vwjetta99 Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 I caught her at the OM house. I decided to get rid of all her crap from my place and empty out all my stuff from her place. It felt good at the moment, but now that I'm mulling everything over I feel confused. What if I did the wrong thing? Will she ever admit her faults? Is this salvagable? I am a very deep and forgiving person and I try to put myself in her shoes. I just want to understand, but I don't know if she will ever let me understand. Do I need to understand to move on? I know I'm beating myself up over this, but it's hard to be strong when you've been played like a fool. Link to post Share on other sites
JayKay Posted March 5, 2006 Share Posted March 5, 2006 Well, look at it this way. If a friend of yours was in the same situation, what advice would you give him/her? I think infidelity needs to have strong and lasting consequences. She should come home to find your stuff gone and realize how badly she screwed up the relationship. Another suggestion; if she calls, don't answer and don't call back for at least a few weeks. Let her sweat it out. If she doesn't call, well then you know she REALLY didn't care. Link to post Share on other sites
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