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Forum: Infidelity 9th October 2018, 2:57 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 811
Posted By ladydesigner
Not married and no kids together? You dodged a...

Not married and no kids together? You dodged a bullet! This would have been your future had you married him. I would ask him not to contact you anymore and that you have moved on and he should too...
Forum: Infidelity 8th October 2018, 5:05 PM
Replies: 98
Views: 3,798
Posted By ladydesigner
By going to see your own therapist. Your wife...

By going to see your own therapist. Your wife should have her own. There should be no marriage counseling at this point. You have way too many issues OP and the peeling of the onion is look deep...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 8th October 2018, 4:25 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 759
Posted By ladydesigner
I agree tell his wife then go NC and don't go...

I agree tell his wife then go NC and don't go down the slippery slope again. Even if the OW does win the MM they really are winning a professional liar then you have to always watch your back and who...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 8th October 2018, 2:55 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 4,496
Posted By ladydesigner
The WS creates the situation of chaos honestly...

The WS creates the situation of chaos honestly why does anyone care that the WS is suffering. OP good on you for going NC!
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 5th October 2018, 7:34 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 4,496
Posted By ladydesigner
This is so spot on from Pepperbird. It bears...

This is so spot on from Pepperbird. It bears repeating and every OW here should really consider examining this.

When they show you who they are believe them. They do this from go.
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 18th September 2018, 1:10 PM
Replies: 122
Views: 6,653
Posted By ladydesigner
Totally. I would take it down a few notches it...

Totally. I would take it down a few notches it seems the only one thinking of the kids is their mother thank god. I feel sorry for them.
Forum: Infidelity 13th September 2018, 5:13 PM
Replies: 47
Views: 4,616
Posted By ladydesigner
newfocus your M doesn't have a chance because you...

newfocus your M doesn't have a chance because you are still hiding the truth from your wife. That will always be a barrier in the M whether you like it or not. Your wife is also healing on her own...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 10th July 2018, 7:21 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 2,806
Posted By ladydesigner
Wash, rinse, repeat

Wash, rinse, repeat
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 10th July 2018, 7:16 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 1,858
Posted By ladydesigner
I'm not sure they even think that far as to why...

I'm not sure they even think that far as to why independent and successful women fall for them. If the manipulation is working... they win.
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 3rd July 2018, 7:06 PM
Replies: 162
Views: 12,562
Posted By ladydesigner
^^^This is on point. In fact us BS's have this...

^^^This is on point. In fact us BS's have this issue as well. These MM have something broken in them to hurt other people in this fashion. Some of these MM (like my WS) have a personality disorder...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 3rd July 2018, 6:31 PM
Replies: 41
Views: 2,822
Posted By ladydesigner
Yeah that would never work I'd have to have NC...

Yeah that would never work I'd have to have NC with the AP. It's a major reason I haven't divorced yet. I don't want my kids exposed to an AP.
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 3rd July 2018, 6:29 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 2,387
Posted By ladydesigner
This just happened to a friend of mine. She is...

This just happened to a friend of mine. She is devastated, but is beginning to realize how toxic he was. It sounds like you are attracting the wrong kind of people still and best to work on yourself...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 13th June 2018, 7:10 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 946
Posted By ladydesigner
I would always want to know. STD's are real and...

I would always want to know. STD's are real and scary thing with A's. Not only that but then I would be free to make my decision about MY future ;)
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 13th June 2018, 6:50 PM
Replies: 42
Views: 3,823
Posted By ladydesigner
There are no respectful A's this is really funny...

There are no respectful A's this is really funny and sad all at once.
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 13th June 2018, 6:45 PM
Replies: 212
Views: 15,942
Posted By ladydesigner
This is a FOO (family of origin) issue. I believe...

This is a FOO (family of origin) issue. I believe you are trying to right your situation from childhood by reenacting it and hoping for a different outcome. Have you ever talked with a therapist...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 13th June 2018, 6:30 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 1,594
Posted By ladydesigner
You are her addiction and not a healthy one.

You are her addiction and not a healthy one.
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 13th June 2018, 6:27 PM
Replies: 9
Views: 903
Posted By ladydesigner
Just by this statement alone. I hope you reap...

Just by this statement alone. I hope you reap what you sow. I feel absolutely no compassion for you as an exMOW/BS
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 13th June 2018, 6:25 PM
Replies: 37
Views: 2,699
Posted By ladydesigner
It's actually very simple... because they can. ...

It's actually very simple... because they can.

Same reason they suck us BS's back into the M... because they can.

Until one says no more either the OW or the BS the MM will do what they want...
Forum: General Relationship Discussion 12th June 2018, 7:30 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 6,502
Posted By ladydesigner
My parents were both married when they met. They...

My parents were both married when they met. They left their respective spouses within months to be together. They are still married to this day but not happily. My mom went on to have 3 more A's...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 19th January 2018, 8:32 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 3,101
Posted By ladydesigner
This is the redeeming part of this A. I hope you...

This is the redeeming part of this A. I hope you find your peace. Have you owned your part in the A as well? You claim to be a victim too, but you went into this knowing what the outcome could be...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 19th January 2018, 8:22 PM
Replies: 500
Views: 44,151
Posted By ladydesigner
This ^^^Exactly!

This ^^^Exactly!
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 27th December 2017, 8:53 PM
Replies: 92
Views: 6,008
Posted By ladydesigner
Why haven't you tried to REALLY go NC? I know it...

Why haven't you tried to REALLY go NC? I know it hurts but it helps end an affair and gives you your power back then you can rebuild your strength again. It will not happen if he is contacting you...
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 13th December 2017, 1:39 PM
Replies: 103
Views: 11,134
Posted By ladydesigner
I am so sorry (((goldengirl11))) your MM sounds...

I am so sorry (((goldengirl11))) your MM sounds quite arrogant and a jerk aka which imo is most married men.

Of course he thinks it's fine to be friends it lessens the guilt on his side. I would...
Forum: Infidelity 10th November 2017, 5:32 PM
Replies: 55
Views: 12,153
Posted By ladydesigner
I think he's lying too. She had a revenge affair,...

I think he's lying too. She had a revenge affair, doesn't make right (I am a madhatter too btw that's what they call us) but definitely just complicated the whole situation!
Forum: The Other Man / Woman 10th November 2017, 5:26 PM
Replies: 77
Views: 9,092
Posted By ladydesigner
The MM who groom their OW are cold and predatory...

The MM who groom their OW are cold and predatory :sick:
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