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Forum: Coping 18th July 2015, 1:03 AM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
I know how you feel. The only place I truly feel...

I know how you feel. The only place I truly feel at ease is either at home or at school. I know I will not see them there.

Hang in there. Maybe someday you will see her and be indifferent.
Forum: Coping 18th July 2015, 12:26 AM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
^^^ I pulled my bed out earlier this week and you...

^^^ I pulled my bed out earlier this week and you would not believe the nasty garbage my ex literally threw under my bed. He was so gross. Yes, cleaning is therapeutic.

As for me, it's been a hard...
Forum: Coping 7th July 2015, 10:38 PM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
I've been so busy with school the past couple of...

I've been so busy with school the past couple of days that I've barely had time to think of him. It's great. :)

It also makes me think that perhaps the reason I wanted him so badly to remain in my...
Forum: Coping 5th July 2015, 7:35 PM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
Been a busy few days, but I am feeling a bit...

Been a busy few days, but I am feeling a bit better. Had a wonderful fourth with friends. One of the ex's friends was there and called me "Mrs. [insert ex's last name here]" and it made me...
Forum: Coping 28th June 2015, 10:16 PM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
Today has been a really hard day. It's officially...

Today has been a really hard day. It's officially 2 months since BU and I faced a big setback the other night. I haven't been out of bed and have been sleeping all day. I haven't eaten, nor do I want...
Forum: Coping 13th June 2015, 8:56 PM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
3 weeks NC today! I almost broke it this...

3 weeks NC today!

I almost broke it this week because of my anger. I'm glad I didn't.

Had a wonderful night out with friends last night, and got my flirt on a little. Helped my self esteem...
Forum: Coping 12th June 2015, 3:01 AM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
Almost 3 weeks NC, and I thought things were...

Almost 3 weeks NC, and I thought things were going well... until this week.

I've had a wide range of emotions this week, but the most prominent one has been pure ANGER.

I sit here and think of...
Forum: Coping 11th June 2015, 4:40 AM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
It's so weird... I was perfectly fine the first 2...

It's so weird... I was perfectly fine the first 2 weeks of NC. I even felt empowered and "over" it all. The last few days, I've missed him. I don't know why.

I don't know how he could move on so...
Forum: Coping 8th June 2015, 5:17 PM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
Or these. :lmao: ...

Or these. :lmao:

http://www.buzzfeed.com/laraparker/greatest-responses-for-when-your-ex-texts-you#.vhDdmB6pR
Forum: Coping 8th June 2015, 4:52 PM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
Keep strong. I always read your posts and I feel...

Keep strong. I always read your posts and I feel your pain. It hurts that my ex does all the sweet things we did in the beginning with this LDR girl, and that he told me he didn't want a relationship...
Forum: Coping 8th June 2015, 11:45 AM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
^^^ I did the exact same yesterday (granted I was...

^^^ I did the exact same yesterday (granted I was a little tipsy at the time, but I pretty much knew the consequences). It actually made me feel better, because it made me realize what a pig my ex is...
Forum: Coping 7th June 2015, 6:20 PM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
Yeah, you may be right. I had a couple of men...

Yeah, you may be right. I had a couple of men approach me this weekend, and I just wasn't feeling it. I thought I was ready. Guess not. I just cannot, for the life of me, rebound. Wish I could say...
Forum: Coping 6th June 2015, 11:00 PM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
Has been a rough day today (mostly due to things...

Has been a rough day today (mostly due to things outside of my ex relationship). I almost texted him. I was upset and wanted to tell him how much he's ****ed up my life. I went as far as to write out...
Forum: Coping 4th June 2015, 11:53 PM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
Everyone seems to be having a bad day today. :( ...

Everyone seems to be having a bad day today. :(

Going out tonight with friends. Fingers are crossed that I don't see him. I've been doing good on the 13th day of NC, and not sad at all. :)
Forum: Coping 3rd June 2015, 7:49 PM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
Today is day 12 of NC. I'm so glad I come to this...

Today is day 12 of NC. I'm so glad I come to this forum and that I was convinced to go NC. I feel so empowered and like I'm moving on at a quicker pace. I've been able to realize that he was no good...
Forum: Coping 2nd June 2015, 3:33 AM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
Today was pretty good. I've gotten back into the...

Today was pretty good. I've gotten back into the gym routine I was so into before my ex and it is improving my self confidence. I had a brief moment of kinda sorta missing him today, then quickly got...
Forum: Coping 31st May 2015, 5:28 PM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
OldRover, I'm SO with you. This site has helped...

OldRover, I'm SO with you. This site has helped me so much with my breakup, but when I see posts from people who've been grieving over a year, it terrifies me. Will that be me? Yikes.


...
Forum: Coping 31st May 2015, 3:25 AM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
1 week NC today! Doesn't seem like much, but it's...

1 week NC today! Doesn't seem like much, but it's the longest we've gone without talking.

Today was a good day. Went to the lake with a friend and just floated around in the sun.

I did hear,...
Forum: Coping 29th May 2015, 5:39 PM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
Doing alright. Had a hard time sleeping, kept...

Doing alright. Had a hard time sleeping, kept having dreams about him. I've decided to not go out this weekend, since the last two times I've run into the ex and it wasn't good. So it looks like it's...
Forum: Coping 28th May 2015, 5:53 PM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
Feeling great. Went to the gym with a friend...

Feeling great. Went to the gym with a friend today, and she said I'm looking much better than a couple of weeks ago. Went for a healthy lunch. Feeling more and more like I don't need him everyday. I...
Forum: Coping 28th May 2015, 1:08 AM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
It's been a little more difficult today. I was...

It's been a little more difficult today. I was even half tempted to contact him, I think out of loneliness. It feels good to have all of his things gone, but it makes it feel so final, and after the...
Forum: Coping 27th May 2015, 12:09 AM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
Just be warned that if its Facebook you're...

Just be warned that if its Facebook you're unblocking him on, you have to wait 48 hours to reblock him again. I learned that the hard way.

Actually, when I dropped my ex's crap off today, I had a...
Forum: Coping 26th May 2015, 9:23 PM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
My friend took me to drop off the last of his...

My friend took me to drop off the last of his things today. I feel as though a huge weight has been lifted from my shoulders and I can finally put him behind me. I feel GREAT!!!!
Forum: Coping 20th May 2015, 5:34 PM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
Not good. Woke up in tears today. First time I've...

Not good. Woke up in tears today. First time I've cried in almost a week. I don't know what's wrong with me. I'll be good for a few days and then bam, tears. I wish there could be some magic button I...
Forum: Coping 14th May 2015, 1:44 AM
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Posted By ColdandLonelyinAK
Sushi making class. Sounds so fun!!! You...

Sushi making class. Sounds so fun!!!

You mentioned patching things up with a friend: don't breakups make you realize the importance of friendships? I patched up 3 friendships I lost during my...
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