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Old 8th March 2018, 4:43 PM   #16
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Did he ever tell you he would leave his wife for you after you found out about his marriage?
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Old 8th March 2018, 4:45 PM   #17
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The dust is likely to settle because of the scenario that Burnt has described. He seems to be skilled at gaslighting his wife. Add to that the we *want* to trust the people we love and sometimes we stick our heads in the sand in an effort not to unsettle our worlds... so, when the dust settles, imagine that he will start going through his mental rolodex in search of you or anyone else he has gotten over on in the past.

Don't let it be you that he finds. His situation will be exactly the same.
He is unworthy of any of your attention.
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Old 8th March 2018, 5:43 PM   #18
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Stay away from him. If his wife showed him pictures of you from your social media, it is likely that she knows a lot.
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Old 8th March 2018, 8:01 PM   #19
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Did he ever tell you he would leave his wife for you after you found out about his marriage?
Yes, I heard that line from him several times. "Someday in the future" yadda yadda yadda.
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Old 9th March 2018, 12:18 PM   #20
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You should show up at his gig with a new man
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Old 10th March 2018, 4:34 AM   #21
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I also think he's had quite a few womenn at his loveshack (apartment) over the years. His wife was likely onto him from past experience.
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