forgetmenot75 Posted May 16, 2013 Share Posted May 16, 2013 I've read some theories about attachment, and tried various tactics to break the crazy attachment I have right now with a man I met 5 months ago. I've tried NC more than 4 times, but either me or him broke it before day 13. Always. I am doing counseling and it's been helping me a lot. To the point that, even though he wanted to continue seeing me, I decided to ignore him. I am ignoring him and today is day 15 NC. I feel stronger, BUT this crazy attachment I still feel for him makes me still feel hope one day well be together. I also have physical sensations when I think of him, and he still is on my mind good part of the day So my reflection here is in which ways the mind stops playing games and finally we feel free from this bond with the other person. I'd like to hear opinions, or experiences. Is there one day that one feels a "click" and suddenly he's gone from our brain? What process have you been through to free yourself? Link to post Share on other sites
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