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Forum: Parenting 1st September 2018, 9:17 AM
Replies: 251
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Posted By jnel921
My D was diagnosed 2 years ago with Borderline...

My D was diagnosed 2 years ago with Borderline Personality Disorder. I do belong to another forum that supports persons and people who have or have to deal with this.

Unfortunately I don't see the...
Forum: Parenting 11th August 2018, 2:30 PM
Replies: 251
Views: 21,963
Posted By jnel921
Hi JuneL. I think I have documented a lot of what...

Hi JuneL. I think I have documented a lot of what my D who is now turning 21 next month has and hasn't done.

The expectation is that she go to esthetics school again next month. We haven't...
Forum: Parenting 18th July 2018, 10:35 PM
Replies: 251
Views: 21,963
Posted By jnel921
It only took a week..

For my D to lie, disrespect and contribute nothing to my household. Turns out the ex BF got arrested for beating his baby momma. His mother felt the need to call my D to go the police station and...
Forum: Parenting 10th July 2018, 9:08 PM
Replies: 251
Views: 21,963
Posted By jnel921
My D had an abortion...

Last week after the last fight with her now Ex BF she decided she did not want to continue with the pregnancy. She went with her brother and his GF. I decided to go when the procedure was over and I...
Forum: Parenting 4th July 2018, 3:10 PM
Replies: 251
Views: 21,963
Posted By jnel921
Nothing with my D is as it seems... its just worse.

On Monday my D's BF called me screaming and yelling that he wanted my D out of his mother's apt. I texted her and asked her if she was okay and she said no. I called her, she was crying and told me...
Forum: Parenting 30th June 2018, 9:30 AM
Replies: 251
Views: 21,963
Posted By jnel921
Thanks. This has been tough. My D called me last...

Thanks. This has been tough. My D called me last week telling me she wanted to leave the BF's apt and come home. But she wanted to keep the baby. I in turn told her that it wasn't possible. The first...
Forum: Parenting 18th June 2018, 9:27 PM
Replies: 251
Views: 21,963
Posted By jnel921
Unhappy Good things dont seem to last for very long...

So my D dropped the biggest bomb on me. She is pregnant and she wants to keep this baby although she doesn't have a pot to pee in or a window to throw it out of.

We told her that if she wanted to...
Forum: Parenting 3rd June 2018, 12:50 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 1,020
Posted By jnel921
Having had D many years ago I moved our kids...

Having had D many years ago I moved our kids outside of the city we lived in. I had primary custody. I wasn't concerned about how they felt about this as my new H and I were the main source of their...
Forum: Parenting 1st June 2018, 11:08 PM
Replies: 251
Views: 21,963
Posted By jnel921
Update...

My D has finally broken up with her abusive BF. He has finally beat her to the point where she filed and order of protection against him.

I am hoping that this will be the beginning of her...
Forum: Parenting 1st June 2018, 10:59 PM
Replies: 21
Views: 852
Posted By jnel921
I canceled my daughters plane ticket when I...

I canceled my daughters plane ticket when I planned a trip to Cancun for her birthday when she didn't deserve it. Its not meant to traumatize its meant to show that you should earn and deserve...
Forum: Parenting 1st June 2018, 10:46 PM
Replies: 12
Views: 637
Posted By jnel921
Ricky, I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a baby...

Ricky, I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a baby is never easy. This likely could have happened when you were at home and he in his crib. You shouldn't blame yourself. Babies cant tell us when they...
Forum: LoveShack.org Questions and Comments 1st June 2018, 10:36 PM
Replies: 161
Views: 8,502
Posted By jnel921
Talking What a relief!

I am actually relieved to see this back up. I have spent years on this site and honestly I was nervous when it was gone. Felt like a piece of my history was missing.

I am happy its back. :D
Forum: Parenting 15th March 2018, 7:38 PM
Replies: 251
Views: 21,963
Posted By jnel921
Unhappy I have hit my rock bottom...

