. You give her divorce papers and explain what is going to...
Forum: Marriage & Life Partnerships 17th March 2018, 2:10 PM
Replies: 17
Views: 1,911
Posted By oldlion
I guess I'm old school, but I don't see where you...

I guess I'm old school, but I don't see where you can do too much more damage to sabotage your relationship with her. Some of the things you have said would have caused my wife to hit me with a...
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