I cant do anything else for her anymore. She left Saturday and hasn't been home since. She called me to argue. Told me it was too bad what happened to my car keys . stuff happens and she isn't sorry...
Forum: Parenting 10th March 2018, 3:18 PM
Replies: 251
Views: 21,963
Posted By jnel921
Update...

Trying to get family counseling has been an uphill battle. For whatever reason therapists have either rejected my insurance or are not taking new patients. My BF who is a therapists tells me this...
Forum: Parenting 10th March 2018, 12:50 PM
Replies: 18
Views: 1,175
Posted By jnel921
As someone whos has been through this twice and...

As someone whos has been through this twice and has past the 5 year mark of reconciliation with my current H I would advise you not to. I have posted my experience here over the years and didn't...
Forum: Parenting 31st January 2018, 11:34 PM
Replies: 251
Views: 21,963
Posted By jnel921
Thank you Anika99. I have read up on the...

Thank you Anika99. I have read up on the behaviors but no I have not read up on how to handle. I do belong to another forum which is mostly for people with or related to persons with personality...
Forum: Parenting 21st January 2018, 5:20 PM
Replies: 251
Views: 21,963
Posted By jnel921
LWP.... thank you again for your words. Yes...

LWP.... thank you again for your words.

Yes I do pray for my daughter everyday. I even pray to my family who already are in heaven to watch over her and her actions as well.

I do believe that...
Forum: Parenting 21st January 2018, 5:08 PM
Replies: 251
Views: 21,963
Posted By jnel921
I allowed her back in my home. I haven't bought...

I allowed her back in my home. I haven't bought her anything. I have given her opportunities to try and show something. To try and earn but that she has taken advantage of. How can I not react to...
Forum: Parenting 21st January 2018, 12:52 AM
Replies: 251
Views: 21,963
Posted By jnel921
Yes... I get it. But what do I want? To be...

Yes... I get it. But what do I want? To be respected and I am not getting this no matter what I have done. And you are right this yo yo thing has to stop. Its either here or there.

I may have to...
Forum: Parenting 20th January 2018, 3:56 PM
Replies: 251
Views: 21,963
Posted By jnel921
LWP.... Thanks for your post. I felt the...

LWP....

Thanks for your post. I felt the power of your post and felt the kindness of your heart through your virtual hug. Thank you. It made me cry.

Yes this has been very hard. Rock bottom? I...
Forum: Parenting 19th January 2018, 8:29 PM
Replies: 251
Views: 21,963
Posted By jnel921
She was diagnosed with Borderline Personality...

She was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder which makes her unable to feel empathy. Unable to control her emotions. So everything she does is without remorse and aimed to hurt.

I have...
Forum: Parenting 18th January 2018, 11:36 PM
Replies: 251
Views: 21,963
Posted By jnel921
Thanks guys... yes I feel like I am on a merry go...

Thanks guys... yes I feel like I am on a merry go round and yes its my fault.
She isn't here and I don't expect her to come back. I cant see how she would dare. She owes me more than an apology.
...
Forum: Parenting 17th January 2018, 11:59 PM
Replies: 251
Views: 21,963
Posted By jnel921
She will be 21 this year. I was going to make an...

She will be 21 this year. I was going to make an appointment with a therapist this week but then this happened I only feel like she wont go. I am not sure if she will come back and if she does I...
Forum: Parenting 17th January 2018, 10:45 PM
Replies: 251
Views: 21,963
Posted By jnel921
Post meeting

We met with our D and set some conditions in order for her to continue driving.

I would have loved to take the car completely away however we live in a town where vehicles are necessary. She...
Forum: Parenting 6th January 2018, 4:52 PM
Replies: 251
Views: 21,963
Posted By jnel921
Thanks Murphomatic, Yes she feels very...

Thanks Murphomatic,

Yes she feels very entitled. Its bizarre.

We recently had a big argument because she thought it was okay to lend my car to her BF whom we don't know and partially...
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